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Yukichu

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:3 I have a crush on an e-friend now. Grargh why do I have so many crushes. Except this one I actually have a big chance with! We're similar and both gay and our states are neighbors.
 

Mr_1337

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...Does bisexuality count?
I've been noticing myself becoming more and more attracted to other boys lately, and...yeah. There's still those couple little hormones that long for females, of course, but the others seem to be overtaking it.

I've recently come out to most of my friends now, and surprisingly everyone's been pretty receptive. This is also a place where gays and such are frowned upon. It's also a high school environment; not really a place where you'd think of acceptance. Not to mention that being gay is still constantly being used as an insult here... It still urks me whenever somebody says "That's gay".

It's amazing how just one facet of someone's life can make or break others' opinions of them. But, gladly, most of the people I know (well, those who matter, anyway) have been OK with it, and that's just great. :)

...And that's my story. Hope I didn't bore you folks or anything.
Now, Smashan tiems?

It looks like I've missed around 96 pages here...
What's happening? :)
 

blink777

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lol, just came out on my Myspace as was suggested. Not that it matters: until just now, I haven't touched the thing since my friend made it for me (because I told her I never wanted to have a Myspace), and I have no "friends" on it. Yay for minutely small steps forward!
 

diabetic_yoshi

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Yay, I'm not the only one having problems right now with my gaydar. Maybe there's been a strange atmospheric disturbance throwing all ours off. :)

Welcome Mr. 1337. Of course everybody's been welcome here, this seems more like a gay-straight alliance thread anyways. Aside from two or three dissidents and the recent topic of imaginary boyfriends, you can catch up easily.

Oh and quick story: a classmate of mine just randomly came out to me today. We were talking about the class then all of a sudden the topic of accidental pregnancy did, and before you know it both of us said at the same time we'd have to be REEEEEEAAAAAALY drunk for that to happen.

I'm glad to see it's not just me seeing more people I know coming out. Hmmm... I'm starting to seriously consider my atmospheric disturbance theory. Discuss.
 

.:~*Momo*~:.

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Well I just told my friend that I was gay today... the first time I told somebody outside of my family. =P She was cool with it and I knew she would be since she has other gay friends anyway. ^^;
 

blink777

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Oh and quick story: a classmate of mine just randomly came out to me today. We were talking about the class then all of a sudden the topic of accidental pregnancy did, and before you know it both of us said at the same time we'd have to be REEEEEEAAAAAALY drunk for that to happen.
lol, I love that story. Thanks for sharing. As for your gaydar disturbance: like I said before, I've never acted on mine. It could be screwed out the wazoo for all I know.

Well I just told my friend that I was gay today... the first time I told somebody outside of my family. =P She was cool with it and I knew she would be since she has other gay friends anyway. ^^;
Good for you Momo. Proud of you.
 

Katy Parry

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I just want to curl up in a little ball and die.

Chad, that boy I liked that looks EXACTLY like DoH, is moving. And he has a boyfriend. He told me this when I built up enough courage to secretly call him.

Why isn't there some boy in INDIANA and is a DEMOCRAT?!

Well I don't really care if he's a democrat.
 

.:~*Momo*~:.

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Thanks blink777! =3

And that's pretty sad ethanrodgers223... but when one door closes another one opens... you never really know when it'll open but... or is it windows? Window of opportunity... but you don't enter through windows usually so I THINK it's doors... uhhh... anyway you never really know when it'll open but it'll open eventually. ^^ Unless you die before that happens... but you won't care after you're dead anyway. =3 ... uhhh... well I'm sure you'll have a happy story to tell us eventually... unless you meet a guy after this topic is long dead. @.@;
 

Katy Parry

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Thanks Momo.


And um....I live in Rushville, how far away is that from you? And um...what do you look like? lol could you post a pic? I will if you want. :)
 

Xsyven

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My mom confronted me about being gay today, since she'd heard rumors about me. I guess I'm not careful enough when I'm drunk, but yeah, I'm gay...

I was even too afraid to come out on SWF because I know a lot of people IRL here, but it's gotten to the point where I just think-- **** it. I doubt any of the people I know in real life even check this thread out. And if they do, they'll figure it out sooner or later. Anyway, here's my story.

I've been gay since the beginning. You've all gone through that, right? But what made me weird is that though I knew I liked guys, I still considered myself to be straight. Though I'd totally look at gay porn and everything, I still considered myself to be straight. I think it was just constant pressure from my church, friends, and society that lead me to believe that -- "No -- not me. I'm not gay! Being gay is gross!" I was even homophobic.

Skip a couple of years, and I was in my freshman year of college. I was in the bookstore with my straight friend Devin, (weird that I have to mention when people are straight instead of gay...) when we ran into one of Devin's best friends from high school, Guy. Devin and Guy went to a different high school than me. What's even funnier, is that I knew him as "The Gay guy from the rival school." I noticed that Guy was buying two of the same textbooks I was. We were both taking Acting I (Acting-- my only gay vice.), and Japanese I. I was still a little homophobic at the time, but I could tell that he was a way cool guy.

Guy started hanging out with us more, since his job ended, and I realized that he was an awesome guy-- and totally smokin' hot. We ended up taking another semester of Japanese and Acting, and were in a few plays together, too. After about a year, he thinks I'm straight at the time, and we're best friends. Only I secretly think he's totally hot, right?

Still under the impression that I should live my life under my church's standards, I was at a drunken party. I didn't drink alcohol at the time, but everyone around me was totally drunk. Guy eventually cornered me in his bedroom, and spilled the beans that he had a crush on me, and that if I was gay, we'd totally be a couple. That freaked me right the **** out. I'd always thought he was good looking, but ... I never had a crush on him. . . Did I?

After a while, I realized that I did. A month went by, and every time I hung out with him, I'd think to myself "This could happen, if I only let it." But I was too afraid to. As I'm sure you've all experienced, the stereotypes that get tacked onto people as soon as they step a foot outside of the closet were just too much for me to handle. I'm totally straight on paper, other than the fact that I dress nicely and do theater. I can't handle people thinking that I'm "faaaabulooous" and stuff.

October 2007, it was my friend Haelee's birthday. As usual, they'd all be drinking alcohol. My friends begged me to drink just this one time, for her birthday present. I agreed to. But I was scared ****less as to what I might say, or what I might do with Guy around.

Well, the first few hours were okay. Since it was my first time drinking, they kept shoving drinks down my throat. Eventually, I got so drunk that I had to puke. After finishing that business, I stumbled down the hall, into Guy's room, where I passed out on his bed.

I don't know how long I was laying there. Ten minutes, fifteen minutes, two hours, but eventually Guy came in and noticed me laying there. He simply asked me "Are you okay?", but before he could even finish his sentence, I grabbed his shirt, pulled him down to me, and kissed him. One thing led to another, and I woke up the next morning naked in bed with a guy. It happened! No buttsex, or anything, but a hardcore, drunken, naked, makeout that I could barely remember happened. And it was awesome!

After we both woke up, we had a conversation-- mostly, he thought he had accidently molested me, and he felt terrible. But after some reassurance, we realized we sort of had something last night. He assured me that he wouldn't tell anyone.

The next week, we were alone in his bedroom. Still unsure of what to make of what happened. We were best friends for a year, and one night, we woke up together in a twin-sized bed naked. Well, since boys will be boys, we settled the confusion with more random lovin'. Sadly, the door didn't lock properly, and his room mate walked in on us.

"Whooooa...."

I sort of just stopped what I was doing, put clothes on, and left as fast as possible. Who only lasts a week? Anyway, I got a text from his room mate, saying that Guy had talked to him, and the secret was safe.


*sigh* Long story, right? I'll wrap it up.


Anyway, a couple months passed, and Guy and I had been secretly dating. One day, we talked it over, and we decided that he and I were allowed to call each other 'boyfriend.' We'd been kissing behind doors, in closets, behind people's backs, etc for the entire time. From October '07, until now.... when horror struck.

My mom confronted me today, saying she heard rumors. Which I couldn't doubt. Since the one night I drank for the first time, I'd become a raging alcoholic. Supposedly, we drunk dialed too many people, thought we were safe kissing behind people's backs, and said too much stuff in front of people to the point where everyone we know knows-- they just haven't said anything.

I just finally made it official to my mom, and now with SWF. Guy's in DC right now, so I'm waiting for him to get back before coming out to friends, but yeah-- I'm ready for one of the ****tiest few weeks of my life-- the coming out of the closet weeks.

Wish me luck. =/






And just because I've been wanting to say this for a long time, HAHA! I have a real boyfriend! :p
 

Aeronite's Kiseki

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Ok, i live purdy far *sad face cuz I live like a half hour from Chicago......*
That's me the everlasting Asian XD.....Yes I'll shave and no im not stoned LMFAO....it's jus that light blinded me a bit
 

diabetic_yoshi

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Wow, very emotional story Xsyven. Don't look at these weeks as being ****ty, you'll be surprised at how many people will be accepting. The only people who will ever give you problems are the asshats you don't care about anyway. I thought my friends would hate me after I came out to them, yet every single one of them were supportive. In fact, some of those friendships grew closer without that barrier I put between us. And I don't think you said how your mom reacted, but I'm gonna guess it was positive. Anyway, good on you and keep us updated.
 

darkatma

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My mom confronted me about being gay today, since she'd heard rumors about me. I guess I'm not careful enough when I'm drunk, but yeah, I'm gay...

I was even too afraid to come out on SWF because I know a lot of people IRL here, but it's gotten to the point where I just think-- **** it. I doubt any of the people I know in real life even check this thread out. And if they do, they'll figure it out sooner or later. Anyway, here's my story.

I've been gay since the beginning. You've all gone through that, right? But what made me weird is that though I knew I liked guys, I still considered myself to be straight. Though I'd totally look at gay porn and everything, I still considered myself to be straight. I think it was just constant pressure from my church, friends, and society that lead me to believe that -- "No -- not me. I'm not gay! Being gay is gross!" I was even homophobic.

Skip a couple of years, and I was in my freshman year of college. I was in the bookstore with my straight friend Devin, (weird that I have to mention when people are straight instead of gay...) when we ran into one of Devin's best friends from high school, Guy. Devin and Guy went to a different high school than me. What's even funnier, is that I knew him as "The Gay guy from the rival school." I noticed that Guy was buying two of the same textbooks I was. We were both taking Acting I (Acting-- my only gay vice.), and Japanese I. I was still a little homophobic at the time, but I could tell that he was a way cool guy.

Guy started hanging out with us more, since his job ended, and I realized that he was an awesome guy-- and totally smokin' hot. We ended up taking another semester of Japanese and Acting, and were in a few plays together, too. After about a year, he thinks I'm straight at the time, and we're best friends. Only I secretly think he's totally hot, right?

Still under the impression that I should live my life under my church's standards, I was at a drunken party. I didn't drink alcohol at the time, but everyone around me was totally drunk. Guy eventually cornered me in his bedroom, and spilled the beans that he had a crush on me, and that if I was gay, we'd totally be a couple. That freaked me right the **** out. I'd always thought he was good looking, but ... I never had a crush on him. . . Did I?

After a while, I realized that I did. A month went by, and every time I hung out with him, I'd think to myself "This could happen, if I only let it." But I was too afraid to. As I'm sure you've all experienced, the stereotypes that get tacked onto people as soon as they step a foot outside of the closet were just too much for me to handle. I'm totally straight on paper, other than the fact that I dress nicely and do theater. I can't handle people thinking that I'm "faaaabulooous" and stuff.

October 2007, it was my friend Haelee's birthday. As usual, they'd all be drinking alcohol. My friends begged me to drink just this one time, for her birthday present. I agreed to. But I was scared ****less as to what I might say, or what I might do with Guy around.

Well, the first few hours were okay. Since it was my first time drinking, they kept shoving drinks down my throat. Eventually, I got so drunk that I had to puke. After finishing that business, I stumbled down the hall, into Guy's room, where I passed out on his bed.

I don't know how long I was laying there. Ten minutes, fifteen minutes, two hours, but eventually Guy came in and noticed me laying there. He simply asked me "Are you okay?", but before he could even finish his sentence, I grabbed his shirt, pulled him down to me, and kissed him. One thing led to another, and I woke up the next morning naked in bed with a guy. It happened! No buttsex, or anything, but a hardcore, drunken, naked, makeout that I could barely remember happened. And it was awesome!

After we both woke up, we had a conversation-- mostly, he thought he had accidently molested me, and he felt terrible. But after some reassurance, we realized we sort of had something last night. He assured me that he wouldn't tell anyone.

The next week, we were alone in his bedroom. Still unsure of what to make of what happened. We were best friends for a year, and one night, we woke up together in a twin-sized bed naked. Well, since boys will be boys, we settled the confusion with more random lovin'. Sadly, the door didn't lock properly, and his room mate walked in on us.

"Whooooa...."

I sort of just stopped what I was doing, put clothes on, and left as fast as possible. Who only lasts a week? Anyway, I got a text from his room mate, saying that Guy had talked to him, and the secret was safe.


*sigh* Long story, right? I'll wrap it up.


Anyway, a couple months passed, and Guy and I had been secretly dating. One day, we talked it over, and we decided that he and I were allowed to call each other 'boyfriend.' We'd been kissing behind doors, in closets, behind people's backs, etc for the entire time. From October '07, until now.... when horror struck.

My mom confronted me today, saying she heard rumors. Which I couldn't doubt. Since the one night I drank for the first time, I'd become a raging alcoholic. Supposedly, we drunk dialed too many people, thought we were safe kissing behind people's backs, and said too much stuff in front of people to the point where everyone we know knows-- they just haven't said anything.

I just finally made it official to my mom, and now with SWF. Guy's in DC right now, so I'm waiting for him to get back before coming out to friends, but yeah-- I'm ready for one of the ****tiest few weeks of my life-- the coming out of the closet weeks.

Wish me luck. =/






And just because I've been wanting to say this for a long time, HAHA! I have a real boyfriend! :p
You. Are. Amazing.
but drinking is bad, and lmao you're still lucky.
It'll be a ****ty week, but hey, after it's over, you're gonna be great. You'll be able to do what you want to do, and moreover, you'll be happy. Bear it through.

That's such a cool story
I doubt i'll ever be able to find someone like that.

And actually, I'm somewhat similar. I used to think I was straight, even though I clearly had physical attraction to guys. No stories here though, still trying to get over my best friend, whom I must let go because I've done too much to him. (and he's straight)

Anyone else here a touchy-feely person? I hug all my friends at random intervals on impulse.
 

Xsyven

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Wow, very emotional story Xsyven. Don't look at these weeks as being ****ty, you'll be surprised at how many people will be accepting. The only people who will ever give you problems are the asshats you don't care about anyway. I thought my friends would hate me after I came out to them, yet every single one of them were supportive. In fact, some of those friendships grew closer without that barrier I put between us. And I don't think you said how your mom reacted, but I'm gonna guess it was positive. Anyway, good on you and keep us updated.
My friends will probably just say: "REALLY?! Cooooolll..." Honestly, I doubt any of my closest friends will give two ****s.

My family? Well... I come from a very Mormon family. My mom loves me, but she won't support me. She wants me to break things off with my boyfriend, and live a miserable life alone. Not that she wants me to be unhappy, she just doesn't want me to go to hell. :) The worst part is, is that I'm still living at home. Once I get a job and move out, she honestly has no leverage on me. So we'll be fine then. Until then, I don't know what crazy stunts she might pull.

I'm pretty sure that when word gets out, my sisters will all call me one at a time, asking me different questions, and then will probably tell me about some barbaric method to straighten me up.

I doubt my brothers will do much. My oldest brother is gay actually, but that's sort of the family secret. He took my mom's advice, and he's living an undercover life alone. I can't live like that. My other brother will probably just shrug it off.... thank god for one sane member of the family. Maybe because he isn't too religious anymore either.
 

diabetic_yoshi

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I hug all my friends every single time I see them. Spread the love! :)

Yeah Xsyven, the religion thing kind of sucks. Just because a few sentences in a 2000-page book can be construed into being anti-gay, we've had to suffer for thousands of years. But I'm sure your mom still loves you, and you still love your mom, so that's all that matters there.
 

Mediocre

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Huh. I never even suspected that you were gay, Xsyven. I'm not really surprised, but I just had no idea.

Anyhow, you've got my support, for what it's worth. Not much, probably, but there you go.



And, yeah, this is the first time I've posted in this topic, but I've been reading for a while. I think this thread is pretty awesome.
 

Xsyven

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Even the keenest gaydars can't detect me. ;)

Wait, Xsyven is gay?

Get on AIM now, *****!
This is too funny. In the BRoom, Crimson King deemed me gay before I even came out of the closet-- but he thought it was funny because he thought I was straight. ;) I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW MEAN YOU WERE TO ME. YOU HURT MY FEELINGS. Not really. I love ya, CK. :p
 

Junpappy

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HAHAHAHAHA Xsyvypoo is gay!?! :laugh:

I'll be one of the asshats that you shouldn't care about just for you HEAF!!

Sexy Southern Utah just got even sexier lmfao!!!!
 

Xsyven

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HAHAHAHAHA Xsyvypoo is gay!?! :laugh:

I'll be one of the asshats that you shouldn't care about just for you HEAF!!

Sexy Southern Utah just got even sexier lmfao!!!!
I love you, Junpei. :p When Guy and I break up, you can have your chance. :p
 

Kyari

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O_O wow a surprise! hehe

honestly i thought you were bicurious at least, just because of the way you talked to me... but i couldn't say for SURE if i thought you were secretly gay... but that's so cool :]

EDIT: so that makes 4 gay smashers in this thread.... me, arcanejazz, ethanrodgers, and kiseki, all from indiana o_O pretty interesting haha XD
 

blink777

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Thanks so much for sharing your story, Xsyven (I could swear I remember you from years ago [used to be Link777], which is odd because I remember like, no one from pre-competitive Smashboards). I saw a lot of myself in it. Told myself for years that I was straight, even while looking at gay porn. I've never drank for fear of what I might say or do. Though, if my first time drunk leads to what it did for you, I'd better take it up ;).

Once again, thanks for sharing, and best of luck over the next few weeks.

Anyone else here a touchy-feely person? I hug all my friends at random intervals on impulse.
No, I don't touch people :p. Not that I wouldn't with the right person (there I'd be touchy-feely enough for two people), I just dislike the feel of being that close to most people. That and I get the feeling that I'm a bad hugger.
 

DoH

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Mormons are like, autohot.

Fact: the first guy DoH spatula'd was a redheaded Mormon. This one time, at debate camp...
 

Yuna-Maria

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Hey, umm...I don't know if this is an LGBT thread or just for gay guys, but at any rate, this'll probably be the first Smashboards thread I post on outside of the Brawl discussion and the threads for various regions.
I'm Lobelia Mk. IV, and I'm transgender. Nice to meet you all.
 

Seiya

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Wow, Xsyven is gay? That surprised me. I barely know you but saw you all over the picture thread. XD Sorry about your parents issue. The same with my parents. I don't think I'll ever come out to them. Maybe my brother and sister but not my parents >.< (My dad is Catholic and my mother is homophobic..)
 
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