Sorry about your situation, I hope you continue to help your community and experience/put up with less BS. Dont let everyone pay for what they did tho...
Not that the above isnt sincere, but what I really want to know is what does a "typical female gamer" act like?
Well, there are two types:
1) The attention craving adolescents who, by virtue of the fact they are a female (usually on the bare minimum of acceptable attractiveness, though there are exceptions) in a community largely populated by awkward, socially inept (again, exceptions... but most of the people who go "ga-ga" over a ZOMFGAFEMALEGAMERYUSTITSORGTFO!!! as opposed to seeing them as a female who happens to play video games usually ARE socially inept) teen males naturally garner a bit of attention. They enjoy being the object of desire, as their shenanigans usually amount to nothing in the "non-video game" arena of life & do as much as possible to focus said attention on themselves.
2) The super odd/creepy girls who mouth-breathe, consider their best friend their cat whose named Vincent or a Kirby plushie. Most often times they go unnoticed because they don't have "moderately attractive" looks, and if they do that is immediately offset by the sheer volume of "oddness" they exude. However, they still get some attention because they have REAL LIVE BREASTS!!