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The Unhappy Thread

Pikaville

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I'm unhappy that this is one the most interesting threads on all of SWF.

Protip: If you are having trouble trash talking in CoD then just use default *insult local sports team* or make sure you kill them 1st, then just tell them they suck.

Also I am still super unhappy that I can't watch porn at all.

Although one of my friends actually offered me the use of his laptop whenever I'm at his.

He just made me promise not to leave the tabs open :p
 

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going to work on 3 and half hours of sleep.

A part of me really does wish that I'd just get fired. I don't give a **** anymore
 

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One of my friends I knew when I was a kid tried to kill herself a few years ago. It had been a couple years and we never really were close so it was kinda a wtf why kind of thing. Met up with her again last summer and we became close friends and then started dating about the begining of fall. Fast forward a couple months I come to find the reason why she attempted suicide is due to being ***** shortly after we stopped hanging out and the trauma resulted in her contracting Dissociative Identity Disorder.

Half of her knows everything about it and can't stand barely stand living..the other half only has a vague idea from nightmares she constantly has that are probably memories of what happened to her.

Rage..lots of rage..neither side can or will tell me who it is even though one half of her knows exactly who it is. I want to kill the ****er in ways that even the jigsaw killer wouldn't fathom. I'll take it up with God when I'm dead. Right now I'm trying desperately to keep her alive.. she won't stop cutting herself when she "switches". I'm trying to help her put herself back together..idk if I can..it's been years so maybe it can't be done..I'm the only one that's ever gotten this far so..mental hospital was absolutely useless just like in the damn movies. Believe or don't believe me or don't care..I just needed to get this off my chest because there is nobody that I know in person that I can go to..those who care enough to at least put on a facade of caring, or know what it's like to have somebody that's like this, please wish me luck. I'm gonna need it.
 

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Good luck, man. That is a really tough situation, and I don't really know what you should do in that situation. I do know that you can't solve her problems on your own. You, at the very least, need to get other people involved that you can trust and will care. I don't know about the usefulness of mental care hospitals, but just because one is bad doesn't mean that they all are.

Again, good luck. I can only imagine what kind of mental turmoil you must be going through.
 

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The last time she attempted suicide a few years ago they put her there and no one could understand what was going on. Neither one of them have control of when she "switches" so it makes it very hard.. for anyone to understand. Her mom is too out of it to help and the remembering half will not let me tell her and the other half doesn't remember enough to tell her enough to make her mom believe her. And her mom's too messed up on her pain meds half the time to help anyway. She has no father and her grandparents are senile.

My family would either not believe or suggest to put her back in the same place she was at. I don't really know who I could involve for this honestly.
 

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One of my friends I knew when I was a kid tried to kill herself a few years ago. It had been a couple years and we never really were close so it was kinda a wtf why kind of thing. Met up with her again last summer and we became close friends and then started dating about the begining of fall. Fast forward a couple months I come to find the reason why she attempted suicide is due to being ***** shortly after we stopped hanging out and the trauma resulted in her contracting Dissociative Identity Disorder.

Half of her knows everything about it and can't stand barely stand living..the other half only has a vague idea from nightmares she constantly has that are probably memories of what happened to her.

Rage..lots of rage..neither side can or will tell me who it is even though one half of her knows exactly who it is. I want to kill the ****er in ways that even the jigsaw killer wouldn't fathom. I'll take it up with God when I'm dead. Right now I'm trying desperately to keep her alive.. she won't stop cutting herself when she "switches". I'm trying to help her put herself back together..idk if I can..it's been years so maybe it can't be done..I'm the only one that's ever gotten this far so..mental hospital was absolutely useless just like in the damn movies. Believe or don't believe me or don't care..I just needed to get this off my chest because there is nobody that I know in person that I can go to..those who care enough to at least put on a facade of caring, or know what it's like to have somebody that's like this, please wish me luck. I'm gonna need it.
How much do you love this girl? How much are you willing to do for her? My advice would be that the next time she wants to cut herself, tell her to cut you instead. I think that will help her alleviate all a lot of her rage, and it will show her you're therefore her in ways that your words, presence and other gestures that she can't appreciate in her current state would not. I think it'd be your best for getting through to her.

You may also want to look into support groups for this kinda thing. Instead of a mental hospital maybe try introducing her to other people who have been through the same thing. She probably needs people she can relate to in her life.
 

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Since when on earth did I become such a pessimist. I realize now that I am not trying a lot of stuff simply because I think I'll fail it. That didn't use to be me.
 

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How much do you love this girl? How much are you willing to do for her? My advice would be that the next time she wants to cut herself, tell her to cut you instead. I think that will help her alleviate all a lot of her rage, and it will show her you're therefore her in ways that your words, presence and other gestures that she can't appreciate in her current state would not. I think it'd be your best for getting through to her.

You may also want to look into support groups for this kinda thing. Instead of a mental hospital maybe try introducing her to other people who have been through the same thing. She probably needs people she can relate to in her life.
I changed my mind, you're the best poster.
 

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One of my friends I knew when I was a kid tried to kill herself a few years ago. It had been a couple years and we never really were close so it was kinda a wtf why kind of thing. Met up with her again last summer and we became close friends and then started dating about the begining of fall. Fast forward a couple months I come to find the reason why she attempted suicide is due to being ***** shortly after we stopped hanging out and the trauma resulted in her contracting Dissociative Identity Disorder.

Half of her knows everything about it and can't stand barely stand living..the other half only has a vague idea from nightmares she constantly has that are probably memories of what happened to her.

Rage..lots of rage..neither side can or will tell me who it is even though one half of her knows exactly who it is. I want to kill the ****er in ways that even the jigsaw killer wouldn't fathom. I'll take it up with God when I'm dead. Right now I'm trying desperately to keep her alive.. she won't stop cutting herself when she "switches". I'm trying to help her put herself back together..idk if I can..it's been years so maybe it can't be done..I'm the only one that's ever gotten this far so..mental hospital was absolutely useless just like in the damn movies. Believe or don't believe me or don't care..I just needed to get this off my chest because there is nobody that I know in person that I can go to..those who care enough to at least put on a facade of caring, or know what it's like to have somebody that's like this, please wish me luck. I'm gonna need it.
I definitely wish you luck. It sounds like a horrible situation she's in and it's nice of you to help her like this.
 

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Just received the first of my student loan bills today. And Oooh la la! The monthly fee is gonna be more than I can manage at this time. I'm gonna call them ASAP and see if there is a different repayment plan I can go on(cheaper payment over a long period of time) until I get a better paying job.

Six months since I graduated now!
 

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Probably because you have romantic feelings for her and don't realise it.

Alot of the time people don't realise they're attracted to someone of the opposite sex. The enjoyment you get out of the friendship is probably attraction, but because you didn't consciously acknowledge it as a crush you don't think of it that way.

I think a lot of people, particularly guys have what I call 'secondary crushes'. What I mean by these are people who you don't consciously think you have a crush on or pursure, but if they asked you out or came onto you you wouldn't refuse. These are generally nice, attractive people who are universally attractive.
Am I secondary crush or regular crush?

:phone:
 

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How much do you love this girl? How much are you willing to do for her? My advice would be that the next time she wants to cut herself, tell her to cut you instead. I think that will help her alleviate all a lot of her rage, and it will show her you're therefore her in ways that your words, presence and other gestures that she can't appreciate in her current state would not. I think it'd be your best for getting through to her.

You may also want to look into support groups for this kinda thing. Instead of a mental hospital maybe try introducing her to other people who have been through the same thing. She probably needs people she can relate to in her life.
The rage is on my end towards what happened to her and the person who did it...who she refuses to tell me anything about..so I don't show her what I think about it anymore as her remembering self is past the point of being angry and is just heading for the bottom of depression. It only makes her feel worse about telling me and makes her not want to be open with me.

I'd cut myself right in front of her if I thought that would make a difference. Maybe it would idk..she doesn't tell me things like that unless she's somewhere I can't prevent her from doing it.

Yesterday she was here and when she switched over she didn't seem to feel as bad as she has been lately..but on the other hand, her arm is covered in them as well as her leg....she refuses to go to any kind of counseling or anything like that. Support groups I'm not sure..the only time she remembers, for longer for more than a few minutes at a time, is at night. Though tonight she hasn't switched yet thankfully since she's at home. There's not much rhyme or reason to it. But next time she switches I'll talk to her about it.

I definitely wish you luck. It sounds like a horrible situation she's in and it's nice of you to help her like this.
Thanks, I love her and I'm gonna see her through this to whatever end it brings us. Hopefully a good one.
 

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*SIGH* I promised to buy a camera for my little cousin, but all the decent ones were just way to expensive. This isn't such a big deal but I do feel bad about it.
 

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I'm about to make the first repayment on one of my student loans, while asking for a different repayment plan. *sighs* this really needs to go well.

Edit: rant to make: Hmmmmm. Just had a convo with my brother. And he's telling me how I have an inferiority complex because everyone in the house thinks he's the smartest child and I think they're wrong and therefore I'm upset about that. I don't have an inferiority complex about that. What does bother me is that they think he knows me really well, when he really doesn't. Now except for my elder cousin I really don't care about what any of them think of me but it does bother me, if they have a bad impression of me I am absolutely fine with me. What does bother me when someone creates a persona for me, if they think I am incompetent, ********, gay, awkward, whatever (my words, no one elses) then that should be based on their interactions with me and not what someone else has told them. I guess I do care on some level since it bothers me that they're believing me, or perhaps it only bothers me because I may befriend them later and that'll be difficult since they perception of me is being molded in a way it's not. :/

Too bad I guess.
 

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Does anyone else prevent relationships that could possibly end up great because you want someone else that possibly end up in failure anyway, or do I just suck?
 

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People don't appreciate how much getting a job is about random luck. I don't even remember how I found the place I'm working at now, but if they didn't ask me how to find out if a binary tree is cyclical, I'd prolly be still looking. You would be more successful socializing at college instead of actually learning how to do things. That's a ****ed up system, but I can't pinpoint exactly how it went wrong between generations. People with the hookup of knowing somebody who owns a business can't appreciate that. People have too much disassociation with reality. I think ignorance is selfish. It makes you feel better to think you're somehow better than everyone else instead of acknowledging that you just got lucky, but it makes everyone else feel worse. I think society would be better if everyone was enlightened, but it's a prisoner's dilemma.

Knowledge is kinda like exercise. Some people like doing it, so they don't ever have a problem. Most people have to to work to varying degrees, but they can maintain an acceptable level of physical fitness. Some just can't get there for one reason of another, and it's a shame. I think most people who can't get fit have some sort of mental issue that keeps them from exersizing. Like everyone in the therapist's office is fat. Anyway, some people like pursuing knowledge, so they never have to worry about being ignorant. Most people need to actively remember to enrich themselves, and some would never get there. The difference is the penalty for lacking physical fitness is applied to you, whereas the penalty for lacking mental fitness is applied to everyone else, so nobody works toward it, because everyone is selfish. Is there an "anti-intellectual" movement? Maybe dumb people are just anti-other, and other includes the smart, because, you know, they're dumb. I dunno, I'm just rambling. My boyfriend isn't awake yet.
 

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Oh my god. I told you that I don't want to become a doctor. Please stop stalking me. Jesus Christ.
 

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People don't appreciate how much getting a job is about random luck. I don't even remember how I found the place I'm working at now, but if they didn't ask me how to find out if a binary tree is cyclical, I'd prolly be still looking. You would be more successful socializing at college instead of actually learning how to do things. That's a ****ed up system, but I can't pinpoint exactly how it went wrong between generations. People with the hookup of knowing somebody who owns a business can't appreciate that. People have too much disassociation with reality. I think ignorance is selfish. It makes you feel better to think you're somehow better than everyone else instead of acknowledging that you just got lucky, but it makes everyone else feel worse. I think society would be better if everyone was enlightened, but it's a prisoner's dilemma. Knowledge is kinda like exercise. Some people like doing it, so they don't ever have a problem. Most people have to to work to varying degrees, but they can maintain an acceptable level of physical fitness. Some just can't get there for one reason of another, and it's a shame. I think most people who can't get fit have some sort of mental issue that keeps them from exersizing. Like everyone in the therapist's office is fat. Anyway, some people like pursuing knowledge, so they never have to worry about being ignorant. Most people need to actively remember to enrich themselves, and some will never get there. The difference is the penalty for lacking physical fitness is applied to you, whereas the penalty for lacking mental fitness is applied to everyone else, so nobody works toward it, because everyone is selfish. Is there an "anti-intellectual" movement? Maybe dumb people are just anti-other, and other includes the smart, because, you know, they're dumb. I dunno, I'm just rambling. My boyfriend isn't awake yet.
Use paragraph breaks.

Also I'm imagining you totally geeked out on a lot of coke when I read this post.
 

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There is sort of an anti-intellectual movement from what I've noticed. Maybe it's because... being well informed and knowledgeable doesn't actually get you anywhere in life, like you're talking about with your college example. *shrug* I don't really know. I just know that anytime I'm around people and I feel like I have something interesting and thoughtful to say, people just look at me like "Why are you talking about that when we can talk about some new show that's out?"

Nobody wants to face reality, especially their own. This doesn't bode well for intellectuals.
 

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One of my closest friends and I, aren't friends anymore, because we fought too much and did things the other didn't like. I just have this feeling of dread inside, because it's not like it was really either of our faults, we're just both a little difficult to get along with and we had bad luck. When things get ****ed over because of bad luck it sucks, I wish I could blame someone, even if it were myself.
 

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I just know that anytime I'm around people and I feel like I have something interesting and thoughtful to say, people just look at me like "Why are you talking about that when we can talk about some new show that's out?"

Nobody wants to face reality, especially their own. This doesn't bode well for intellectuals.
That could just mean you are really boring.

or, eh, yeah, anti-intellectualism movement. right.

:p
 

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Got into a car accident today. No damage done to anyone, no insurance information exchanged, no police called. Still paranoid that the guy is going to call me asking for money.
 

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I keep meeting people who are wearing the colors of the Ethiopian flag for no reason other than "I smoke weed too!"

Why can't they just go away forever? I have actually been laughed at by a group of these people for trying to bring up what they called "boring history crap" when I started talking about Haile Selassie I, who they had never heard of. Something similar has happened to me when I brought up Marcus Garvey to a different group. Surprise surprise, they'd never heard of him either.

Such a joke.
 

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I'm pretty sure they just want to smoke weed.

No one really stands for anything these days anyway
 

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Nah man it's like ONE LOVE ya know?

It'd be like a guy in Europe wearing a shirt with the Mexican flag on it. But not because he likes Mexico. In fact, he's never met a Mexican person and doesn't know anything about Mexico...he can't even point to Mexico on a map.

He just likes Tequila.
 

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I'm about ready to make a mix-feelings thread myself. Really this is ridiculous.

So I was contacted for a job today, which I initially declined because they wanted me to start Wednesday and I was committed to finishing the project at my current job. I spoke to one of my bosses(I have two at this job) and she pushed me to go get the job, saying that my duration at this job is nearly over, there is more potential growth on that job, it's a fantastic resume builder, and she by herself will be a strong reference from this job anyways.

So I've decided to take the job. Right now waiting on them to tell me that it all checks out and I do have the job(the recruiter said they aren't looking to interview, they'll just hire me). The main issue with the job however, is that the commute is ****ing awful. This is really gonna affect my quality of life. I don't have a car and by public transportation it's 2 going and coming back, and on Saturdays(they said I'd have to be open to overtime) it'll be 3 **** hours! I'm gonna have to change my entire sleep schedule!

What'll probably have to happen is that I'll likely have to move over there. Which isn't ideal because I have a very cheap apartment(fantastic considering all things included) and it's very very close to major transportation hubs. Also Unless they hire me full time this job is only a 2 month contract. So it probably wouldn't be worth it. IDK!
 

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So, just had to turn down that job again. I wouldn't mind the 2 hour long commute to the job, being realistic the majority of the jobs isn't going to be in a comfortable distance from where I live so I have to be ok with harsh commutes. But this job wants me to get there at 7(6:45?). I'd have to wake up 4ish. It's just too big a shift for me, it's not something I can handle yet. I'm still working on my self-discipline and my self-competence.

Under different circumstances my solution would be to simply relocate over there. However this is just a two month contract(the minimum I've encountered before this is 6 months) and I can't relocate from the great spot I'm at such a short work duration. Not to mention that they pay isn't very good and I don't even have a grace period to search for a new apartment. It's unfortunate but I'm about to call my recruiter back(ex-recruiter after this probably) and tell him i can't take the position.
 

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IDK, that almost seems better since it'll be easy to sleep on the bus. Otherwise you'd just be bored.
 

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I keep meeting people who are wearing the colors of the Ethiopian flag for no reason other than "I smoke weed too!"

Why can't they just go away forever? I have actually been laughed at by a group of these people for trying to bring up what they called "boring history crap" when I started talking about Haile Selassie I, who they had never heard of. Something similar has happened to me when I brought up Marcus Garvey to a different group. Surprise surprise, they'd never heard of him either.

Such a joke.
You sound like a real clod, and an unpleasant person to hang out with.
 

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Does anyone ever get the feeling that there's some force in the universe designed to screw with your plans so that everything goes wrong at the most inopportune times?

Maybe I'm just overreacting, but the only Melee player in my area comes over to hang out, and all of a sudden my wii refuses to turn on. I was JUST playing Skyward Sword on it and then bam, not working. I fixed it a couple minutes after the guy left.

I can hear something in the universe laughing at how pissed off I am.
 

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Make up your mind Frotaz you can't flip flop like a woman's body in my bathtub.
 
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