You just stereotyped gay people so hard right there.I totally agree. I hear this argument all the time... that gay people should tone it down, or act like everybody else if they want to be accepted. I can't stand people who claim that they're accepting of homosexuality, but they don't want gays to be flamboyant or talk about their sex and relationships.
I'm not even gay, but this paragraph bugs the hell out of me. My gay friends actually hate flamboyant gay people for giving them a bad name. They hate being stereotyped as "girly", as you just so carelessly did.
If you think I'm against gay people, you're mistaken. If people make fun of you for how you act, then don't act the bitter gay because of it. No one likes the bitter gay, just like no one likes the homophobic straight guy.
I haven't read too many of your posts, but you seem generally cool about this whole thing. But just because I find it annoying that some guys have an annoying lisp, and walk as if they're wearing high heels but aren't, doesn't mean I hate them becase they're gay. It's because they're flamboyant, and we just wouldn't get along.
As for the second part, it's completely normal (especially for guys) to talk about sex, and relationships. I agree with you there. Just don't stereotype yourself as a whole.