I feel like I've walked onto a murder scene with blood and innards splattered over the wall.
anyways,
On the 'clone' issue:
Since fox Falco and Wolf are based out of the same basic framework, its easier for my muscle memory to transition between them, that's why I can main all three spacies at once. What really sets them apart is the application purposes of their moves; the muscles can make the change easy, its the mind that has to work at it. Each character requires a different mindset, most of which have been discussed.
.CMW.
You can't just come in out of nowhere and expect your opinion to be automatically respected, you have to earn it. You use the justification "In my personal experience" a lot. Here's what you do: you go out and expand your experiences, fast. I drove 300 miles to go to my first tournament and I don't regret it one bit. Even though I was performing reasonably well in the friendlies, I bombed in the competition (turns out I crack under pressure, hard). I Learned a lot, most of my local tournament-goers are far more defensive players than the players I'm used to playing against. (who aren't bad, just ridiculously aggressive) I had to completely form new strategies on the fly. The best way to learn is to be beaten, learn from it and win the next round. You'd be surprised how creative you can get when you're against slip odds.