^ fair call
personally, my experiences with the other christian kids at my school are bad, they're fairly preachy and whatnot.. i've been to a christian youth group where they recite lines from the bible and ask you to pray to god and all that jibbah jabbah >_<
i dont hate towards religion, just those who try to enforce it on others
A question for Furious Robot.
since "God" had supposedly created us, why has he given the option to be homosexuals? :S
Why does he give us the options to be murderers? As Robot says, it's free will. And the explanation of why He gave us free will isn't that hard to figure out, but I won't spell it out unless you need me to.
Wall of shame....hmmm....
Yes.
Bandit Kieth:Free will. I don't really understand why god would want us to be able to sin. Jesus said it himself "Let he without sin cast the first stone". Seriously, Did he expect any human being at all to be sinless? Those are dang high expectations.
No, Robot, he didn't expect anyone to be sinless. It was rhetorical, he was making the point that none of them were sinless, and even though He was, He still chose not to condemn her either. He was making a point. But I could go a whole lot more on this, but I'm not sure you guys are interested in hearing all about it. If you are, I'd explain it.
I am 100% roman catholic, and am appalled by the fact that catholics even dream of profiling people based on their sexuality. They have every right that we have period, its that simple... I wish people could see how little the difference is between gay and straight. People have been gay for thousands of years, dating back to spartan warriors, who had boyfriends (so they would never be cowardly while fighting alongside them)... point is simply that peoples insecurities always seem to go hand in hand with stereotypical views.. who knows, maybe that guy is in denial and is taking out his anger on the original poster.
You kinda don't seem to understand here. It's written in the Bible that homosexuality is wrong, specifically Leviticus 18:22, "Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable." At that time women weren't provided the freedom to do something like that anyway, so the possibility of lesbians was excluded, but is alluded to in Romans which also speaks against homosexuality. Romans 1:26-27 "Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion." Both are NIV quotations.
Now, one can believe homosexuality is wrong, but not be homophobic. To see the two as the same is looking at it from a very one-dimensional point of view, and also is "not accepting."
Typically people will get angry at Christians for their beliefs in that and say "You need to be more accepting." Now, there are two problems with that statement (that I'm going to address here, I'm sure there are more).
1. The first question I ask is, how accepting should we be? Should we all types of sexualities? Because that means we need to allow for beastiality (it's technically bestiality, but I'm using the common word for it). If the animal enjoys it, we should not protest. It could be the same thing as petting a dog. I'm sure they get pleasure out of it.
Likewise, we would need to be open to pedophilia. If a child is pleased by having sex with an older individual, why should there be a problem? We should be more accepting of all sexualities and preferences, right?
Or, let's even take living beings out of this. What if someone is sexually attracted to drainpipes and decides that those are what he wants to engage with in sexual activity. Since the drainpipes are not feeling or thinking--should we accept that? Is that okay? How far do we go in being, accepting?
And if in all of this you're thinking, "Well, yeah, these are extreme examples. That's not really fair." Well then how about this: incest. What if I'm attracted to--or let's say even in love with my mother, sister, or even father or brother. What then? Should I be allowed to engage in a romantic and sexual relationship with them? I mentioned this to one girl and she said, "Yeah, but that's just
wrong. And I said "Yeah, it is. And that's exactly how people used to respond to homosexuality."
Furthermore, some people say this whole "slippery slope" argument is ridiculous and is unfounded. Untrue. Historically the cultures who have accepted homosexuality have later come to accept beastiality. Right now in Vermont it's legal to have sex with an animal over 100 pounds (The weight limit is so that there's no animal abuse), so I don't think the idea of us accepting beastiality is too farfetched.
And if you were grossed out by the whole suggestion of incest: Well, when I brought this up in one of my classes (the discussion was going on already, I didn't start it up), one of the homosexual members of the class responded later to me that he didn't see anything wrong with incest--that if you loved the person, that it was still okay. Still think this isn't a slippery slope?
2. This one is much shorter: If we need to be accepting to all types of viewpoints on life, we also need to be accepting of the people who believe homosexuality is wrong. I think it's entirely valid for someone to believe that. Likewise it is valid for someone to believe eating meat is wrong--and no one judges them for it, even though sometimes they can tend to be more aggressive than your average Christian in trying to 'convert' people.
A lot of the rants I hear about when people speak of Christianity and homosexuality typically show a serious lack of knowledge of the Christian faith and viewpoint.
I believe homosexuality is 100% wrong, but that doesn't mean I hate homosexuals or think they can't get into Heaven. They certainly can be Christians (and I've even heard of them becoming Christians), they simply need to give up homosexuality. And some people after coming to God realize they weren't homosexual at all, and take a wife or husband. Other people in the middle of their lives, suddenly realize they are homosexual. Now, I know I did just change the tone and purpose of this paragraph, but roll with it. What I was originally saying is that homosexuals can and have become Christians. There's no problem with that--even if the feeling still persists, they can resist the urge. Plenty of people do that, and some Christians even stay celibate, regardless of their sexuality. But what I was also alluding to in that some people have switched in both directions (the latter I did not mean they switched to homosexuality as Christians--this I have never heard of happening), convinces me that it's not something you're born with, but rather something that is acquired. I would call it a perversion, in the most technical sense, and not in an insulting way.
Now, if you're looking to understand why it's a sin, that's another conversation that I'd be glad to have for anyone who's interested.
But let me close in saying this: The last person I quoted said that homosexuality has been going on for a long time. I'd agree, and that's fine. Murder's been going on for a long time too, and so has ****--but I don't think we justify either of those, now do we? And if you say, "Well, yeah, but it was
accepted, and neither of those things were." Not true, when Lot was living in Sodom, two angels visited him. He convinces them to spend the night there (Lot was considered a righteous man), and "Before they had gone to bed, all the men from every part of the city of Sodom—both young and old—surrounded the house. They called to Lot, "Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us so that we can have sex with them" " (Genesis 19:4-5 NIV). If that's not **** I don't know what is. They didn't end up having sex with the angels (I admit I don't even know how one would go about doing that sort of thing), but they were prepared to, as you see here.
And if you're about to say "Yeah, well that's the Bible," then you must know that Sodom was historically a very corrupt place, and even if this specific event didn't happen, it wouldn't be a stretch to say that it would.
In closing: Don't judge Christians or else you're no better than the ones judging homosexuals. And I'll admit, some Christians are homophobic because they don't understand Christianity. But not all of them are.