Marrying someone you've never lived with sounds like a bigger recipe for disaster to me... Imagine moving in w someone you married just to find out you can't deal with each other as living partners, that can be worked around but why would you risk putting that damper on the beginning of your marriage? And its not like being married to someone means they'll never grow apart from you or want to break up, it just makes it 10000000x more expensive to do lol. If it ends during unmarried cohabitation, chances are it was going to end anyway I think. Better before than after getting married.
Plus if you keep living with someone you can't stand just because you're married then that right there us an unhappy marriage too, and no 1 wants that.
Good on you Bing for being the bigger man in this situation. But ia with everyone saying its both their faults, its not like she's the evil mastermind and this guy is just innocently brainwashed, unless she's made some elaborate lies chances are he knows what he's doing and he has the option to be like "no this isn't right". My current SO was the so-called pawn in a similar situation before (before we got involved obv) and I still think it was ****in dumb to ever go along with it, should have known better. Same goes for this other dude.
That being said u should get a tv in the room next to the one they use and invite everyone over for some REALLY ****IN LOUD smash bros while they're doing it. Mood killer much???
All my other ideas involved either revenge sex or illegal things, and I think you're above that (despite not knowing you @ all). Hope the tourney today helps get your mind off the situation.