I hated it at first, but now I love Brawl, and I still feel that most of the complaints for it are based around people having a Melee-mindset. When I play Melee, it reminds me how much I like Brawl more. I used to reminisce about Melee and wish that Brawl didn't exist, but each time I play Melee I find myself realizing that it isn't as miraculous by comparison, and that in reality, all I'm doing is creating a false image.
Sam was at my work today (LAWL I FIXES HER 'PUTAR!) and was telling me how lame Metaknight's infinite cape invincibility is, I can't argue that it's lame, but even given that, I still feel like Brawl is much more open to options acrossed the board as far as character viability goes.
More importantly though, Melee WILL die out. Maybe not this year, maybe not next year, but it will be impossible to get all of the newbies (or any of them, probably) to play Melee. Why would they? To them, Brawl is the newer game, the better game, why would they play an older game?
You have to face this. There is no arguing that point. Even if you and I and the whole existing community understands the greatness of Melee, the pool will eventually become impossibly stagnant. This is inevitable. Given that, I don't even see the point in ignoring Brawl because you like Melee better.
In the end, the only real option is to get better at Brawl, and get used to what is there and try to find a way around some of the more aggravating tactics. Going back to Melee is the lame way out, it doesn't get you anywhere.
/soapbox, whew.