This whole discussion sounds to me like a whole lot of caring too much.
Let the babies cry about their characters and don't be a baby crying about babies crying about their characters. Life's too short. Any serious emotional investment in a video game is too much emotional investment. Just let it slide on by.
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I understand your view about this, but my situation is a bit separated from the game. It's not about the characters.
(Warning, I'm about to be a total chatterbox. I have tried to restrain myself, but I can't figure out how to spell out my exact problem without spilling into a wall of text oh dear god I'm even doing that with this disclaimer, aren't I...)
It's about a general problem I have with stress and intrusive thoughts, and how being around people throwing a disproportionate amount of mud and knives at each other for long periods of time... like say, nonstop for seven years at this point*... tends to exacerbate those problems.
Then when I try to do something innocuous related to that mud/knife throwing, surprise surprise! I can't think of anything but that when doing the thing. I can no longer enjoy the thing until the memory dulls and stops barging in uninvited. And because the thing is frequently what I'm doing at the time to de-stress, I've been suddenly cut off from a major outlet. I
try to ignore it, I
try to just like the thing anyway, but it's never any good. That usually just gets me thinking about it more.
This isn't
just a problem with Smash. It's a problem with most things I try to enjoy but ultimately can't because I'm too bothered by having nobody to talk to about my interests to stay away from the fandoms, even if I know they're a very bad idea--My close friends and I tend to
not share interests, Smash being one of them, so I usually have to wait to talk around them.
That's probably why I can't shut up when I
do get a chance to talk, come to think of it... like a shaken-up soda bottle.
Yes, I
do have issues. I'm already being treated for them. That doesn't mean I'm cured.
(*My mistake before... I just cannot get it through my head that Brawl's lifespan crossed decades, I always think of it as a "late 2000s" thing, not a "early 2010s" thing...)
(*Also, it was nonstop because I may have taken a break from here for four years, but I was part of the Super Smash Flash 2 backroom for most of that time, so I was still in
its community. Also I used Miiverse regularly.)
(*...I wasn't fired from the SSF2BR, if that's what you're thinking. Something else happened there that crossed the moral event horizon, and that made me not only quit the BR but burn my bridge to that community and stop playing SSF2 permanently. I've only opened that game
once since July 2017, and that was to take measurements for the World Tournament stage for Stage Builder.)
(*Oh for
sake I did it again...)