LGBT Smashers

[SkylerOcon]

Your boyfriend sucks, kick him to the curb.

 

[diabetic_yoshi]

Don't think it's just you, Darkfur. Gay or straight, most guys act jerky all the time. If you don't think that he respects you or takes your feelings into regard constantly, then better to be the dumper than the dumpee. One of my previous relationships mirrored yours. I felt I was always the one asking to spend time together and wanting to do simply anything. I was not clingy, I just wanted more than one lunch per week. After a few weeks he dumped me anyway.
I don't know how your relationship works day to day, but if this is the way he treats you everyday then I agree with the previous poster,s suggestion. But if it's just one little thing or so every other month, well then sir, WELCOME TO ANY OTHER RELATIONSHIP.

 

[Bassoonist]

Girls can be jerks too. I know one really big jerk. But seriously, people in general are jerks and that's why I trust nobody... and probably why I've always been single. XD

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

Girls can be jerks too. I know one really big jerk. But seriously, people in general are jerks and that's why I trust nobody... and probably why I've always been single. XD

Awwww, that sucks, srry it had to end up like that. Yea, people are hard to trust, but that's why i have my best friend for

 

[SU_Remo]

Bleh... I don't understand why he can't keep his promises to me... I just feel... like I'm not important enough to him that a promise means anything.

Bleh...

I don't know how your relationship works day to day, but if this is the way he treats you everyday then I agree with the previous poster,s suggestion. But if it's just one little thing or so every other month, well then sir, WELCOME TO ANY OTHER RELATIONSHIP.

Hm... I'm really sorry to hear all of that, Dark. I'm in a crappy mood about some similar ' "friends" not doing the things they should' things and this upsets me even more because I've heard you tell me about your bf's transgressions for a while and I just feel bad for you. I know how good of a person you are and I don't feel you deserve the things you deal with. Now, I'm not going to be overly critical about him. I don't your boyfriend or all of your situation well enough to judge him harshly or say something like "drop him to the curb" as someone suggested, but I wish things were better with you two.

Now, maybe I'm a 'Disney movie romantic' or too inexperienced, but I don't think things like this have to happen in 'every other relationship' as Diabetic says. I'm twenty and I've never a boyfriend. Never been kissed even, so I'm a really lonely guy; leaning towards desperate to have a relationship or somebody to love. So, when that actually happens, I know I would everything in my power to make him happy, provided of course that he's doing the same for me, thus maintaining a great relationship between the two of us. It wouldn't be trouble buying my mate a $5 t-shirt. Heck, make it $30 if he wanted. And if I knew that I would be away from him for a whole entire year, I would do more than make him a nice meal; it'd be an effin' banquet plus anything and everything else he wanted, because that would probably be the toughest 365 days I'd ever have to go through. This forgetful, non-caring, apathetic BS would never be an issue in my relationship, at least on my part.

I'm kinda bitter with my own issues, so this is a little rant-ish, so sorry about that. But, I do feel that people in general don't appreciate the other people in their lives enough; friendships, relationships or otherwise. And it really doesn't take a lot to be a good friend. Just a little give-a-dam. And, Dark, I hope things get better for you, no matter what has to happen.

 

[blink777]

Dear god discussion has gotten decidedly depressing these past few days. Very sorry to hear about your problems, Darkfur: even more so because you have the most wonderful cute and fuzzy (no pun intended) stories. I hope you're still able to grab those nice moments amidst the stress. Can't offer any advice, but I wish you all the best.

And thanks for your words of wisdom, diabetic_yoshi. Really appreciated.

On my end of things: might come out to my parents this weekend. Visiting them for a few days, and it's a long car ride.

 

[diabetic_yoshi]

To Blink777: Thanks, and I wish you the best of luck in your decision, whatever you choose to do. Think about it, and as long as you know they'll be accepting it'll be fine. Like I said before, my parents will prolly be cool when I tell them. I just want to wait until I have that special someone beside me to do it. BTW the trip from here to my parent's is 7 hours. Gives me time to ponder about life and to listen to Jagged Little Pill for the 476th time.

To KingReMO: I'm a romantic too, but a relationship has to be realistic in a sense. Ironic I just watched Enchanted last night, huh? What I meant by my post is NO relationship is perfect, and my experience with that is sadly true. I glom on to the idea that some guy will sweep me off my feet and we'll care for each other forever. This is why I've only had the two relationships in my life, and none of them were longer than a month. Tis the fate of dreamers. Once I accept that fairy tales don't exist (to an extent) and that my Prince Charming will snore and forget our anniversary, then I'll in fact be happier because of it.

To Bassoonist: Preach it!!! I have enough trust and emotional issues to make Dr. Phil's head explode... not that that would be a bad thing.

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

Hopefully we'll find our perfect someone right, well not "PERFECT" but at least someone we can love

 

[SU_Remo]

Aw, Enchanted. I just watched that movie a few weeks ago. It's really adorable. I love Amy Adams. I understand that relationships can't be perfect, but I think the problems Dark is having definitely could be prevented if his b/f just cared a bit more. People get in tiffs and arguments, but plain ignoring your boyfriend's feelings is just too much. And I think this kind of behavior is way too present in a lot of relationships; between couples, friends, family, etc.

 

[.:~*Momo*~:.]

I sure hope my first boyfriend will be a really really really good one who supports me and cares a lot about me and does stuff for me and teaches me stuff and takes care of me and remembers anniversaries and puts thought into his presents and that we'll be together for the rest of our lives! >w< Well... a kid can dream, right? ^^;

If I was you DarkFur, ... actually I dunno what I'd do... guess I'd have to be in a relationship before trying to give advice on them. =P But I certainly do hope things get better for you. ^^;

*sigh* Real life should be a giant magical anime fairy tale full of "Hare Hare Yukai", "Motteke Serafuku", Utada songs, bunnies, more magic, sweets, more fairy tale-ness, a bit of Higurashi's mysteriousness, and pokemon. ;_; Then life would be perfect! =D

 

[ellelaby's younger brother]

Heh, its only fair. I had a ton of gay friends in high school. You guys are cool.

They would play Donkey Kong.

 

[SU_Remo]

*sigh* Real life should be a giant magical anime fairy tale full of "Hare Hare Yukai", "Motteke Serafuku", Utada songs, bunnies, more magic, sweets, more fairy tale-ness, a bit of Higurashi's mysteriousness, and pokemon. ;_; Then life would be perfect! =D

Only in a perfect world, Momo. Only in a perfect world... Hehe.

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

*sigh* Real life should be a giant magical anime fairy tale full of "Hare Hare Yukai", "Motteke Serafuku", Utada songs, bunnies, more magic, sweets, more fairy tale-ness, a bit of Higurashi's mysteriousness, and pokemon. ;_; Then life would be perfect! =D

Oh so true, Utada for the win!!!.....but yea i wish life always had music in the air like listening to Balamb Garden from FFVIII....that would be oh.my.god

 

[.:~*Momo*~:.]

It'd be awesome to have background music... then if I'm feeling sad everybody will be like "Awww the music is so sad... he must be feeling down..." and I can be super dramatic without sounding like a moron! =D "DO YOU THINK LIFE IS EASY FOR ME!? ;_;" just doesn't sound the same without a sad tune behind it...

And anime expressions and effects would be awesome too... like if I'm happy, I want musical symbols to appear around me... and if I'm dizzy, I wanna have swirly eyes... and if I'm confused, it'd be awesome to have a giant "?" appear over my head. ^.^

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

It'd be awesome to have background music... then if I'm feeling sad everybody will be like "Awww the music is so sad... he must be feeling down..." and I can be super dramatic without sounding like a moron! =D "DO YOU THINK LIFE IS EASY FOR ME!? ;_;" just doesn't sound the same without a sad tune behind it...

And anime expressions and effects would be awesome too... like if I'm happy, I want musical symbols to appear around me... and if I'm dizzy, I wanna have swirly eyes... and if I'm confused, it'd be awesome to have a giant "?" appear over my head. ^.^

That'd be so fun....jus like Animal Crossing? hahaha, i had that instantly pop in my head

 

[diabetic_yoshi]

That'd be so fun....jus like Animal Crossing? hahaha, i had that instantly pop in my head

I wonder why, lol.
My dream place would be me, my bf, a deserted desert island, lotsa lotsa chocolate, and my very own Yoshi pal.
For now I can settle with me, my imaginary bf, my deserted apartment, still lotsa lotsa chocolate, and my very own Yoshi plushie.

 

[.:~*Momo*~:.]

But imaginary boyfriends can't hold and cuddle you. D= I mean mine does but I can't feel it because he's imaginary, all I can do is imagine him... so boring. ;_; [/crazyanddesperateloser]

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

But imaginary boyfriends can't hold and cuddle you. D= I mean mine does but I can't feel it because he's imaginary, all I can do is imagine him... so boring. ;_; [/crazyanddesperateloser]

Yea, who hasnt want that? I cant wait to find mine because i know i'd be wit h
im like everyday...

 

[DoH]

brawl makes me cry.

hi, i'm back!

 

[.:~*Momo*~:.]

Same here Aeronite's Kiseki... same here.

And Welcome back DaRkNeSsOfHeArT. ^.^

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

I know this is so stereotypical of me but I love Kylie Minogue....she's a good artist...but whenever i hear another guy like they're gay as well im like XD.....tells you that her music is so much better than rap LOL

Anyways...why i brought it up? i got her new CD today.

So, im trying to decide if i wanna go to Prom for my school >Senior< so should i?

 

[diabetic_yoshi]

I did, twice in fact. You'll be more sorry if you don't. No bf at the time *still slightly closeted then*, so I just escorted one of my girlfriends. One of the best nights of my life. I had sushi dinner, uber-white-guy danced at the prom itself, went and saw Lance Burton *was living in Vegas*, and hung out in the park till the next day.

Even though I didn't have a bf, I couldn't have asked for a better experience. Soooo... yeah.

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

Sushi bar, *jealous* hahaha, I dont even know where to begin at the prom, ill just have fun

 

[DoH]

I won Prom Queen.

true story.

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

Prom Queen eh lol....maybe ill go for that take both King and Queen XD

 

[Andydark]

So I got my hairs cut...

Beforeish (My hair actually was longer htan this)

after

What do you all think of the change?

I'm not massively photogenic...

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

Yea I can tell from the sad look in the 2nd pic LOL....either way you look fine

 

[Kyari]

MY imaginary boyfriend could beat your imaginary boyfriend in brawl.

lol link and i are practically dating :]

 

[DoH]

as long as it's not larkin, he's mine.

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

I guess i can't say my imaginary boyfriend isn't just as awesome *looks at Mr. Game and Watch*

 

[diabetic_yoshi]

My imaginary boyfriend plays as the OTHER princess and spams Din's Fire. Sad thing, he still beats me.

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

That made me laugh lol....us and our imaginary boyfriends eh?

 

[MetaKnight'sSword]

no more updates on the smashbros website........today is a very sad day indeed....

 

[blink777]

Your hair looks tons better short, Andydark. Makes you look older than 12 .

As for the recent trend of describing imaginary boyfriends... Bah, it's too early in the morning for me: I've got nothin'.

 

[diabetic_yoshi]

Your hair looks tons better short, Andydark. Makes you look older than 12 .

As for the recent trend of describing imaginary boyfriends... Bah, it's too early in the morning for me: I've got nothin'.

Agreed with the hair. I have never seen an attractive guy with long hair in my life.

Dun worry 'bout not havin an imaginary boyfriend. I was just joking. It limits yourself to just having that one ideal guy in mind when trying to find that special someone.

On a different note, how reliable do you consider your guys' gaydar? I've never been wrong in the past, yet mine's been acting wonky recently. I really want to ask this guy out but I'm getting mixed signals. Our mutual friend swears he's straight, yet I'm not so sure. Maybe he's a closet-case? And I'm not gonna ask him if he is because of that reason. Have any of you had this whole gaydar problem?

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

Agreed with the hair. I have never seen an attractive guy with long hair in my life.

Dun worry 'bout not havin an imaginary boyfriend. I was just joking. It limits yourself to just having that one ideal guy in mind when trying to find that special someone.

On a different note, how reliable do you consider your guys' gaydar? I've never been wrong in the past, yet mine's been acting wonky recently. I really want to ask this guy out but I'm getting mixed signals. Our mutual friend swears he's straight, yet I'm not so sure. Maybe he's a closet-case? And I'm not gonna ask him if he is because of that reason. Have any of you had this whole gaydar problem?

I have a good gaydar too. And yea I've been havin issues with it becuase, I really cant tell if this guy I like is for boys or not, sometimes he is sometimes he's not....iono

 

[.:~*Momo*~:.]

I like both looks for ou Andydark. =3 I personally like guys with both long and short hair... that isn't really an issue with me. ^^ I myself have long hair...

As far as imaginary boyfriend goes... Itsuki Koizumi from Haruhi Suzumiya and Jin Kazama from Tekken combined into one person... *sigh* Once again a kid can dream. ^^; If only I lived in my perfect fantasy world... I'd have a Lopunny who I'd name either Sprinkles or Pudding... and my bf would... well his pokemon doesn't matter, anyway I'd enter contests and... wait... where am I going with this? @_@; Nah nevermind, I think I'm just rambling. ^^;

And I dunno if I even have gaydar... I guess I do... I never really thought about it before, though I think it's not really good... ^^;

 

[Andydark]

I had thought my gaydar sucked, since I seemed to be Zero for nine...

But as time goes on, evidence shows that I'm not as inaccurate As I thought, with people coming out left and right, people that I was suspicious of

 

[Aeronite's Kiseki]

It's tough to use it sometimes....i agree with Andy, it's so unusual that guys/gals are coming out left and right

 

[blink777]

On a different note, how reliable do you consider your guys' gaydar?

Never acted on it, but I'd assume mine blows.