Digression;
The abortion topic before hadn't even begun to get into some tricky ethical questions. One not-so-uncommon scenario which is incredibly hard to deal with is the case where:
"The mother wants an abortion but the father does not. What do you do?"
Just one to think about.
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Digressing 2 about the afterlife;
This whole court analogy is in shambles. It's not simply wishing for the best or worst until being shown otherwise. This sets up a false dichotomy between what should be two ends of a spectrum, with the middle ground being plugged by presenting evidence. You provide a statement, such as:
"The defendant is accused of xyz"
And your automatic response to this statement should be 'I reject that claim; but I am open-minded and will give you the chance to provide evidence'.
- If their evidence is sufficient, you accept their claim.
- If their evidence is hazy, you await for more or show them how their interpretation is wrong by providing counter-evidence.
- If their evidence is wrong or lacking, you say their claim is not supported and hence appropriately dismissed.
This protects us from the infinite number of false claims, myths, superstitions, delusions, or terrible ideas that can and are made on a daily basis. If you are intellectually honest, you will apply this process to ground yourself to reality.
And this process is called science.