I agree with Fire. I don't hate melee the game, I hate melee the community. That community, along with brawl/pm/sm4sh, I feel is toxic. The people ignorantly insert themselves into conversation, they worship and idolize talented players, and they have no grasp on the world and social dynamics outside of the socially forgiving video game community. I just feel that these other communities give competitive and casual gaming a bad reputation and they make the term "basement virgin" a reality. There is nothing wrong with someone who lives in their parents basement and is a virgin, but the stereotypical behavior that is associated with the term (which is how its used, its not used literally) is self destructive to the person and its own community. It makes me feel bad for them but I've tried talking to these types of people and you just stop feeling bad when they do it to themselves and refuse to see any perspective outside of their paganism for the melee gods. I joined smash through brawl and for years I was embarrassed to admit publicly I played the game because of how socially inept the community was, it wasn't until a couple years ago, and more so a few months after that, in which I felt comfortable admitting I played smash to non smashers since the 64 community was so tolerable and normal. I admittedly enjoy watching top level melee. Its far more impressive than most other games, but spend a day on reddit, go to a melee only tournament, go to the other games subforums, and you will end up hating the game by extension of its community. Did melee create the community or did the community just so happen to latch on to melee? I don't know, but unfortunately the game is guilty by association.
We had a tournament in PA this past weekend which featured all the games. Great turnout, great venue, but unfortunately since we were all playing in doubles WF the door was open for some melee/sm4sh kids to hop on commentary. Ignore the close set and the 64 doubles gameplay, instead torture yourself by listening to their commentary. This isn't an outlier, this is how the casual smasher in the other games is. This is the embodiment of the melee community. Not only is the few things they say about 64 wrong, but these people try to infect 64 with discussion of the other games. When singles GF is uploaded make sure you stab yourself in the face and listen to their commentary again.
I know people are different, I understand some people are introverted, shy, antisocial, whatever. I don't judge someone for certain aspects of their personality. But regardless of what kind of person you are, understand that melee paganism, discussion of other games, ignorantly trying to have a discussion assuming others are more ignorant than yourself, and self promotion when you're not fooling anyone on how bad you are at the game are things that, to me, are intolerable.