sometimes it takes something small to realize how ignorant some people can be
Oh, I'm fully aware of just how ignorant my family back home is. It just extended even further than I thought. He legitimately never played female characters because
he wasn't female. Those characters were made for girls to play. And that's why there were more male characters in videogames. Because only guys really like videogames.
Through the week while we were in town, my brother and I just talked with him and tried to expand his perspective on a whole host of topics, and it ended with me buying him a copy of Fire Emblem Awakening and asking him to play it to understand why I'd want to play as Lucina. He did, and now Fire Emblem is one of his favorite series and he's no longer weird about playing as girls. He's still fairly closed-minded and makes too many gay jokes for my liking, but he's grown a lot since then. And a lot more than he would have if we hadn't initiated the conversation.
As someone who grew up in a 95% white, isolated, Bible Belt town, I realize that I would've been the same way if people hadn't helped me relearn the world. Ignorance isn't always bad. Persistent,
willful ignorance is bad.