Dudu- With a wife, a kid, a full time job AND moving into a new house that he bought at the age of 22, Bob still makes it to my house once a week and to most Smashfests at RIT. I will flat out say there is no one I have met in my life, at his age, that has as much on their plate as he does. And he's one of the two - four most motivated players in the region, the others being Nightro, A nub, and Alex. Next up is Spamus I believe. You really can't yell at him.
Also, what he's getting at is how absolutely ridiculous the potential of Rochester is for at least Melee. (can't speak for brawl, pretty disconnected w/the community at that point)
Like, we live in an apartment together. That's better than any other region has it besides Socal because they have that too. The raw potential is insane, but the will isn't there right now.
On one hand, from a person to person perspective, people have other stuff going on and that's cool, because I don't really expect other people to have as much drive for Melee (who to most people is "just" a game) as I do, cuz that's rare.
On the other hand though, from a competitive gaming perspective, I'm not gonna lie, I definitely feel betrayed and abandoned by my apartment members due to how high the motivation was initially, when we moved in (the game brought us all together) and then watching them dibble dabble in other games that they're just going to quit at max, a year or so from now.
That's actually a huge part of my motivation, is when I first break top 10 at a national and get a lot of hype, I want to prove to the other members of the apartment that it IS possible for ANYONE, even from a region of very few, and most of them unmotivated players, to rise to the top.
Another big reason too, and not to be cocky cuz that's not where this is coming from, is that i literally **** people so bad now and I'm so super competitive with it, I can tell people don't have fun playing me. They might argue and say that's not true, but it def is.
But again that's from a melee perspective. From person to person, it's completely understandable. People just develop different interests. I'm just scared that they're going to do the same thing they did in melee- when it gets tougher to improve and they hit a plateau, they begin to get attracted to a new game, forever stuck in a cycle of mediocrity. We'll see though hahahahahahahahHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAhahaha....
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