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Fuelbi

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Wow then your girlfriend must be smoking hot... **** it we have like a 6 year age difference

*goes to his room*

Dont talk to me Im depressed. When am I getting a girlfriend my league? T_T :chuckle:
 

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My goodness. Wak, if that's the reason you're with that girl your relationship won't last. I'm glad you find her attractive, but don't let that be the reason you're with her. And Roach, those girls aren't your league. No self-respecting woman is in your league if this is the way you view them. I fear for any woman who ends up with you before you've seriously reconsidered the way you view them. You might say you're joking, but even this gives a small glimpse into the way you think about women. Because jokes like these just aren't funny.
 

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Hey, we all need to relax here.

It's not like I view women as an object to be looked at, but I do like to look at attractive women once in a while, as they like to look at attractive men.

It's not like we're immature lil pricks that walk around drooling at every attractive woman we see.
 

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I believe that about you, but not about everyone who has posted here. And regardless, we could 'relax' about it, but I think there's a reason why many of the women in America constantly feel like they aren't good enough. I have seen the effect this has on women, and it hurts me to even see it--just think about how it actually affects them. All I'm saying is that the world on a whole needs to change the way we view and improve the way we respect women.
 

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Wow I was just joking sans the chuckle. ANYWAYS, I dont give a **** whether or not women like me but if they treat me right. I had this thing on a girl a few weeks ago until I realized she was being a ******* on me so I kinda lost interest and now I have a thing on this other girl who yeah may insult me but its in a friendly way where you just insult people but in a JK kinda way. And I kinda look for a, again, a woman/girl(since Im not at the age for women yet) who is sensative yet passionate :chuckle:
 

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They're prostitutes in the way they show themselves off. That's not what I want for the woman I'll marry. Scott's right in saying that love comes from so much more. And the thing is, you getting involved in this stuff now will seriously damage your future marriage should it ever happen.
Who cares if they show themselves off. Many women feel empowered, liberated, etc when they pose nude. Some of them just think it's a lot of fun. It is completely unfair to call them prostitutes based on your personal bias on how you think people should live their lives. And looking at hot women doesn't 100% damage a potential marriage. Depends on the relationship. PS. We are human beings and will look at other attractive human beings.

Man, you'd better watch how you 'have fun', or else you're going to end up in a seriously damaged relationship. How would you feel if your girlfriend saw this thread?
I know if he were my boyfriend, I wouldn't care.

Women are seriously hurt by the way we view them. That's what pushes them to slab on tons of make-up, starve themselves, dress in skimpy clothes, and prostitute themselves to whoever they're romantically involved with at the time. Otherwise they don't think they're beautiful.
Women with low self esteem allow themselves to be this way. Yeah, media does make an unfair image or pushes an unfair image, but I know plenty of women who don't give a **** about that. I'm one of them. It takes more than seeing pretty people everywhere to push a girl to "prostitute" themselves out, and ESPECIALLY to starve themselves(bulimia and anorexia is a multifaceted disease). It's a factor, but there are underlying issues that causes a girl to be this way in the first place.

In essence, we men hold in us the power to make these women enrich their lives by becoming truly beautiful, or destroy their lives by constantly second-guessing themselves. Guess what you're doing to them now?
He's seeing pictures of hot women and calling them hot. It's not like he's telling his girlfriend she has to look like Megan Fox. Women do this to men, too. And what do we see 90% of in ads and the movies? Big, muscular men. Women also cause men to feel a ton of inadequacies and expect men to live up to the role as "man", which is another level of bull****. It's horrible to tell a woman to act like a "woman", but a ridiculous amount of women expect a man to act like a "man".

In the end, a woman decides on the type of guy they want to date. She decides what kind of media she allows herself to be exposed to. She allows herself to stress over her looks. She allows all this to affect her.
 

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Exactly. I plan to be married to the most beautiful woman in the world. The thing is, it doesn't matter if any of you disagree with me, it's only as long as I believe she's the most beautiful. The women you've been posting pictures of, they're not beautiful. They're prostitutes in the way they show themselves off. That's not what I want for the woman I'll marry. Scott's right in saying that love comes from so much more. And the thing is, you getting involved in this stuff now will seriously damage your future marriage should it ever happen. You'll have expectations for your wife to be like the women you've seen online or are posting pictures of now. And she'll never feel good enough for you because that's the standard you're measuring her up against. As for me, there is a woman I'm pursuing right now. And I do believe she's far more beautiful than any of the women you've posted here. She loves God and she respects herself. She is of more noble character than almost any other woman I've met in my entire life. She amazes me each time I speak with her and calls me to be a better man of God. That's true beauty.



Man, you'd better watch how you 'have fun', or else you're going to end up in a seriously damaged relationship. How would you feel if your girlfriend saw this thread? Women are seriously hurt by the way we view them. That's what pushes them to slab on tons of make-up, starve themselves, dress in skimpy clothes, and prostitute themselves to whoever they're romantically involved with at the time. Otherwise they don't think they're beautiful. Understand this: Women need to know they're beautiful. The more you reinforce that the beauty comes from the outside, the more they'll believe it. The more you reinforce that there is a deeper beauty to women, the more they'll believe that.

In essence, we men hold in us the power to make these women enrich their lives by becoming truly beautiful, or destroy their lives by constantly second-guessing themselves. Guess what you're doing to them now?
All that's fair enough man and I have respect for you for staying firm in your beliefs.

But some women just like to watch porn/movies/play video games/drink&smoke with you and **** for hours on end.That is my idea of the perfect woman.You love your girl because she is just as devoted to god as you and you feel that can help you blossom as a person.You both feel complete with each other on a spiritual level am I right?

Where as my girlfriend and me enjoy,smoking,drinking,similar music and having lots of sex.We fulfil everything we need for both ourselves and each other both physically and emotionally,just as you do and isn't that all that matters in the end?My girlfriend is nowhere near perfect looks wise,she has to wear an insulin pump 24 hours a day(yes ALL the time)but it doesn't matter because I care about her enough that it doesn't matter to me

Its nothing to do with the kind of woman you end up with.It's about whether or not you share things you both like and about enjoying being with each other,whether or not your doing these things.

Yes these women in the pictures are attractive,but in no way am I suggesting that that is the kinda girl I have to end up with because its more than likely unrealistic and won't necessarily guarantee me happiness.(Both emotionally and physically)



This is her and im safely able to say that she would love me showing you guys this photo because it's her favourite one of us.look at how happy she is right here(and her cleavage):)

Sorry about the rant but the whole god thing was just driving me crazy there.
 

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Oh and I also look for a woman who gots teh skillz in smash bros. but to get back on topic I wouldnt hear any song made by madonna :chuckle:
 

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I think the best is when livvers, one of the few girls out there, came to give us a better point of view of what the 2009 woman really is.

Proverbs, maybe you didn't want to give me this impression, but anyway. You're talking as if the general female gender was an easly fading flower, all according to our way to interact with them. Well I can tell you that you're out of the track, badly.

They are humans to, they can love someone as much as they can not talk to a guy because he's ****ing ugly or uninterresting. They talk about sex to, they have their experience, their not-so-great nights to. They can drink alcohol and abuse it if they want to. They ***** in guys back, they can be pretty mean. They decide when, how and what part of their body can be touched, and they decide wich guy can do that, as long as they have their part of skin to.

Womens can get a lot of attention in a day, by many different guys. Do you really think giving attention to a girl will make you original? Maybe by putting her on a pedestrial... Hell it's according to me a fabulous way to end up virgin, unless you have a blind date that will end up a marriage whatever happens thanks to your religion.

Womens are just like us if you ask me.
 

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So, whats going on with this thread? Are you guys gonna get back to staying on topic or throw in more opinions?


Getting back to the topic: Shave my legs. Did any1 say that before? Or anything about having a baby?
 

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So, whats going on with this thread? Are you guys gonna get back to staying on topic or throw in more opinions?


Getting back to the topic: Shave my legs. Did any1 say that before? Or anything about having a baby?
I've shaved my legs before... it wasn't that bad. Still I wouldn't do it very often.

Things I wouldn't do as a man... wow, there's so many. I would never, ever ever ever ever see Mamma Mia! That's just plain against the rules.
 

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Nope^^^^^

Id never take park my car like a ******.

Or watch high school musical,any of them.

Its bad enough that my GF has a poster of Zac effron on her wall.She loves him.
 

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Who cares if they show themselves off. Many women feel empowered, liberated, etc when they pose nude. Some of them just think it's a lot of fun. It is completely unfair to call them prostitutes based on your personal bias on how you think people should live their lives. And looking at hot women doesn't 100% damage a potential marriage. Depends on the relationship. PS. We are human beings and will look at other attractive human beings.




I know if he were my boyfriend, I wouldn't care.



Women with low self esteem allow themselves to be this way. Yeah, media does make an unfair image or pushes an unfair image, but I know plenty of women who don't give a **** about that. I'm one of them. It takes more than seeing pretty people everywhere to push a girl to "prostitute" themselves out, and ESPECIALLY to starve themselves(bulimia and anorexia is a multifaceted disease). It's a factor, but there are underlying issues that causes a girl to be this way in the first place.



He's seeing pictures of hot women and calling them hot. It's not like he's telling his girlfriend she has to look like Megan Fox. Women do this to men, too. And what do we see 90% of in ads and the movies? Big, muscular men. Women also cause men to feel a ton of inadequacies and expect men to live up to the role as "man", which is another level of bull****. It's horrible to tell a woman to act like a "woman", but a ridiculous amount of women expect a man to act like a "man".

In the end, a woman decides on the type of guy they want to date. She decides what kind of media she allows herself to be exposed to. She allows herself to stress over her looks. She allows all this to affect her.
Because you're a woman I took a good while to reflect over what you said and after some consideration, I still completely disagree. I still completely disagree with pornography and I've seen its negative effects on both men and women. I've talked to men and women from both sides of the spectrum. Those who have been involved with that type of life and have gotten out, and those who are still in it. Those who have gotten out have expressed everything I've said. Those who haven't have shown the negative effects in their lives and world views that were explained to me by those who came from that lifestyle. Likewise, with divorce I'd have to completely disagree. The vast majority of America lives in lust and our divorce rates are higher now than ever. Now, let me give you an example from my church instead. I've seen at most a 0.01% divorce rate. Not only that, but the people who start dating often end up married, if I were to guess, 90% of the time, and stay happily married for years. All I've said is what I've learned from other people's lives and what God has done in their lives to transform them. One woman who shared in our church about a month ago talked about her life before coming to God, when she was a prostitute. Many other women between branches of my church, and in fact any Christian woman who I've talked to about this has expressed the same exact view. I don't think that's brainwashing, but that there is a real issue that's being solved by God.

That being said, I have to disagree with your opinion 100%. This is the testimony of one woman, I've heard the testimony of many more than just that. Being so, I have to deny your opinion 100%. You can agree to disagree, and I mean no disrespect by my disagreement. I won't further our debate in any other way. It's distracting from the topic.


I think the best is when livvers, one of the few girls out there, came to give us a better point of view of what the 2009 woman really is.
I don't agree with what the 2009 woman is for multiple reasons. Again, really high divorce rates show that there's an issue with both genders and their interactions with one another.

Proverbs, maybe you didn't want to give me this impression, but anyway. You're talking as if the general female gender was an easly fading flower, all according to our way to interact with them. Well I can tell you that you're out of the track, badly.
I do believe that men should take care of women and I do regard men as stronger than women in the majority of situations. That's not me being sexist, I think that's just the reality of the situation. However, I don't regard them as inferior by any stretch of the imagination. Women are much more quick to accept God and keep their focus on God than men are by far. And if you know my background, you know that goes a lot farther in my eyes than 'strength'. See 2 Corinthians 12:9 "[God's] power is made perfect in weakness." Women are much quicker to accept this than men, and can often hold a close relationship with God more consistently than men. In my time at my college we baptized one man and two women. I don't think that's a coincidence. Many more women than men in our church were baptized last year, and that is the general trend. I believe that women are naturally more spiritual than men. Again, I think you understand how much that means by my standards.

They are humans to, they can love someone as much as they can not talk to a guy because he's ****ing ugly or uninterresting. They talk about sex to, they have their experience, their not-so-great nights to. They can drink alcohol and abuse it if they want to. They ***** in guys back, they can be pretty mean. They decide when, how and what part of their body can be touched, and they decide wich guy can do that, as long as they have their part of skin to.
Not sure what you're trying to say here.

Womens can get a lot of attention in a day, by many different guys. Do you really think giving attention to a girl will make you original? Maybe by putting her on a pedestrial... Hell it's according to me a fabulous way to end up virgin, unless you have a blind date that will end up a marriage whatever happens thanks to your religion.
I don't do what I think is 'original', I do what I think first and foremost pleases God, and secondly what I think will help others. Lastly, I take myself into consideration--not to say that I do this all the time or even most of the time, but this is the way I'm trying to live. Regardless, I don't care what you want to refer to my actions as. It doesn't matter to me if I'm putting women up on a pedestal or acting chivalrous when chivalry is dead or if I'm regarded as a sexist. These are points of view that humans have. They think "because I don't want to look like a sexist, I won't do this." I just look for what God's will is and don't care what others think if they oppose it. Think about it: Why should I care what people think when there's a God out there who loves me much more than these people, and knows what's best for both myself and them? I don't know about you, but I know my place. God's been running this universe for a bit longer than I have.

And likewise, I don't care if I end up a virgin. Having sex is not the focal point of my existence.

Womens are just like us if you ask me.
This isn't true. Women are incredibly different from men in a multitiude of ways from the core. I honestly think this opinion (no offense intended toward you, I'm just seizing an opportunity to speak my mind) is why there are so few real men today. Since they think that men and women are no different, they take that as an excuse to act womanly--which is to be praised if you're a woman, but is shameful if you're a man. The thing is, we have been so quick to abandon our natural roles that we've actually begun to switch. That's why so many women are taking the lead these days, because they're often more manly than men are. It's horrible. I commend the women that step up to the task when they're needed. It's amazing to see them step out of themselves to lead when men won't. But I weep for the men. They're not even men at all, they're simply bigger boys.

I'll leave this topic here, as it's completely de-railed the whole thread, but I am not at all ashamed of what I said. However, Livvers and Wak, I do want you to know that I take your words into consideration in a different manner. I do believe that I go a bit too far in my opinion at times. Since I don't naturally tend toward this point of view I end up over-compensating at times. So I really will take this to heart, because while I do disagree with your opinions on the whole, I think there is a good deal I need to learn about women, though I'll never approve of pornography or lust. I've seen too much destruction of relationships and marriages from that. Regardless, thanks for the conversation. I'm glad to get some different points of view.

tl;dr: I disagree for the most part, but I'll take what you said into serious consideration. My point of view is far from perfect.
 

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SHUT THE **** UP ALREADY. WE ALL HACE OUR ****ING OPINIONS AND BECAUSE YOU ARE ALL ARGUING YOU ARE GONNA GET THIS ****ING ****TY GOD **** SON OF A ***** THREAD LOCKED!!!!!!!!

Back on topic: A man wouldnt bleed corosive acid instead of real blood(guess where I got thay from :chuckle:)
 

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I just look for what God's will is and don't care what others think if they oppose it. Think about it: Why should I care what people think when there's a God out there who loves me much more than these people, and knows what's best for both myself and them?
This is where I understood we won't understand eachother, and giving my opinion (or religion, call it like you want) is not the same toward what you call God. Livvers has a pretty similar opinion of mine, and the reason why probably turns around "we don't believe God has anything to do about our relationship with the opposite sex".

I'll make a really funny analogy, but think about it.

At smash, people have only played with one character, always one. they have been told to just stick with a character and that's how you'll love the game, because you and your character will someday make one. Let's say it's the same with marriage, waiting for the right girl and someday you marry her, without seeing what else you can choose as a wife. If you only know one girl, you sure will be happy of your life someday, because you have never experienced anything else.

Let's say one day, you try another smash character, and you are somewhat awkward for the first 10 mins because it's not what you first experienced, sure you'll think "wow, it was completely better with the other one" and I agree. But try 3 or 4 more characters, and you'll understand what the "game" really is. Open your mind, try different characters and see what you prefer and what you dislike more from them. You may think your first choice was the best, but you'll see how other characters have a lot of different benefits you didn't think about.

My first girlfriend lasted 7 months and I was hoping it would last until we die, it was so beautiful, my first girlfriend.
One day I realised maybe I wasn't happy with her? But who cares, I'm there, I like the situation, I'll just keep it like that.

And one day it ended, and I was all by myself and I do believe it's the hardest part
to finally become a man
. BUT what could I do now? Look at other womens? well yes. I realised some other girls was just as attractive, just as intelligent and would like to share their life with me. I understood what the "game" really was.

There are no perfect woman, they all made me happy the way they were, and for the moment it lasted. I'm with the same girl for 1 year and 2 months now, I experienced a lot of girls and I do know the one I have right now is a thousand times better than the first one.

Sure, there are more separation, it's only because people realise the first choice was not necessarly the best brace. They only end up happier than they could have been with only a one-girl-experience-in-a-lifetime.
 

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SHUT THE **** UP ALREADY. WE ALL HACE OUR ****ING OPINIONS AND BECAUSE YOU ARE ALL ARGUING YOU ARE GONNA GET THIS ****ING ****TY GOD **** SON OF A ***** THREAD LOCKED!!!!!!!!

Back on topic: A man wouldnt bleed corosive acid instead of real blood(guess where I got thay from :chuckle:)
Real men don't use words, they use their fists :mad:

Although for this occasion, internet fist.
 

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Think about it: Why should I care what people think when there's a God out there who loves me much more than these people, and knows what's best for both myself and them? I don't know about you, but I know my place. God's been running this universe for a bit longer than I have.

And likewise, I don't care if I end up a virgin. Having sex is not the focal point of my existence.
Firstly: (and this will be the last I say about this topic)

How can you say God loves you much more?

Isin't he supposed to love everyone equally no matter what they do?

Secondly:Sex is the only reason you,me or anything has an existence.
 

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a real man would knock all of these walls of text down with his bare fists. or maybe a jackhammer.

seriously how about you get on topic and talk about MANLY things.
 

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Real men would take off all their clothes except their underwear, get a beer(or soda in my case), and watch some FOOTBALL!!!
 
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