I'm not sure much it's shame so much as disappointment, that I still haven't learned how to drive yet. My cousin learned when she was 16 and although our circumstances are different, I just don't see an explanation for me not knowing how to drive other than being a completely thoughtless idiot up until now.
Well, the same rules apply to shame and disappointment.
Not knowing how to drive does not make you a completely thoughtless idiot, in fact, if it is cheaper to use public transportation/caps, then you can perhaps say you are more thoughtful. But anyways, it isn't necessary, although like Zook says, in a lot of circumstances, it is a huge hindrance. Even if you were in that kind of situation, it doesn't make you a thoughtless idiot.
I can say I have some displeasing disappointment, getting a desktop for the first time in quite a while, and it is going to be pretty strong. It's so I can play games properly, more specifically, the up and coming Guild Wars 2. No one here in SWF or that I know in real life don't wish to play it. >_< Not a big deal, and I'm not even close to anyone to begin with, but kind of lame that it is simply going to be me and my brother. Guess I'll just be looking for friendships with the strangers I meet, which could be nice.