mobilisq you have no obligation to keep anyone in your life who hurts you and violates your trust like that. they should be at your mercy, not the other way around.
sometimes "can we still be friends?" is a subtle way to make you out to be the ******* if you say "no" instead of them being the ******* for ****ing you over. if she feels bad about it, it's not your job to make her feel better about it by staying in her life, and i'm glad you realize that
personally i could never do it. i can't keep people in my life who are toxic to me. if they can't put in the effort to maintain a relationship and instead find it necessary to hurt me, then i'm not going to put in the effort to maintain a fake friendship.
sometimes "can we still be friends?" is a subtle way to make you out to be the ******* if you say "no" instead of them being the ******* for ****ing you over. if she feels bad about it, it's not your job to make her feel better about it by staying in her life, and i'm glad you realize that
personally i could never do it. i can't keep people in my life who are toxic to me. if they can't put in the effort to maintain a relationship and instead find it necessary to hurt me, then i'm not going to put in the effort to maintain a fake friendship.