Yeah I'm not taking steroids, I just want a decent body not an Arnold body.
Lol, I wasn't saying you did steroids. I was saying that you're in for the long haul <unless> you take the cheater's way out. A lot of people mistake leanness for growth, since leanness comes exponentially quicker.
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Also, I've been doing flexibility training for a while now. Due to some anatomical irregularities (congenital tendon shortness in legs and consequently stiff hip joint capsules) progress has been exceptionally slow, but I'm now almost at a full front split. I wish I had before and after pictures, but this is the result of almost two years of stretching (isometrics and PNFs were slow, even):
I wanna have that for when I complete the split. I'm about 5 inches from the ground right now. It might be hard to tell, since my back leg wasn't in the picture. I'm really excited.
An additional note, that same tendon shortness is what makes squats really difficult for me. I cannot touch my heel to the floor if my knee is flexed, so I have to widen my stance and evert my feet when I do them, which puts a lot of extra stress on my quads. Same thing in my hands, too. In fact, when I went to the podiatrist to have it looked at, they found I have a 5 degree deficit in dorsiflexion of both my hands and feet. Average dorsiflexion should be 10-15 degrees; mine's -5. My wrists can barely bend backwards.