Takumaru
Smash Lord
Question for all you gays who are out: do you feel like people expect you to act really flamboyant or that you have to fit a very stereotypical model of what a gay man should be?
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I dunno about the "really flamboyant" part, but people seem to expect something. Once I come out to people, they sometimes refer to me as being one of the "normal" ones. >_>Question for all you gays who are out: do you feel like people expect you to act really flamboyant or that you have to fit a very stereotypical model of what a gay man should be?
Pretty much the same with me, except that I'm not even gay...My straight friends act gayer than I do, so I don't think they expect me to know anything special because I like men.
*big homo hug*Mmmm, thought I'd update you all. Yesterday I was hanging out with one of my lab partners. He's a really cool guy. Really open minded and laid back, and engaged too. Anyway, I asked him how he met his fiance and how long they've been together; just the usual stuff you ask an engaged guy. Then he asked me if I'd dated anyone or ever had anyone special and I responded "well not, girls haven't worked out for me and I kind of like men." Haha, I didn't even realize what I had said until after I said it. But anyway, he's cool with it and it's been such a huge weight of my shoulders knowing that someone else knows. I suppose fresh starts are a good thing.
Meh, it's more like I always knew and a certain someone gave me a push in the right direction.*big homo hug*
wow... just wow... you only just realize you're gay and you already start coming out to people you interact with on a regular basis.... I'm so proud I could cry.
wish I had that kind of chutzpa
Question for all you gays who are out: do you feel like people expect you to act really flamboyant or that you have to fit a very stereotypical model of what a gay man should be?
I don't even wanna think about what that's gonna be like...(Parents, well... they are a different story entirely >_> )
awwwr. I want a somebody nowYeah, I mentioned this in the group, but feel as though the group has since died.
But as a fun fact, I'm in a relationship.
GASP.
It's the guy I mentioned in the previous topic that I said "I love you" to when under the influence of sleeping pills. I haven't been this happy in a while.
My sisters were all in town this last week, and asked me if I wanted to go get pedicures with them. Hahahaha. Other than that, my family really hasn't talked about it. At all.Question for all you gays who are out: do you feel like people expect you to act really flamboyant or that you have to fit a very stereotypical model of what a gay man should be?
I have much the same problem... by being a college student who doesn't really enjoy the party scene... I'm not only severly limiting my options... I'm also limiting my opportunities to meet someone in the first place.I don't know how to meet people. I don't drink, and drinking is a small pet peeve of mine (I don't like being around the smell,) so bars are out. It's not like I can go up to someone and ask them out either.
well lucky you XDI'm a college student and I've never been to a single of those "parties" and I have a girlfriend.
that was NOT a typo mr. freud <_<I'm about to head out to Dallas pride!
I hope to have very fondled memories of tonight!
On that note, I don't think it was a Freudian Slip either.that was NOT a typo mr. freud <_<
Hear hear.I'm about to head out to Dallas pride!
I hope to have very fondled memories of tonight!
Oh my boyfriend is always with me. They don't care when they are drunk, lol.wow... well I avoided well enough... but I guess that's because I was with a friend... which made us look like a couple.
Not a fan of Brawl, I take it?The last 2 days of that tournament were so awful. Xelic and I wanted to cry.
It would vary from person-to-person of course, but with my experience it's 100% accurate. Except replace "few weeks" with "few months." I talked to the ex for the first time tonight since like May.A lot of people say that if a couple breaks up, and they want to stay friends, they need to give each other a few weeks of space-- etc
I found it dry and boring.... I enjoyed the characters, really I did... but honestly I found it trying... al the silly etiqutte and appearance considerations that no longer hold any relevance....It's so boring to watch, I wanted to Oedipus my eyes out.
Have you guys read Pride and Prejudice? We're reading it in my Jane Austen class and I find it amazing.