Hm...what's bothering me...well, my girlfriend is ignoring me, and it's fairly likely that she's gonna break up with me....as for why.... (Btw, this is gonna be waaaaaay longer than it has to be. If you want to read it, go ahead, but there's a tl;dr at the end.)
So this is the third time I'm dating her. Right before the first time I dated her, I would talk to her while she was crying over some guy I didn't know. Then we got together, we did some three-way webcam conversations with her "best friend" Joe, and I could tell she reacted to his jokes and stuff the same way she did to mine, so I figured it was him. I said something to her about her having feelings for someone else. She said she didn't. I believed her.
Over the next two weeks, she started making like Facebook statuses and crap about "I love Joe sooooo much," "Joe is amazing," etc. Eventually I flipped at her, and she cried all night thinking I was gonna break up with her and stuff, and she claimed again and again she had no feelings for him. I kinda believed her, and I told her I'd be fine with her and her "best friend" talking as long as she didn't shove it in my face all the time.
Well, a week later she breaks up with me for semi-irrelevant reasons. A week after *that*, after a couple days of her telling me she was considering getting back together, she spends the entire weekend depressed and crying because she was in love with Joe but he didn't have feelings back.
Well, about two weeks later, we get together again. She claims she has NO feelings for Joe whatsoever, and she KNOWS because she always fights with him and crap. She starts talking to me about Joe one day, and I tell her to stop talking to me about him because I don't need it in my face. She gets mad because I'm jealous again. She breaks up with me for completely irrelevant reasons like a day or two later. Over the next few weeks when she's fighting with Joe, I see weird claims in her statuses about "I am NOT in love."
Two weeks later, she starts talking to me and tells me how she still likes me and we keep on talking, but we probably won't date. Over the next two or three days, she makes AIM statuses about "If you asked me if I loved him I'd lie," "It's so hard to let you go," and other dumb stuff like that. And it obviously wasn't about me, but she wouldn't explain them. I got pissed at her for leading me on with feelings for someone else.
That pretty much brings us two weeks later to the third time we're together and today. So even though Joe's been acting like a total ******* all day, she decides to "Facebook marry" him. I flip at her for doing that, not really because I'm jealous, but because she should KNOW it should bother me. Apparently Joe asked her if it was a good idea to do this while I'm dating her, but she thinks it'll be fiiiiiiiine, because she knows "he knows I don't have feelings for you," and it's semi-true, I do half-believe her. Anyway, so now I'm stuck being mad at her for not truly considering my feelings, and she's pissed at me and spending the night talking to Joe because I got mad at her, and she *thinks* I'm jealous. But I don't think I am.
tl;dr Girlfriend who has been on and off in love with another guy for the past three months won't talk to me because I got mad she listed him as her husband on Facebook.
All right, thanks for reading my venting. For those of you who bothered reading the entirety of my idiotic teenage drama, would you mind giving me your opinion on the matter? (As in, do you think I have a right to get mad over this?)
So this is the third time I'm dating her. Right before the first time I dated her, I would talk to her while she was crying over some guy I didn't know. Then we got together, we did some three-way webcam conversations with her "best friend" Joe, and I could tell she reacted to his jokes and stuff the same way she did to mine, so I figured it was him. I said something to her about her having feelings for someone else. She said she didn't. I believed her.
Over the next two weeks, she started making like Facebook statuses and crap about "I love Joe sooooo much," "Joe is amazing," etc. Eventually I flipped at her, and she cried all night thinking I was gonna break up with her and stuff, and she claimed again and again she had no feelings for him. I kinda believed her, and I told her I'd be fine with her and her "best friend" talking as long as she didn't shove it in my face all the time.
Well, a week later she breaks up with me for semi-irrelevant reasons. A week after *that*, after a couple days of her telling me she was considering getting back together, she spends the entire weekend depressed and crying because she was in love with Joe but he didn't have feelings back.
Well, about two weeks later, we get together again. She claims she has NO feelings for Joe whatsoever, and she KNOWS because she always fights with him and crap. She starts talking to me about Joe one day, and I tell her to stop talking to me about him because I don't need it in my face. She gets mad because I'm jealous again. She breaks up with me for completely irrelevant reasons like a day or two later. Over the next few weeks when she's fighting with Joe, I see weird claims in her statuses about "I am NOT in love."
Two weeks later, she starts talking to me and tells me how she still likes me and we keep on talking, but we probably won't date. Over the next two or three days, she makes AIM statuses about "If you asked me if I loved him I'd lie," "It's so hard to let you go," and other dumb stuff like that. And it obviously wasn't about me, but she wouldn't explain them. I got pissed at her for leading me on with feelings for someone else.
That pretty much brings us two weeks later to the third time we're together and today. So even though Joe's been acting like a total ******* all day, she decides to "Facebook marry" him. I flip at her for doing that, not really because I'm jealous, but because she should KNOW it should bother me. Apparently Joe asked her if it was a good idea to do this while I'm dating her, but she thinks it'll be fiiiiiiiine, because she knows "he knows I don't have feelings for you," and it's semi-true, I do half-believe her. Anyway, so now I'm stuck being mad at her for not truly considering my feelings, and she's pissed at me and spending the night talking to Joe because I got mad at her, and she *thinks* I'm jealous. But I don't think I am.
tl;dr Girlfriend who has been on and off in love with another guy for the past three months won't talk to me because I got mad she listed him as her husband on Facebook.
All right, thanks for reading my venting. For those of you who bothered reading the entirety of my idiotic teenage drama, would you mind giving me your opinion on the matter? (As in, do you think I have a right to get mad over this?)
