What people call "cheap" are effective and easy/spammable stuff.
What people call "gay" are things that make your opponent squeal in anger because of how you've limited their options with them, and they're just left with watching themselves lose.
What people DON'T call "cheap" or "gay" are the really hard-to-pull-off, attractive-to-the-eye, positive-impacting moves/tactics like crazy combos, timed sequenced attacks, perfect measurement and domination of a hard-to-use character... In PR, I haven't heard of a single person call Melee Fox "cheap" or "gay", but I HAVE heard of people (not top players, of course) calling Jigglypuff "cheap", Melee Sheik's dthrow chain "gay", and Melee Marth/Sheik overall a mix of both.
That's just how people view things, why bother with changing the names? Just keep on debating why you just won't jump from anti-ban to pro-ban, or vice-versa.