I am listening to music like, ALL of the time. When I'm not doing that, I'm playing music. A good majority of it is noisecore or death metal subgenres. If a girl isn't down with that, it won't make for a good time on either end. She doesn't have to love the music, but if she's gonna whine and complain every time I get into it it just will not work out.I've never understood the concept of not liking/wanting to be with someone because they don't like the music you like.
I mean, its one thing if you're a musician and make a living from your band and lifestyle, then i could see how that would be cause for incapatability.
but if you're just a metalhead or something who just really likes a kind of music, I don't see how its such a big deal if ur significant other doesn't want to sit in your bed and blandly listen to music with you. do that on your own imo