Hm... That was indeed a very great read. Thanks a lot, Sky. ^^
@Mazaloth:
I kinda agree and disagree with you.
Look for example at me. I have a hereditary defect on my finger joints. I can't play for long, otherwise my fingers hurt like sh*t (2-3 hours max, then I need a break), and my fingers in general react a little bit slower. This is a physical limitation to my own possible gameplay. It's something I rather wouldn't have, but I still have it, and I AM aiming to become a better player than I am right now.
It all seems like fantasy, considering my finger joints, and my lack of many different partners to train with.
But...
I've been playing quite a lot recently. Before, I've sucked a lot - especially in Brawl. In Melee I've always been a decent player, and due to my chaotic and unpredictable playstyle my Peach was not that bad. In my city, I'm an above average Melee player. And that although I don't really play Melee, and haven't played it for a long time!
I started to pick up Brawl lately, again. I've never been able to stay with one character, as I liked to play randomly a lot. Now, I've decided to drop those other characters and go with one character as a main - Bowser -, and 2 other characters to cover Bowser's weaknesses and bad matchups, but still having a not too different style. As Fiction did, I've changed colours, too. I'll maybe change my tag, too.
And I'm FEELING that I got better. Before that click I was even losing to like, Level 7 CPUs. Now I'm 3-stocking Level 9 CPUs. Of course, fighting CPUs doesn't mean THAT much, but you can see how this mental switch matters.
If you REALLY want to, you CAN get better.
That comparison with the math class wasn't that dumb. Really. The difference is that you're not bound to like math, whereas I assume you like Smash. And I'm pretty sure everyone would like to get better at Smash.
If you learn enough math, do many examples and exercises of the stuff you don't understand, one time, there will be the click, and you will easily solve every calculation you might get.
It's like that with everything you might do.
Of course, a natural talent has it far easier, but even if you have little talent, you can become better, you just have to work far harder than others do.