swordsaint
Smash Master
Well there's an interest to know what started this whole routine, but what I said to keep to yourself was all the hate/insults. It was about seperate things.
I'm fairly reasonable, I think. So if people have problems with something I'm doing, I agree they should bring it up. How am I meant to think I'm doing anything to offend people if it isn't mentioned? Basically, straight up it is my fault (even if oblivious) that I offend people but it isn't my fault that nothing is done about it if i'm not told. And IF what you say is true, why in gods name would i listen to a single person (luke) about what everyone else thinks of me? That's paranoid and stupid.
afaik me and ted are cool atm. and it seems like you have this skewed idea of how much we argue. So either you're lying to yourself or ted's not as honest with me as I would like. but this isnt about ted and if he has something to say he can bring it to me 1 on 1 like we said we would if we both had problems.
the biggest problem luke, is that IF people think im acting like a jerk and then dont say anything about it, i probably think im joking and that they didnt mind. people and friends take the piss out of each other all the time.
also i didnt say i was nice to you. i said EVEN when im nice to you. cos i've tried that and it didnt work now did it, look at where we're at again.
some examples maybe? who are my closest friends luke?
if people have problems bring them up, it won't be confrontational. i promise to be completely reasonable.
if people have problems, it is not your responsbility luke. You aren't and will not get anywhere with me until other people stand up for themselves if im acting like a ****. i understand some people dislike confrontation, but im reasonable you give my credit for luke. I really have worked on those ye old anger problems, and im much easier to talk to if theres a problem.
basically i dont know what else to say. What you say is completely right assuming people ***** behind my back. I can't fix anything until people tell me, and you expect me to magically know what everybody else is thinking.
idk, seems really pointless for you to say anything if your problem with me is that other people have problems with me and refuse to do anything. If you really think you're trying to 'help' me. instead of doing what you do, straight up tell me what I did so I can apologise and not do it again.
I'm fairly reasonable, I think. So if people have problems with something I'm doing, I agree they should bring it up. How am I meant to think I'm doing anything to offend people if it isn't mentioned? Basically, straight up it is my fault (even if oblivious) that I offend people but it isn't my fault that nothing is done about it if i'm not told. And IF what you say is true, why in gods name would i listen to a single person (luke) about what everyone else thinks of me? That's paranoid and stupid.
afaik me and ted are cool atm. and it seems like you have this skewed idea of how much we argue. So either you're lying to yourself or ted's not as honest with me as I would like. but this isnt about ted and if he has something to say he can bring it to me 1 on 1 like we said we would if we both had problems.
the biggest problem luke, is that IF people think im acting like a jerk and then dont say anything about it, i probably think im joking and that they didnt mind. people and friends take the piss out of each other all the time.
also i didnt say i was nice to you. i said EVEN when im nice to you. cos i've tried that and it didnt work now did it, look at where we're at again.
some examples maybe? who are my closest friends luke?
if people have problems bring them up, it won't be confrontational. i promise to be completely reasonable.
if people have problems, it is not your responsbility luke. You aren't and will not get anywhere with me until other people stand up for themselves if im acting like a ****. i understand some people dislike confrontation, but im reasonable you give my credit for luke. I really have worked on those ye old anger problems, and im much easier to talk to if theres a problem.
basically i dont know what else to say. What you say is completely right assuming people ***** behind my back. I can't fix anything until people tell me, and you expect me to magically know what everybody else is thinking.
idk, seems really pointless for you to say anything if your problem with me is that other people have problems with me and refuse to do anything. If you really think you're trying to 'help' me. instead of doing what you do, straight up tell me what I did so I can apologise and not do it again.
