i didn't look at the video until now. it's good advice, but it's also something I've already learned very well thanks to my ex roommates. That was definitely pre-december my most prominent weakness, but after witnessing someone else in my exact situation, having the tools to improve but not due to emotional weakness, i took steps necessary to remove that obsticle.
For those who want to call bull****, it's the truth, though I'll be more specific. I have removed most emotion from my IN-GAME self. When it comes to the actual match I am very focused and controlled. It is still noticeable when I am and am not confident, which is my next hurdle, learning to never lose hope, and never allow the loss of momentum or loss of the crowd to defeat me.
In the thread I made in melee discussion someone called me an emotional smasher and that's incorrect. I'm a confidence-based smasher, which is further accentuated by the fact that Falco is a confidence-based character.
Outside of smash I still have difficulties with my emotions. I'm bottling up an unhealthy amount of hate, disappointment, and depression due to a rocky childhood and a horrible beginning of adulthood, and it's actually getting worse despite my actual life getting better.