This is a very real problem within the community. To me, this is an important community and was an integral part of my coming out and transitioning. Feeling uncomfortable within the main community I participate is a very real problem for me, and other trandgenders within the community.
Specifically, I would like to call to attention posts, and comments made by Lovage and Westballz during the Kings of Cali tournament series.
Before KoC1, I changed my tag, and began to present and live as female. This was to symbolize my growing as a person and leaving behind the person I used to be. KoC was to be my first OOS tournament as a new person/ Lovage and Westballs were openly and publicly offensive towards me and my transition, outright refusing to refer to me by my preferred gender and name.
KoC 2 and 3, Lovage made thinly veiled trans-phobic remarks towards Corigames, a player in attendance, basically denying that she's a woman/implying she's less of a woman than a ciswoman.
During Apex 2013 several players referred to me using male pronouns, or outright calling me "******" and other offensive comments while outwardly presenting as female and insisting I be called by my preferred gender.
This thread is to call this practice in to question, and make it more aware to the community at large. Smash community, be the better community. Trans-phobia is very rampant in other competitive communities, in fact, moreso in the fgc than smash. Let's strive to eliminate this and set an example for others. We have a very active LBGT community, with many of our community figureheads being of alternate sexualities. Why can't alternative gender identity and expression be as accepted as sexuality?
Specifically, I would like to call to attention posts, and comments made by Lovage and Westballz during the Kings of Cali tournament series.
Before KoC1, I changed my tag, and began to present and live as female. This was to symbolize my growing as a person and leaving behind the person I used to be. KoC was to be my first OOS tournament as a new person/ Lovage and Westballs were openly and publicly offensive towards me and my transition, outright refusing to refer to me by my preferred gender and name.
KoC 2 and 3, Lovage made thinly veiled trans-phobic remarks towards Corigames, a player in attendance, basically denying that she's a woman/implying she's less of a woman than a ciswoman.
During Apex 2013 several players referred to me using male pronouns, or outright calling me "******" and other offensive comments while outwardly presenting as female and insisting I be called by my preferred gender.
This thread is to call this practice in to question, and make it more aware to the community at large. Smash community, be the better community. Trans-phobia is very rampant in other competitive communities, in fact, moreso in the fgc than smash. Let's strive to eliminate this and set an example for others. We have a very active LBGT community, with many of our community figureheads being of alternate sexualities. Why can't alternative gender identity and expression be as accepted as sexuality?