Surgi don't get shepharded into the position you've been nudged into. Here's how it should go:
You: I think I should be higher. *Cite reasons*
Them: Well we don't think so. Actions speak louder than words.
You: Okay well keep my reasons in mind, because I think I make a solid case.
Them: Money match Tibs.
You: You money match Tibs if you love him so much. I've got tourney results to achieve.
Play into this social trap they're using on you, and you'll feel outcast, play badly because you feel you've got something to prove, and ultimately end up quitting from not enjoying yourself.
Lastly, don't stress about rank. I'm not ranked but I know I can near enough beat everyone in the country once I shake off some rust. Be happy with your ability...not people acknowledging it.