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Smash Master
he didn't say I will tell my brother and sister to tell my parents?
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Mr.Loser
Smash Apprentice
Yah about that; my evil ex-bestfriend ended up calling my parents on my ride home (it is a 30 min drive) and telling them that I am gay. That was even worse than him de-friending me. My dad was so pissed off (he said he was going to take me to counseling >_<), though it could have been worse. Luckily my oldest sister/sibling (who I just came out of the closet to today) had already did so herself and they now had experience in the issue.
Just be sure to tell them before someone else does.
Hmm...I'm like Darkfur in that I'm bi leaning heavily towards guys. I've only come out to 2 or 3 people in real life. I don't ever plan on telling my parents, but they've already found...stuff. Mostly gay porn on my PC and some chat logs. They think I'm sexually confused and forced me in to Christian therapy. Which sucked and didn't do a thing. They forced me and my ex apart when we were dating.
Currently I'm in a...strange relationship. I've never really come out to a public forum about this, but I'm in love with two male polygamists. It's a very unique relationship. Both of them are currently visiting each other for Christmas break until after New Years, which is pissing me off and upsetting me badly. :/ They haven't even talked to me since one of them left... My parents noticed this and I lied and said I was upset about moving, so now they want to send me to therapy about that. Thankfully it's a different one who uses methods that sound better. One loves in New York and the other lives in Kansas. The New Yorker is visiting the Kansasian right now.
I didn't know about myself until I was 12. I developed a huge crush on a friend of mine and obsessed over him. Every minute in school was spent hanging around with him, and whenever I wasn't with him I was sad and thinking about him. Good times. =P Always had fantasies of us together and getting married and stuff. It lasted all the way throughout school until I switched to home school, with other various crushes going on. Also, gym showers were awesome.
I don't really want a family at all, either. I have no desire to have kids or get married...which would be hard with two lovers and all.
Currently I'm in a...strange relationship. I've never really come out to a public forum about this, but I'm in love with two male polygamists. It's a very unique relationship. Both of them are currently visiting each other for Christmas break until after New Years, which is pissing me off and upsetting me badly. :/ They haven't even talked to me since one of them left... My parents noticed this and I lied and said I was upset about moving, so now they want to send me to therapy about that. Thankfully it's a different one who uses methods that sound better. One loves in New York and the other lives in Kansas. The New Yorker is visiting the Kansasian right now.
I didn't know about myself until I was 12. I developed a huge crush on a friend of mine and obsessed over him. Every minute in school was spent hanging around with him, and whenever I wasn't with him I was sad and thinking about him. Good times. =P Always had fantasies of us together and getting married and stuff. It lasted all the way throughout school until I switched to home school, with other various crushes going on. Also, gym showers were awesome.
I don't really want a family at all, either. I have no desire to have kids or get married...which would be hard with two lovers and all.
SU_Remo
Remo Knows
That's really interesting. I've never met anybody at this age to be involved in a relationship like that. I'd be interested to hear how that came about and how it all works, especially since you guys live in different places. Sucks that you're bummed by the current situation. Hope things work out.
Amen to that, haha.
Well...over a year ago, in Julyish, I met the guy from New York on GameFAQs. I posted something out of depression and he contacted me about it. Then I fell in love with him and for a couple of weeks I thought it was just me and him, then he revealed he had a "soul mate." I was crushed and angry etc etc and hated his "soul mate" for the longest of times. Then he introduced me to him and...well, I liked him a lot. Then we talked more and I fell in love with him, too. And that's how it turned out. As for ages, I'm 16, the first one is 17, and the last one is 19. They're known as SeRazo and Zethis, respectively. I personally don't believe in polygamy but oh well. It kinda makes me upset sometimes, especially since I'm the jealous "grr give me the attention darn you" type. But...well, I'm happy.
SU_Remo
Remo Knows
Heh, I can see how being the jealous type and being in a relationship with three people can have its hangups, especially if you don't believe in polygamy. It's good that you're happy. Do you guys ever have chances to meet up together much?
No...I haven't met them. They've been together 5 years and this is their first time meeting. I'd have to get by my parents, too...and I don't really want them thinking I've run away for a few weeks nor do I really want to bring someone they don't know and have never heard of to the house randomly.
Seiya
Smash Journeyman
If someone tells them..they'll most likely not believe it. But I'll handle it if they do find out. =\
Haha..gym showers. Never experience that throughout my school year so far. Just locker room changing for Swim Team. -whistles-
Yea I'm like that too Yukichu. I get jealous BIG TIME and I can't help it. If I fall for some guy and I find out he already going out with someone, or better yet a girl. I get all depressed and stuff.
Hehe, I remember back then I'd like secretly flip off the girlfriends of my crushes and stuff. =P Good memories.
SU_Remo
Remo Knows
Haha, it's the little victories like that make the day better, lol.
I always picked on my crushes and stuff and I usually ended up in some kind of pseudo-friend-enemy relationship with their girl. =P 'Twas fun, always had little competitions with them and gave them fake answers to questions and stuff.
blink777
Smash Journeyman
Wow. What. A. Jerk. And knowing your parents reaction makes it all the worse. Jeez, I wish I could brick the guy with a sponge laden with chipmunk feces.
My goodness, a lot of you seem to be having extreme problems with your parents with this whole thing. I honestly thought that situations like this were just popular hyperbole, yet here it is. You have all my sympathy and my wishes that it'll all turn out well in the end.
You know, same thing here, especially on the kids factor. Kids can be cute, but having money is nice too
(j/k on that last comment, I'm not that bad).EDIT:
Oh you evil little bugger
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.:~*Momo*~:.
Smash Ace
My one crush had a girlfriend, and she even broke his heart... but for some reason I never really got jealous and I was friends with both of them. X3 ... and still am... though I don't see them as much as I did last year.
I don't think I'm the jealous type... it bothers me A LITTLE bit I must admit, but unless I'm already dating the guy then I won't make a big deal out of it. =P
I don't think I'm the jealous type... it bothers me A LITTLE bit I must admit, but unless I'm already dating the guy then I won't make a big deal out of it. =P
Mr.Loser
Smash Apprentice
Yah it seems that parental backlash is very common actually those who got a " We love you anyways Timmy!" are the lucky oddballs. Though from when me and my sis talked, the moment you come out is generally the peak of "parental backlash" and in most non-extremem cases (religous/homophobic parents) you should be fine in the end.
As for a family, it's hard to say right now. I actually hate children for now but with the right guy I am sure things can possibly maybe have a slight chance of changing my mind (see what I did there)
Also, for those of you who are talking to people freely as being gay, are you finding it hard/akward/wierd feeling to say stuff that shows you blatantly being a homosexual, or atleast bisexual. When I was talking to my sis I kept studdering anytime I tried to say (this is an exagerated version of what I said) "There is this guy in ROTC who I................... well I ummm... I really like him -__-". Anyone else have this problem?
As for a family, it's hard to say right now. I actually hate children for now but with the right guy I am sure things can possibly maybe have a slight chance of changing my mind (see what I did there)
Also, for those of you who are talking to people freely as being gay, are you finding it hard/akward/wierd feeling to say stuff that shows you blatantly being a homosexual, or atleast bisexual. When I was talking to my sis I kept studdering anytime I tried to say (this is an exagerated version of what I said) "There is this guy in ROTC who I................... well I ummm... I really like him -__-". Anyone else have this problem?
lumberheartwood
Smash Journeyman
Wow. Didn't know so many people here are out or closet anxious. I'm glad I'm out to my best friend, but my parents would never understand my choices, even though they trust me to do the right things ironically. Well, good luck to all of you closet people. I'm not necessarily closeted because I leave clues for them to figure out the sexuality I've chosen.
Just wondering, gay virginity (my view is that of a kiss). Was it easy for any of you on your first kisses? I've never even had a straight kiss but I'm just wondering what it feels like. (Yeah, don't make fun of me-also I'm bi but I lean 75% towards guys-I prefer them older than me-and 25% on girls younger than me)
Just wondering, gay virginity (my view is that of a kiss). Was it easy for any of you on your first kisses? I've never even had a straight kiss but I'm just wondering what it feels like. (Yeah, don't make fun of me-also I'm bi but I lean 75% towards guys-I prefer them older than me-and 25% on girls younger than me)
Seiya
Smash Journeyman
Sometimes. Like if it's with some of my really close friends, I won't studder. Now if it's like someone I JUST came out to or a friend yeah...it's hard.
XD yea I love flipping off or doing something mean to their girlfriends :D Like I'll be all nice and such in their face but in my head it's like "Haha you stupid little witch T_T I hate you" Ahh sometimes that gets me all happy for the day. ^-^
Yeah, I have trouble talking to people who know about attractions and stuff. It's cute when other guys do it though. :3
My first kiss was easy. It just comes naturally to you...it does feel good, though. Unless you do it too much...then it just hurts, especially if you're a lip-biter like I am.
My first kiss was easy. It just comes naturally to you...it does feel good, though. Unless you do it too much...then it just hurts, especially if you're a lip-biter like I am.
.:~*Momo*~:.
Smash Ace
It feels too weird to say that stuff outloud... I STILL can't really say it outloud even in private, but I can think it really easily. X3 So it feels akward for me to type about it, and it felt really akward telling my sis yesterday... in fact that still feels a little akward to me. ^^;
lumberheartwood
Smash Journeyman
Yah it seems that parental backlash is very common actually those who got a " We love you anyways Timmy!" are the lucky oddballs. Though from when me and my sis talked, the moment you come out is generally the peak of "parental backlash" and in most non-extreme cases (religous/homophobic parents) you should be fine in the end.
As for a family, it's hard to say right now. I actually hate children for now but with the right guy I am sure things can possibly maybe have a slight chance of changing my mind (see what I did there)
Also, for those of you who are talking to people freely as being gay, are you finding it hard/awkward/weird feeling to say stuff that shows you blatantly being a homosexual, or atleast bisexual. When I was talking to my sis I kept studdering anytime I tried to say (this is an exaggerated version of what I said) "There is this guy in ROTC who I................... well I ummm... I really like him -__-". Anyone else have this problem?[/QUOTE]
Actually, I show no signs of being gay, thats what my best friend tells me so I'm just myself. That's all I can say. I support gay equality and recognition, and I think there should be in no shame for wanting to love who you want to love. I may be bisexual but its not awkward talking about it online or in real life, because its a concept of everyday life, just like eating and hygiene and living in the moment.
As for a family, it's hard to say right now. I actually hate children for now but with the right guy I am sure things can possibly maybe have a slight chance of changing my mind (see what I did there)
Also, for those of you who are talking to people freely as being gay, are you finding it hard/awkward/weird feeling to say stuff that shows you blatantly being a homosexual, or atleast bisexual. When I was talking to my sis I kept studdering anytime I tried to say (this is an exaggerated version of what I said) "There is this guy in ROTC who I................... well I ummm... I really like him -__-". Anyone else have this problem?[/QUOTE]
Actually, I show no signs of being gay, thats what my best friend tells me so I'm just myself. That's all I can say. I support gay equality and recognition, and I think there should be in no shame for wanting to love who you want to love. I may be bisexual but its not awkward talking about it online or in real life, because its a concept of everyday life, just like eating and hygiene and living in the moment.
Seiya
Smash Journeyman
Agh! First kiss..! I haven't experienced one yet =\
lumberheartwood
Smash Journeyman
So its safe to say everyone here is at least 16 years of age to 21 right? Thank goodness. It feels easier to talk to people about this stuff if we are around the same age. Also, there are no lesbian Smash players are there? I've always wanted to meet one, but I guess that doesn't exist.
.:~*Momo*~:.
Smash Ace
I'm sure they exist... they just don't go here. @_@
And I've never had a first kiss either.
And I've never had a first kiss either.
lumberheartwood
Smash Journeyman
Wow. Me, Momo, and Seiya have so many similarities. Thank goodness you guys are in this thread.
blink777
Smash Journeyman
Not much help from me here. Only had "straight" kisses. On the subject though, the first was actually quite nice: definitely one of those "moment" things. I actually went a few weeks where I was completely convinced that there was no way I was gay. But then just about every kiss after that was just meh and often times outright uncomfortable (don't know how she felt about them, but I never wanted them to keep going... ****ing lip balm/stick/whatever that stuff was).
I'm not even near the point of making comments like that in real life
, but I'm absolutely positive it'll be awkward as hell.That brings me to another thought though. A lot of my friends (all twenty-something film student creative types) do the whole "fake gay" thing to get a laugh. You know, the odd overly flambouyant gesture, making ridiculously provocative comments, what-have-you (and trust me, I can assure you that the vast majority of them are straight). The odd thing about it though is that almost anytime I try something like that (only for fun, like them; I don't have any "crushes" on my film friends) I get confused or awkward looks/responses. Rarely a laugh, but usually a "wow, that was gay" or "yeah, awkward."
Could just be the fact that I'm usually not the one trying to get a laugh out of people, but I sometimes think they're suddenly fearful I'll step out of the closet onto set or something.
Mr.Loser
Smash Apprentice
Looks like I'm on the same page with his 1st kiss deal, I haven'y met another gay guy my age yet let alone got my 1st kiss. It's unfortunatly going to be awhile ;_;
lumberheartwood
Smash Journeyman
Wow Blink777. Which state do you live in and what college? (Don't worry, I live in California so I'm not a stalker type lol) I guess that them, being the goof balls they are, it seems natural and thats why its funny. Coming from you, who is less expressive of being a class clown, I think it comes to their surprises you would do such a thing. Jeez I sound like a prosaic fartbag right now. Oh jeez...
blink777
Smash Journeyman
Yeah, you're probably right. I'm definitely not the goofball type you'd expect that from.I guess that them, being the goof balls they are, it seems natural and thats why its funny. Coming from you, who is less expressive of being a class clown, I think it comes to their surprises you would do such a thing. Jeez I sound like a prosaic fartbag right now. Oh jeez...
Actually, I'm in Toronto, Canada. I just graduated from Toronto Film School.
... Hmm... I have one friend from school who's just about as insane about this game as I am, and I think I just left him a lovely revelation if he ever decides to jump ship from Gamefaq over to SmashBoards
.Seiya
Smash Journeyman
Aww shucks. XDWow. Me, Momo, and Seiya have so many similarities. Thank goodness you guys are in this thread.
Mr.Loser
Smash Apprentice
I actually tried using such a site to see if anyone from my hometown or near might be gay and near my age (no sugar daddies for this boy) no luck.
On a side note: This thread is asking for a gay stalker/rapist <_<'
Silent_Jester
Smash Journeyman
Im sure bisexuals are allowed to? I really don't care if its a man or woman, if it's love, it's love.
Mr.Loser
Smash Apprentice
Darkfur
Abbey Recorder
As to the talking about crushes things, I get really embarassed, no matter who I'm talking too. I embarass easily, and some people tell me that it's cute. I turn bright red when I think someones cute and am asked about it. It's like a tell in Poker you just can't hide. >_<
As to my first kiss, it was a moment thing too. It was actually with my current bpyfriend... we'd finally met IRL and were sitting on his bed. He was talking, and I was looking at him and listening quietly... and then just leaned over and kissed him. It was very nice.
I'm not too into tonguing kisses, but my love likes it so I do it for him. However, I love biting... absolutely love it. Not just on the lips either. Biting the shoulder is fun too. ^_^ Being bitten isn't half bad either. I think it's a very close activity just like kissing. Just be careful not to do it harder than your partner would like. Usually thats a "Don't draw blood"
I just got off of the phone with my boyfriend a few minutes ago. He's meeting some of his friends for dinner at IHOP then he's playing Rockband all night. It should be super fun. ^_^
As for me I may get to see Somasu tommorow. My straight friend Hayden and I are going to go get destroyed by him at Smash! It's going to be great. ^_^ I hope it works out.
As to my first kiss, it was a moment thing too. It was actually with my current bpyfriend... we'd finally met IRL and were sitting on his bed. He was talking, and I was looking at him and listening quietly... and then just leaned over and kissed him. It was very nice.
I'm not too into tonguing kisses, but my love likes it so I do it for him. However, I love biting... absolutely love it. Not just on the lips either. Biting the shoulder is fun too. ^_^ Being bitten isn't half bad either. I think it's a very close activity just like kissing. Just be careful not to do it harder than your partner would like. Usually thats a "Don't draw blood"
I just got off of the phone with my boyfriend a few minutes ago. He's meeting some of his friends for dinner at IHOP then he's playing Rockband all night. It should be super fun. ^_^
As for me I may get to see Somasu tommorow. My straight friend Hayden and I are going to go get destroyed by him at Smash! It's going to be great. ^_^ I hope it works out.
lumberheartwood
Smash Journeyman
Haha. Gamefaqs are full of people full of xxxx. Its hard to keep a topic serious yet fun and crisp over there. That's why I come here. Don't worry about your friend finding you here. He probably thinks this site is overated also. Congrats on graduating. Wow, Toronto Film School. Great academy from what I've heard. Are you into independent films? What's your favorite(s) movie(s)/documentary(ies)?
darkatma
Smash Hero
Ryoko's comment about the "Peach players" is because yuna made a thread in 2005(or 2004, not sure) about how majority gay smashers main peach and secondary zelda. Which was pretty true back then i guess, considering how a lot of good peach mains (which i shouldn't out) were/are gay.
Although, being an openly gay guy living in Texas sounds really frightening.
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Oh whoever had that chibi fox, that is SOOOOO cute
and if anyone's into yaoi, this is the most well written fanfic i have ever read
(it's sheikxlink too)
http://www.fanfiction.net/s/2799779/1/Red_The_Color_Of
Although, being an openly gay guy living in Texas sounds really frightening.
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Oh whoever had that chibi fox, that is SOOOOO cute
and if anyone's into yaoi, this is the most well written fanfic i have ever read
(it's sheikxlink too)
http://www.fanfiction.net/s/2799779/1/Red_The_Color_Of
SU_Remo
Remo Knows
I'm not sure if I want children or not. I guess it depends on the person I marry, and I would very much like to marry or whatever I'll legally be allowed to do when the time comes. I'm not used to kids, so right now, I don't like 'em much. I'm an only child and I never had a bunch of little cousins or something runnin' around.
Being out in high school was great. It was so liberating to live life without lying and hiding and knowing I had this huge secret in me. It took a long time to come out, but it worked out pretty well. I lost one friend from it, but frankly, she's kind of a *****. At first, it was hard talking with my friends and saying things like "He's hot" or stuff like that. But after a while, I started getting more comfortable with being myself and my friends started getting more comfortable, too.
Yeah... I haven't had a first kiss; boy or girl, either... Oh well. Whatcha gonna do.
lumberheartwood
Smash Journeyman
I prefer being a Daisy user lol. I hope Rosalina is a color swap for Peach though too. Then, this game is perfect in my standards.
Hehehe, your kiss story is just so cute. :3 I love those kinda stories...it's adorable.
I don't like tongues too much, either...it feels weird. But it's hot, so eh. Biting is awesome, though.
Seiya
Smash Journeyman
XD Probably..and I'm still worried about if we can talk about all this here. It just doesn't feel right :X
Ack I forgot the family thing. I can't see myself with children...
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