The Unhappy Thread

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kick him in the ****

 

[Luigitoilet]

I dunno how people don't instantly turn off to someone when they find out they are taken. It's just so...distant and unattractive. I lose interest almost immediately. I think this is a defense mechanism...so quote, get on that I guess lol. It's less pain than holding onto some stupid vague "someday" and feeding your infatuation on false hope

I have slept with girls with boyfriends but I don't let myself become or continue being emotionally attached to someone who is already taken.

 

[KRDsonic]

Yeah... I've always thought of it was pretty bad when someone goes after someone who is already taken. There were a lot of people who did that with my last ex, there's someone who did it with me before (which made me feel very awkward to have to tell someone no over and over) and it just... doesn't usually lead to good outcomes. Especially because yeah, you might be able to get the person to leave who they're with, but then if they're the kind of person to leave one person for another, chances are they'll leave you for someone else too later.

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

I dunno how people don't instantly turn off to someone when they find out they are taken. It's just so...distant and unattractive. I lose interest almost immediately. I think this is a defense mechanism...so quote, get on that I guess lol. It's less pain than holding onto some stupid vague "someday" and feeding your infatuation on false hope

I have slept with girls with boyfriends but I don't let myself become or continue being emotionally attached to someone who is already taken.

I unfortunetly cannot follow my own advice when that is concerned. I feel as if it's hopeless and move on.

Only because I actually DID go after a girl in a relationship and she kept leading me on.

When she finally broke up with the guy, she hooked up with someone else. She just met.

Needless to say, I have no interest in talking with her again

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Edit: I sold the blood rayne movie to a customer today. I've lost all hope in humanity

 

[quote]

It's a complicated thing for me. The number of people that I end up being interested in is very small. The whole "someday" effect is probably because I just don't become interested in anyone new for a while rather than a fixation on anyone in particular. I might see like 2-4 people a year that I'm interested in while most normal people meet like 20 or more. Tbh I really don't know where normal is.

 

[Holder of the Heel]

I'm lucky to be genuinely interested in just one a year!

Or perhaps I should say unlucky.

 

[SuperBowser]

had to tell someone they had cancer today

 

[KRDsonic]

Cancer needs to go away and stop existing :<

 

[Oneupsalesman]

If she's not wearing a ring she's free game

Free game for you to screw up the relationship. People don't really need that.

Sorry, Quote. Just wait. More people come along, though it seems like they won't at the time.

 

[Holder of the Heel]

Well, it's not like Pyscho can mind control people in the relationship.

That's why I'm always confused with how people in relationships need trust in the sense that they aren't going to "betray" the contract between them. I get that they have value in the relationship they have with their other, but if your other legitimately finds someone else and goes with them instead or sleeps with them, then A) you really shouldn't be with them and B) they clearly are doing what they want, with their own volition, so let them do it and just let the contract die. Plain and simple. I'm not saying feeling bad about it or disappointed is inappropriate (in ways it is), but people only have selfishness and control in mind with that sort of trust.

 

[KRDsonic]

Edit: nevermind

 

[Oneupsalesman]

Well, it's not like Pyscho can mind control people in the relationship.

That's why I'm always confused with how people in relationships need trust in the sense that they aren't going to "betray" the contract between them. I get that they have value in the relationship they have with their other, but if your other legitimately finds someone else and goes with them instead or sleeps with them, then A) you really shouldn't be with them and B) they clearly are doing what they want, with their own volition, so let them do it and just let the contract die. Plain and simple. I'm not saying feeling bad about it or disappointed is inappropriate (in ways it is), but people only have selfishness and control in mind with that sort of trust.

That feeling of betrayal is natural, though, someone can go about a better way of breaking off the relationship than just cheating.

 

[#HBC | J]

Today/tonight sucks so much.

 

[Chronodiver Lokii]

What's wrong, J?

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

I just figured out why I am continuing to get ...sicker.

One thing I'm not suppose to drink is citric acid. I've been drinking stuff with citric acid like crazy because I was avoiding another thing I'm not suppose to drink - caffeine.

Unfortunately my favorite drink, green tea, has caffeine so I've been trying to find something good to drink without caffeine

 

[KRDsonic]

If you're looking for non-acidic and non-caffeine, then Water, Milk, and Gatorade/Powerade are basically your only choice. Well, and certain types of tea I suppose.

 

[Froggy]

I am talking to myself more and more at work and I can't seem to help it. My coworkers are going to think I'm crazy more and more now

 

[Luigitoilet]

copypaste

I'm a baby. I barely care about anyone except me. lots of the time I don't care what anyone says or thinks unless it is directly related to me, and furthermore only if it is positive. but then again I usually don't care about that either. more people like/love/admire me now than ever in my life and I don't care about it. My band is actually starting to go places. We played an incredible mini-tour in the Carolinas and sold all our merch and made tons of fans and some radioplay in two states...and I could not be more apathetic and disenchanted about it. I don't even touch my guitar except when I have to practice or play a show. And at many shows all I'm thinking about is how I hope being up here playing is going to get me laid. I get angry at girls who won't have sex with me and try to end friendships over it. I'm oversexed and it's almost the only thing I think about these days. I get incredibly clingy and puppy-like to girls who show me physical affection and the rest are invisible or outright detestable to me. I feel like a Fallout Boy song. I just want to play shows and have sex all the time without any of the work or trouble it takes to reap those rewards.

 

[~automatic]

So is this a general/social thread for complaining?

 

[Chronodiver Lokii]

I need to learn to fight my battles better and learn when to keep my mouth shut

 

[Luigitoilet]

So is this a general/social thread for complaining?

Yes. Why don't you read the OP or the thread title?

 

[~automatic]

Yes. Why don't you read the OP or the thread title?

Because I rarely have time for such things nowadays.

 

[Luigitoilet]

Dang man it's like three sentences. not trying to be a jerk but dang man

 

[Holder of the Heel]

Luigi, why do you think you feel that way? You say that you are only concerned about yourself or interested in yourself, but when people like, love, and admire you, it doesn't matter much to you, you say. Is that because, despite it being kind sentiments about you, since it isn't from you, you aren't interested? Is it because you're not interested in anyone intellectually or personally that sex is the only useful thing to you?

Sorry, just interested in your situation and your thinking.

 

[#HBC | J]

What's wrong, J?

Been having really bad days lately like mentally. It's weird and I don't know how to explain it but I'm just really really upset and sometimes for no reason and I don't get why.

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

At work we now have to wear these sheets on our badge which tells our performance.

The ONLY reason I can think to as for use wearing them is for discrimination purposes. It gives us, as human beings, numerical values - Tangible data in order to place ourselves higher or lower in worth from one another.

They are planning on having the faster workers discriminate against the slower workers in an attempt to force them into working faster.

I can't think of a single other reason why they would make use wear those numbers.

 

[Froggy]

Luigi, I've been there. There was a point where having sex with quality call girls was the only thing that seemed to give my life any meaning. I can relate It sounds like you're just bored with everything and everyone except for sex and playing shows. The only real advice I can give you is find other things that'll give your life meaning as well, if you're unhappy with your current state of mind.

And I think like me, after you keep having sex you'll come to realize that it's not so amazing.

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

I've just never had sex. A girl putting her hand on my arm the other day was the most contact I had with a girl in 6 years

 

[Chronodiver Lokii]

Been having really bad days lately like mentally. It's weird and I don't know how to explain it but I'm just really really upset and sometimes for no reason and I don't get why.

Awww

Try going on an adventure with friends or exploring to a local park or something. Fresh air can do you a lot of good, and getting out and doing things can help to fix bad feelings.
It's worked wonders for me and dealing with feelings of anxiety.

 

[cannedbread]

celebrity crushes are one of the dumbest things ever god damnit ****ing ****

 

[Master Xanthan]

I'm starting to think that college just isn't worth it.

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

As someone that spent the last few years working my *** for very little pay, I'm really happy being back in college now

 

[Master Xanthan]

As someone that spent the last few years working my *** for very little pay, I'm really happy being back in college now

That's a good point. I guess I should just stick with college. I just get really stressed when its time for exams.

 

[SnackAttack]

This weekend is gonna be ****ing terrible.

 

[ShroudedOne]

I second staying in college. It's much harder to find a job/make a decent living without having a degree of some sort, trust me. :\

 

[Atrain]

Woke up, stubbed my toe. Toenail cracked.

 

[Hot_ArmS]

This weekend is gonna be ****ing terrible.

wai???????????????

 

[SnackAttack]

wai???????????????

All of my friends are going home this weekend, which means no parties.

 

[cannedbread]

Woke up, stubbed my toe. Toenail cracked.

oh gooood i hate that. which toe? it'll most likely fall off while you're showering but i hate having to be like consciously aware of injuries.

 

[Chronodiver Lokii]

..................it has begun

......craziest quarter of classes yet o A o

Material and lighting class on tuesday mornings which is a class on 3D modeling, texturing, lighting, and cameras. Wednesdays is game design/gameplay where i have to write game docs and basically shell out an entire game concept on my own in 11 weeks. Thursdays is Background Design/Layout which is another game concept based class where we are put in teams and have to make animatics based on games....and I am in charge of all of the concept work (story, concept art, etc) and will have to help with all of the other aspects. Thursdays is also Digital Sculpting/texturing....which is a Zbrush elective (I HAVE NEVER SERIOUSLY USED ZBRUSH OH JEEZ). And fridays I round off the week with 3D animation and I hope to GOD i dont have to do crazy amounts of modeling because then I will freak out. Animation isn't TOO bad.

And then, my friends who are in their final quarters want me to help with their game production team class and do concept work.

.....skljfskdlfjsklfajd

though im not necessarily unhappy....just unhappy sleep will be less of an option