The Botanical Gardens of the Mushroom Kingdom

[Metatitan]

Flame just tell your parents everything about who you are. There's no point in hiding it, if you can't confide in the people who are supposed to love you no matter what then who can you confide in? If they're good parents they'll love you no matter what you do.

 

[z00ted]

i just spilled water on my laptop and it made some HORRIFIC beeping sound for like 30 straight seconds.

I turned it off and back on and now it's working but like half of my keyboard doesn't work; also my dad just lost his job.

IM CURSED

DID YOU DO THIS PEACHGUARD?

 

[deepseadiva]

Flame just tell your parents everything about who you are. There's no point in hiding it, if you can't confide in the people who are supposed to love you no matter what then who can you confide in? If they're good parents they'll love you no matter what you do.

...or kick him out. You can't just make blanket statements like that.

Honesty will always be the best policy, but sometimes people have different priorities. Like living in a house.

Approach things on a per-person basis. I came out slowly to people I absolutely trusted first - my brother for example, months before I came out to my dad or mom.

DID YOU DO THIS PEACHGUARD?

Hahahahahahahaha

 

[culexus・wau]

Flame just tell your parents everything about who you are. There's no point in hiding it, if you can't confide in the people who are supposed to love you no matter what then who can you confide in? If they're good parents they'll love you no matter what you do.

I've been hiding it for almost 2 years pretty well imo.

My parents [at least my mom]

know of my crossdressing and are kinda ashamed.

they don't know its this bad tho.


Honestly I think I'm going to tell my older brother 1st before my parents.

He's been really helpful as of late with letting me stay the nights so I don't have to deal with my sister =\

 

[z00ted]

****kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk

 

[Dark.Pch]

Flame how old are you if I may ask?

 

[Dajayman]

If it makes you feel better Flame, I accept who you are. <3

 

[culexus・wau]

just turned 16

 

[Razmakazi]

he's 16 so i doubt his parents are gonna put him out but at the same time his sister is a **** and his parents are ultra religious ( i thiiink, it's just the vibe I get from talking to his mom).

and flame your bro seems pretty cool too

Spoiler

but something about him seems off to me, a very obvious something lmao.

 

[culexus・wau]

I'll tell you more about my brother next time I see you Raz.

He's kinda been through a lot lol

Depression, [almost] endless debt, a relationship that left him in the gutter, and problems with my parents

and thats not even counting the stuff I don't know well but am just aware of.

He's cleaned up his act in the last 5 years however.

Sometimes I forget he's 30+ yrs old.

 

[Dark.Pch]

Damm. I had an idea for you put not gonna work at your age. I thought you was older.

Best advice I can give you is put up with it. just ignore it all. Thats what I had to do with my mom. And for years until I turned 17, things went bad and got put in a foster home. Friend there with a dfferent family, and I escape that nightmare.

Or, talk to the people in your family that get you. Have them get through to your mom. Cause this BS seriously has to end. You can't be living like that dude. I had to sufer from 9 yers of depression and counting. I really could not do much cause I was always home and could not go out to have a social life. Only time I saw people was at school. And cause of this, my depression got worst. Plus dealing with my moms BS. And that is not something good or healthy to deal with. Even though your problem is different from what I went through around your age, I know how you feel. And it does not feel good.

Talk to your bro and others close to you in the family. You have to take control of your life. Even from your mom and you came out of here.

 

[culexus・wau]

My mom is cool.

its just... We have an awkward rocky relationship.

not as awkward as me and my dad though.

whats scares me about coming out with this is that I don't even have the slightest clue how the rest of my immediate family would react, which scares me.

also being of pinoy decent, once word gets out, it'll spread ALLLLLLLL over the family, even if you think a few people are tight lipped, it'll get out of eventually.

We gossip way too ****ing much, even I'm guilty of this :<

Its getting better though:

I actually have to interact and learn life skills at my brothers, he teaches me a lot of ****.

My psych agreed to let me work on slowly getting off my terrible medication even though my mom doesn't completely agree with it.

I get to stay away from my sister until she finally moves. don't have to be stressed about the rest of the family getting mad at me from stressing her [She gets miserable when she's stressed because she has alopesia [spellcheck plz ;x], which is basically her losing hair whenever she gets extremely stressed, she's already stressed as it is with the whole wedding + working in the magazine industry but mehhhh]

I'm still in touch with everyone who supports me, which is the important thing.

I have a lot to look forward to this year really lol.

 

[Airgemini]

You just have to keep your head up and be patient. As hard as it might be, you have to ignore their comments until you're 18 or able to provide yourself so you won't have to hear their remarks anymore. Then they can decide if they want to accept or forget. You'll be able to make your own life decisions and hopefully be happier.

 

[culexus・wau]

Thats pretty much the plan air.

once I'm 18 I'm out.

College Dorms.

Apartments.

anything.

from there on I can be my own person, without having to worry about what my family would think.

God knows I don't care what society thinks already ;>

if I try I pass off well anyway soooo its usually not a problem.

 

[Dark.Pch]

You just have to keep your head up and be patient. As hard as it might be, you have to ignore their comments until you're 18 or able to provide yourself so you won't have to hear their remarks anymore. Then they can decide if they want to accept or forget. You'll be able to make your own life decisions and hopefully be happier.

Bingo. Thats what I did. As much as i went through and all that pain. I did just this. Well till I was 17 really and got sent to foster care. But I was so much happier with the new family and had more freedom. it pays off on the long run. And will make you a stronger person for it. I had to put up with it all since I was 12 years old.

If a crazy fool like me could do it, I'm sure you can too.

 

[culexus・wau]

Believe me I had my fair share of enduring painful comments.

highschool kids.... sigh.

I really appreciate how open the smash community is.

I really do.

So enough sad moping time, I feel like a good weight has been lifted off my shoulders already.

Anyone got tips on passing the test to get a driver's permit? :x I'm looking into driving schools lately.

 

[Dark.Pch]

Take practice tests online.

 

[Two-Ell]

Yeah for a permit just read some traffic booklet and take practice tests online. That's what I did.

I'm getting a car at the end of the month

x3

 

[z00ted]

my computer is ****ing gone forever

 

[Airgemini]

Idk about the permit test, but the actual license test is so easy. I literally looked over the signs for 5 minutes and passed it. All you need to know is the signs. Everything else will be either common sense or things that you should easily be able to recall from driver's ed.

 

[Dark.Pch]

Yeah for a permit just read some traffic booklet and take practice tests online. That's what I did.

I'm getting a car at the end of the month

x3

You driving me to places

 

[ToferTheHuman]

my computer is ****ing gone forever

lol no one commented on anything you said.
Hard ignore.

 

[culexus・wau]

Ill have you tried like.

switching out they keyboard?

or plugging in a USB keyboard if its a laptop?

 

[Queen B. Kyon]

I'm glad my mom is a lesbian... it wasn't anythiing to hide.. And look at me now... going to the club with her and her gf every now and then to see the drag shows and drink.

 

[culexus・wau]

that must be cool kyon :x.

I'm jelly.

hmm I'll look into online tests, thanks guys.

also holy **** peach is gdlk with the bunny ears.

Bunny Ears Peach ditto MM next tournament I see you at guys? ;o

 

[z00ted]

Ill have you tried like.

switching out they keyboard?

or plugging in a USB keyboard if its a laptop?

yes, but sometimes when i turn it on it starts beeping for like EVER, it's terrible

i think my hard drive fried.

 

[culexus・wau]

that sucks.

bring it to a computer tech/salvage the laptop for parts maybe?

 

[¿Qué?]

Also I don't give a **** I do think Guard is cute. Can't say that to many people here....

Flame just tell your parents everything about who you are. There's no point in hiding it, if you can't confide in the people who are supposed to love you no matter what then who can you confide in? If they're good parents they'll love you no matter what you do.

This.

i just spilled water on my laptop and it made some HORRIFIC beeping sound for like 30 straight seconds.

I turned it off and back on and now it's working but like half of my keyboard doesn't work; also my dad just lost his job.

IM CURSED

DID YOU DO THIS PEACHGUARD?

My mom is cool.

its just... We have an awkward rocky relationship.

not as awkward as me and my dad though.

whats scares me about coming out with this is that I don't even have the slightest clue how the rest of my immediate family would react, which scares me.

also being of pinoy decent, once word gets out, it'll spread ALLLLLLLL over the family, even if you think a few people are tight lipped, it'll get out of eventually.

We gossip way too ****ing much, even I'm guilty of this :<

Its getting better though:

I actually have to interact and learn life skills at my brothers, he teaches me a lot of ****.

My psych agreed to let me work on slowly getting off my terrible medication even though my mom doesn't completely agree with it.

I get to stay away from my sister until she finally moves. don't have to be stressed about the rest of the family getting mad at me from stressing her [She gets miserable when she's stressed because she has alopesia [spellcheck plz ;x], which is basically her losing hair whenever she gets extremely stressed, she's already stressed as it is with the whole wedding + working in the magazine industry but mehhhh]

I'm still in touch with everyone who supports me, which is the important thing.

I have a lot to look forward to this year really lol.

Recently(Well last year anyway) my best friend came out to me and told me he was gay. Apparently, I didn't even know I was friends with his bf. Well anyway, he had a hard time coming out to his parents, but when he finally did his mother took it a bit hard. His father and sister were completely fine with it. She slowly started accepting it and everything seems pretty fine. He even introduced his bf to the family and they're all pretty happy with him. It really all just deppends on how willing your parents are about accepting it.

Me and my bestie are 10x closer now. It's sort of another reason why I'm pretty comfortable with gay people.

Kyon is just awesome. <3


Btw Illmatic, sorry about your dad's job. I didn't mean the curse to take it that far.

 

[Dajayman]

My gay friend came onto me, I rejected him since I'm straight, and now we don't hang out anymore.

 

[¿Qué?]

My gay friend came onto me, I rejected him since I'm straight, and now we don't hang out anymore.

That's tough bro. :/

Were you aggressive about the reject?

 

[Dajayman]

Nope, not at all. I'm actually a really nice person, I just like to joke around a lot. I just kindly let him know that I'm straight and that I wasn't really weirded out by him coming onto me and that I'd like to still be his friend since he's a cool dude. But he never hung out with me after that night, I guess I still upset him somehow?

We still talk on FB and he seems cool, he just always says he's going to chill with me but he never does.

 

[SupaSairentoZ7℠]

Driving Permit test is simple. Don't get this question wrong like I always did way back then asking where your front tires should be facing when uphill a curb.

Remember up and away. Then downhill the front tires are facing to the curb. That question is always on the test and I remember f---ing that question away everytime. Make sure when you get the when you hear emergency sirens you put you pull to the right and STOP. You be surprise how many people get that wrong. Ah the good old days. XD

 

[¿Qué?]

Hmm...
I guess so, but he doesn't want to admit it?

Not sure, but that sucks. Gay or straight I don't like losing cool people.


You should seriously try planning something with an actual day and time, unless you already have. Maybe he really does wanna hang out, but things get in the way.

 

[Dajayman]

We have planned in advance, things never happened. He was such a nice guy too, he gave me a Lady Gaga poster, he offered to fix my computer, and he was willing to sell me his old TV so I'd upgrade (I just got some ****ty, bulky 20" CRTV).

 

[¿Qué?]

Aww, sorry man. That really sucks.

I don't like loosing people, period.

 

[KassandraNova]

Aww, sorry man. That really sucks.

I don't like loosing people, period.

Same here. :[

*sigh*

 

[Gameswithgoodies]

wow so much stuff in a day X.X

 

[Slain Avenger]

These boards never seize to amaze. Everyone here has such complex attitudes. Except Dajay... you dirty stalker .

Also, Ill... that effing sucks man >.< hope it magically gets better

 

[Two-Ell]

I lurk too much for people to know much about me lol. I'm not an open person anyway. It is interesting to read into your individual personalities and thoughts on life though.

 

[¿Qué?]

Same here. :[

*sigh*

KASSANDRAAA.

I wanna play your Metaknight.

I'll teach you Peach.