@Wrath of Korain: Again, all of these arguments, including your house analogy and coreygames' wall o' text pre-assume one thing: that only one game can be the standard for the community.
Just because one game is 'supposedly more competitive' than the other (still up for debate to some extent because in order to prove Melee is better, one has to first accept your measuring rod for competition, a measuring rod
expressly designed to prove Melee more competitive; this isn't logic or debate, and I fully disagree with it) doesn't mean that we HAVE to play only that game, which ultimately will always be the crux of your argument, whether you explicitly state it or not. We, as a community, CAN play both games and not have either of them suffer, but not as long as the two sects are blaming each other for downturns of attendance. Again, the only people we have to blame for Melee's loss of player base are the Melee players for abandoning their own game.
Let's assume for a moment that Brawl didn't 'steal' players from Melee and instead the Melee player base stayed static. The influx of new players to Brawl, therefore, would have NO EFFECT on the Melee player base; no matter how large the Brawl player base got, Melee would remain healthy because the mere existence of Brawl/Brawl players can't overtly effect the Melee community (which is ultimately the argument you've been making all along: Brawl, simply by existing, is stealing Melee players and thus people need to stop playing Brawl so they can instead play Melee). The only logical conclusion to be reached is that the only people to blame for Melee's poor showing the last few months are the Melee fans themselves. Not the '08 posters. Not newbie players. Not people who only play Brawl, or even people that play both games.
I know this knowledge hurts. Coreygames is on my ignore list because of his incessant whining about 'Oh, no one came to my Melee tourney! Brawl is so evil!!11', and it can't feel good when I say that he only has himself/his fellow Melee friends to blame. Hell,
I'd be pissed, too. But if he, or anyone else sharing his position, had a
shred of intellectual honesty, they'd be openly admitting that they
aren't interested in moderation, they
aren't interested in getting people to play both games. They are
only interested in making Melee dominant. Not equal. Not better than it is now. The biggest, the best, the most widely played Smash game out of the three. It doesn't matter that we can't agree on what makes a 'competitive game'. They know, in their hearts, that they are right and because of this, Brawl must be resigned to a lame fate, only to be played as a sideshow to the
real Smash game (Melee), and
certainly not to be respected in any legitimate way.
As an intellectual and a man of open-mind, I cannot agree with this.
EDIT @ HoChiMinhTrail: It's good to hear some of your area's pros are coming back to Melee. It's even better that the situation is perfectly parroting what I had already postulated (if I'm reading you correctly, that is). Real-world evidence is always nice.