seriously, my girlfriend gave me the wrong date for the wedding, and it's this weekend, but I didn't feel ok with screwing all my friends out of going to this, so my stance is to still come to this because hell, I love PA smash and I don't think it's right to **** people over when I've already let them know I'm free. If my family was like, "come have dinner with us", hell yea I'd be like, "no, I made plans to go play video games." I can understand the other side to the argument, but to me, if you already have plans, no matter how silly it sounds to the other party, you're well within your rights to let them know that your busy.