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I also want to make mention that my whole spiel yesterday wasn't to dunk on you but honestly me talking to a younger me. In the Smash 4 days, I was pretty distraught. I was poor, sometime literally eating out of the trash and stealing food from faculty parties, paying my way through grad school by working sometimes up to 70 hours a week working food service and writing parking tickets, getting dangerously close to being an alcoholic, weighing probably about 170 despite being 6'6, averaging maybe 3-4 hours of sleep a night, and was managing my first serious relationship in close to a decade. My now wife and I shared a laptop, a car, and a bedroom probably the size of your typical kitchen. As I said yesterday, I was one year in my Master's program and basically told by a room of my professors to either drop out or change programs. Needless to say, I pretty disgruntled most days. I really wasn't super involved in the Geno fanbase in the Smash 4 days and kind of just chimed in, often saying Geno was a far flung hope and it was probably better if people invested their time supporting someone else. Nearly half a decade later, I regret it.
This thread was a lot smaller in the Smash 4 days but people like Psycho, Papagenos, and kiteinthesky kept it going. I'd pop in every once in awhile usually to "keep peoples' expectations in check" and then bounce for the other character threads. I thought I was doing the thread a favor but I really wasn't. I was basically taking out my own frustrations on the Smash fanbase that I helped found. Telling other people to have the same expectations as me was just dragging other people down. I thought I was being pragmatic when really it was muck spray the soiree. In a way, I was doing a disservice to my own community. There was already enough detractors on the outside, I really didn't need to be one of them. Does this mean people have to be positive all the time? No, but it's good to read the room if people are having a good time and optimistic, it's not good to stand in the mind of the room and start reading the obituaries.
Again, I'm not saying this to be an ass. I'm saying this because it is one of my biggest regrets in my Smash history and I feel like I missed out on a lot of potential friendships because of it and genuinely killed the enthusiasm for some very well meaning Geno fans. Yes, there's a time and place to tell a kid that Santa isn't real (unlike Cacomallow, HEY-OH) but one of the hard lessons I had to learn over the years is that there's real people behind all our goofy screennames and sometimes tact and sensitivity is far more important than being right.