The Unhappy Thread

[Luigitoilet]

Come to Britain, crazy beliefs are not taken seriously over here.

Wh at?

 

[Pluvia]

He said he doesn't fit in because he thinks every "cool and social" person believes in gods. I told him to come to Britain, it's nothing like that over here.

So anyway:

I'm away to stay at my mates, who lives a few hundred miles away, in a few hours but I'm totally stressing on getting things packed. Yeah it's completely last minute but I'm pretty much just going to at his on a whim. Needed to take holidays from work before April and luckily it's his 20th this week.

 

[Omnicron's Baklava Enterprises]

I though that this thread would explode on St Valentines day.

I been getting mad so easily IRL. Everything is making me mad so quickly. I need to start doing different things that are not : College, Videogames, home stuff to do(chores,errands,etc), using the phone to call X girl and going to sleep. ( the phone thing is not even everyday).

IDK WTH to do. I don't feel interested in something more right now,but at the same time I want to do more stuff.

Maybe is my "lack of beliefs" on stuff. Every "cool and social" person is a believer on god or whatever they believe.

Okay I tried to feed off of the tears in this post but I could not because it didn't make sense.

Explain please?

 

[RATED]

Okay I tried to feed off of the tears in this post but I could not because it didn't make sense.

Explain please?

Long story short:

I been getting mad at almost everything, I want to start doing different things than the one I mentioned in my post and this "Maybe is my "lack of beliefs" on stuff. Every "cool and social" person is a believer on god or whatever they believe." = Not having a "believe"in some kind of religion or something,in my "circle" makes me feel alien.

 

[Ryu Shimazu]

So...unhappy thread, anyone know if short waves (like minute or kess waves) of nausea is a sign of pregnancy? It's been 7 days since the "fun", and she has had 1 short wave monday, and two today. They are not real violent, she doesn't vomit, so I think it may just be her....but if it isn't, I'm going to be mega-unhappy, lol. The only reason I'm not panicing is the fact that, they are so short and infrequent waves...

 

[Dre89]

I bet you just said that to put it out there that you got laid.

Seriously, why would you ask that question on a video game forum full of young males. And we're all gamers, so most of the community isn't getting some.

 

[Lythium]

Maybe because it's the Unhappy Thread? And getting your girl pregnant because you were too stupid to use contraception would make anyone unhappy?

And yes, Ryu, I'm calling you stupid. And I'm sorry if it sounds harsh, but don't want a baby? USE CONTRACEPTION. It's not hard to use, and it's not hard to get.

And to be honest, she's probably not, but there's obviously still a possibility. She's probably stressed out, and feeling nauseous because of it. At this point, all you can do is wait. A pregnancy test won't show any results until about three weeks to a month after, as far as I know.

 

[Luigitoilet]

I bet you just said that to put it out there that you got laid.

Seriously, why would you ask that question on a video game forum full of young males. And we're all gamers, so most of the community isn't getting some.

Don't do this.

 

[Ryu Shimazu]

Lol, we use BC Lyth. I can see why you're calling me stupid; prolly should've said that.... Edit: Also it's been 8 days and only 3 very short waves of nausea. And my bad Dre, lol.

 

[Pluvia]

No I think it's like 10 days after that a pregnancy test will show. 3 weeks seems a bit long.

 

[Lythium]

Lol, we use BC Lyth. I can see why you're calling me stupid; prolly should've said that.... Edit: Also it's been 8 days and only 3 very short waves of nausea. And my bad Dre, lol.

Okay, well, you never know. I'm sorry that I called you stupid; I just hate when people make possible life-changing mistakes that could easily be avoided.

As long as you've been using birth control properly, it should be effective. So I wouldn't worry too much.

No I think it's like 10 days after that a pregnancy test will show. 3 weeks seems a bit long.

Well, I couldn't remember exactly, to be honest.

 

[Ryu Shimazu]

^ Na it's no problem, I probably should've stated that in the first post. I go off on people who do that as well, .

Also, I'm very paranoid, as you can tell.

 

[Merkuri]

Maybe because it's the Unhappy Thread? And getting your girl pregnant because you were too stupid to use contraception would make anyone unhappy?

And yes, Ryu, I'm calling you stupid. And I'm sorry if it sounds harsh, but don't want a baby? USE CONTRACEPTION. It's not hard to use, and it's not hard to get.

This is annoying. You're a girl aren't you? You sound dumb. You obviously haven't comprehended why guys don't use contraception. IT DOES NOT FEEL AS GOOD! of course he has access to it. He chose not to because it feels better bear back. Please don't say idiotic things like this again.

 

[Grandeza]

This is annoying. You're a girl aren't you? You sound dumb. You obviously haven't comprehended why guys don't use contraception. IT DOES NOT FEEL AS GOOD! of course he has access to it. He chose not to because it feels better bear back. Please don't say idiotic things like this again.

Do you like instigating arguments? Because it makes me unhappy when you do.

 

[Merkuri]

Do you like instigating arguments? Because it makes me unhappy when you do.

I just get offended whenever girls tell guys to use condoms, when they don't grasp why we hate doing so. I think it's really dumb of them, and on some level I find it insulting. But to answer your question: No, I don't like instigating arguments.

 

[Lythium]

There are other forms of birth control besides condoms.

Obv.

 

[Ryu Shimazu]

^ We use the pill, just sayin' And considering nausea starts a little later than 6 days after, I was being stupid from the start I guess. I

@ Mer: Smart men are protective. Risking screwing up a girls live, and gaining 250,000 dollars investment is totally not worth that short pleasure. Just saying...

@Lythium: I was thought you was a guy, lol.

 

[Pluvia]

Slightly less pleasure for a few minutes or full pleasure and a high risk of kids for the rest of your life.

Huh, those stupid girls being all selfish and ****, they don't know how it feels.

Edit: I knew that was too stupid to be true. I need to pay more attention to who posts in case I get trolled.

 

[Merkuri]

Slightly less pleasure for a few minutes or full pleasure and a high risk of kids for the rest of your life.

Huh, those stupid girls being all selfish and ****, they don't know how it feels.

Edit: I knew that was too stupid to be true. I need to pay more attention to who posts in case I get trolled.

Gays agree with women, what else is new . And anal sex doesn't feel much better without a condom, so I can understand why it wouldn't make much sense to you.

I wasn't trolling. And there isn't a high risk of pregnancy with condom less sex. You need to take sex 101 again. There is only a high risk of pregnancy during unprotected sex, if the female is in her fertile period. For the rest of the month it's pretty safe.

 

[Mr.Freeman]

This just gets better and better.

 

[BSP]

Singles Awareness Day?

I didn't even know it was Valentine's day until my English teacher said it. And even then, im just like, whatever, but i guess that's expected from someone single. I don't think I'm missing out on anything though.

 

[Mr.Freeman]

Singles Awareness Day?

I didn't even know it was Valentine's day until my English teacher said it. And even then, im just like, whatever, but i guess that's expected from someone single. I don't think I'm missing out on anything though.

A little late there, but yeah, I don't really care I don't have anyone special in my life.

Unless my right hand counts.

/foreveralone

 

[SuperBowser]

I wasn't trolling. And there isn't a high risk of pregnancy with condom less sex. You need to sex 101 again. There is only a high risk of pregnancy during unprotected sex, if the female is in her fertile period. For the rest of the month it's pretty safe.

This is an incredibly risky form of birth control. Don't advocate it.

 

[Ryu Shimazu]

Yeah.. no comment, lol.

 

[Luigitoilet]

For the billionth time, do NOT respond to Merkuri when he says these kinds of things.

 

[Merkuri]

For the billionth time, do NOT respond to Merkuri when he says these kinds of things.

You know your bias towards me is getting annoying. Protective sex simply does not feel as good as raw; and it's understandable why guys don't want to use it. There little disruptive in what I said. Stop always automatically blaming me whenever I'm involved in a dispute.

 

[Luigitoilet]

The issue is this:

"You're a girl aren't you? You sound dumb. You obviously haven't comprehended why guys don't use contraception. IT DOES NOT FEEL AS GOOD! of course he has access to it. He chose not to because it feels better bear back. Please don't say idiotic things like this again."

the bolded part is what got you the infraction.

the rest of it is very dangerous and stupid thinking that is unhealthy to spread on a forum with many young teens on it. "it doesn't feel as good" is not a sufficient reason to not wear protection. I'm not biased towards you, it's just you constantly say hateful and misguided comments and flame people.

 

[RATED]

I am unhappy cuz I would like to be a mod right now. Ban one user and then resigning my modship. :D

PS: I am happy right now.

 

[Pogogo]

To the doucebags debate awhile back.

It seems like being an *** is the way to go in that, you are seeking their approval they get the choices etc. Its the defect cooperate strategy in the prisoners dilemma, google it. But in reality they have something to hold over you like looks, better social standing, talents etc. Like I am 100% sure the guy u are talking about isnt a nerd or unattractive, even if he isn't particularly attractive. Basically, its not that being a dbag makes you popular its that u can get away with it and by getting away with it you show you are at the top. You call the shots and thats attractive but it doesn't just work without something to back it up. You would result in the defect defect scenario which is bad for u.

Bobbysiege said some of this stuff on the livestream at ROM3. ITs confusing cause and effect.

BUT the prisoners dilemma has a great moral, indeed why most people are nice, is that niceness is the greatest community gain. Whereas meaness can better for u if you get away with it, but worse if others defect. Its a really cool thing.

 

[Xianglian]

wow, what a really ****y sumpleupon.

As a girl, I think that it's expected of me to be offended, and I am.
You are a very selfish person. Of course sex with a condom doesn't feel good. ON BOTH SIDES. Have you ever thought about that? But that's besides the point.

Females can still get pregnant during their "safe" week, you idiot. And that "safe week" can sometimes change due to stress. If you weren't so self-centered, you would look at the many other different ways of having sex without a condom that would not lead to pregancy or STDs without forcing some unlucky girl to hve sex with you because "it doesn't feel as good"

Guys like you make me wanna go gay.

 

[Ryu Shimazu]

Also, the pill does not ruin how good it feels.

>_> nor the patch...

 

[Gatlin]

I am unhappy because I don't know how to handle adulthood. It seems to be a major change in my life, and I am unsure of how to grasp it and continue on. I don't consider myself an adult, just because my age says I am "legally" an adult, doesn't make me feel any different mentally. I have never had an occupation before, and I have never lived or provided for myself before (Unless you include fast food or Ramen as providing food). Basically the only thing I know how to do that is actually useful is laundry.

I do see many other adults in the world who succeed in life, but it is hard to accept them being "the same" as me, seeing as I have always viewed adults as being almost like another species of human. It's hard to explain what I mean.

I can't see myself having a full time job, family, house, etc. on my own, which scares me about the future. I know what I need to do, it is just I don't know how to juggle it all. I attended my first semester of college for the Fall 2010 semester, but I have not attended the Spring 2011 semester in attempt to get an occupation seeing as I am pretty desperate for money. I hate depending on others for my well being, clothes, food, and payments, but I really have no choice at the moment. I have tried job searching, but with the crap economy right now, that's not happening. So I feel as if I just wasted going to this semester of college.

I am most likely being over-dramatic about the whole situation, but at this point in time I am pretty stumped at what to do.

 

[Dre89]

Maybe I'm a bit late on this, but was Merkuri's username supposed to be symbolic, in that he's quick to aggression, and mercury is known to arouse aggression?

Contraception isn't as effective as most people seem to think is though. 65% of abortions (not sure if this is just America, probably is) come from "safe" sex, which is something like 30 million abortions if I remember correctly.

I also heard that a certain type of contraception (not sure which one) apparently increases the risk of breast cancer, but of course people are keeping it wuite beause millions would be lost if that got out. Anyone else heard anything about that?

 

[SuperBowser]

A hell of a lot more people would get unwanted pregnancies if they didn't use contraception. Condoms don't claim 100% effectiveness, however I'd guess a lot of people that got pregnant while using condoms probably didn't use them correctly - it's just that the manufacturer cannot do anything about this.

You're referring to the oral contraceptive pill. Doctors talk to their patients so most women are usually aware. It's also written on the box. I would not describe this fact as 'hidden' or kept quiet. It's a small increase in risk that most women are willing to accept to prevent a pregnancy. The risk of complications that arise out of (an unwanted) pregnancy are pretty serious too. Women tend to opt out of the pill if they have a family history of breast cancer or past breast problems.

 

[Pluvia]

I'm not biased towards you, it's just you constantly say hateful and misguided comments and flame people.

And accuses everyone else of attacking him, don't forget that. He's totally the victim here.

So anyway the shower in my mates flat is dreadful, and it feels like there's no heating here. 1 week is fine but if I actually lived here it would be so bad.

 

[Xianglian]

I also heard that a certain type of contraception (not sure which one) apparently increases the risk of breast cancer, but of course people are keeping it wuite beause millions would be lost if that got out. Anyone else heard anything about that?

The patch does, it's totally bad for you. It forms blood clots.

 

[Teran]

Maybe I'm a bit late on this, but was Merkuri's username supposed to be symbolic, in that he's quick to aggression, and mercury is known to arouse aggression?

Contraception isn't as effective as most people seem to think is though. 65% of abortions (not sure if this is just America, probably is) come from "safe" sex, which is something like 30 million abortions if I remember correctly.

I also heard that a certain type of contraception (not sure which one) apparently increases the risk of breast cancer, but of course people are keeping it wuite beause millions would be lost if that got out. Anyone else heard anything about that?

Yeah well, you also forget that most people are idiots and don't actually do it right. I've had boys put condoms on me inside out (wtf?), so I can imagine other people out there messing up like this.

Protip for NEVER GETTING PREGNANT. Condom + pill. That way, if you somehow get a condom disaster, you have the pill's safety net. You may think that's a bit excessive, but hey if your girl is pro life and you get her pregnant unplanned (ohnoes), then you'll probably have to resort to inhumane methods like rope and a clotheshanger or pushing her down the stairs.

Btw, don't actually do the stuff with the rope and the stairs, that is a joke, which of course I have to spell out very clearly these days, because after over 2 years here, I've discovered that most people on this site don't know what sarcasm and satire are.

 

[PeachKiller279]

Fort he record, it's not that we don't know what sarcasm and satire is, it is that without the tone of voice, it is difficult, to impossible to detect what is truth, and what isn't.

 

[Luigitoilet]

Not really. Especially in Teran's case. It's not like "methods like rope and a clotheshanger or pushing her down the stairs." is particularly subtle.

 

[PeachKiller279]

I disagree with you.