Before the 2 losses we had at the end of the night faith, the only losses I have had since the patch I had 17 kills in all 3 (2 of which we had lost teamfights where I caught JUST the adc with my wall and stunned him and we lost the fight because the randoms couldn't react to that. Now 2 of those losses specifically were from someone (a random) on the team refusing to communicate with us, get a free baron, not split push top when u are the adc, etc...now am I suppose to say it's my fault I wasn't persuasive enough? or that I didn't go 18/0/20 instead of 17/4/22? Do I need to magically take control of their character after god walling just the adc too? there IS only so much someone can do, calling mias for your other lanes, timing their buffs, pinging for engages can only get you so far...some times you just have people who take characters who suck at a role, and they build dumb, don't listen, and frankly just get pissed off any time you try to help them. That can be even as much as pinging for them to back when they are overextended.
If I were to take adc brand bot and build tiamat and wits end and then constantly push my lane, not move when people are obviously coming towards me, refuse to take free barons/dragons, and take clarity, and if u gave me advice tell you to stfu, would u think I influenced the game outcome more than you personally could have handled? What could u have done to stop me from doing that? Tell me I was doing something wrong? Nope I would tell you to go **** yourself and split push bot lane when the mid inhib is open, bot has all of it's towers, and they are all dead (if you managed a 4v5 teamfight)...sometimes randoms are worse than dead weight man, and it's ok to comment on it, as long as you admit your own mistakes, and own up to them when someone brings them up. Which we all do.