I don't even know what you just said, and I've reread it like five times >_>
And I'm known for writing things largely cryptic and vague, so I speak the language
[collapse="Motivation and the Community - By DeLux and Admiral Pit]
[2/13/2012 11:24:58 PM] Pit Pit: We can always speak here rather than flooding up the boards
[2/13/2012 11:31:42 PM] DeLux: What did you want to speak about?
[2/13/2012 11:31:59 PM] DeLux: since it's relevant to the social topic, I'll probably C&P it to the social though
[2/13/2012 11:32:25 PM] Pit Pit: You were puzzled by my message...
[2/13/2012 11:32:30 PM] DeLux: right
[2/13/2012 11:32:40 PM] Pit Pit: What part of it puzzles you most...
[2/13/2012 11:32:58 PM] DeLux: Deconstruction time:
[2/13/2012 11:33:14 PM] DeLux: "Easier said than done... My way is my way"
[2/13/2012 11:33:16 PM] DeLux: false
[2/13/2012 11:33:19 PM] DeLux: adapt or die
[2/13/2012 11:33:43 PM] Pit Pit: -_-
[2/13/2012 11:33:43 PM] DeLux: You could easily just stop complaining about things
[2/13/2012 11:33:52 PM] Pit Pit: Temper forbids me
[2/13/2012 11:34:06 PM] Pit Pit: and i dont wanna hear no "control your anger" stuff either
[2/13/2012 11:34:15 PM] DeLux: "I can't rely on criticism as even when I ask, it comes to me little to none (even if it does, it's usually "1-sentence" trash), and I can't allow it."
[2/13/2012 11:34:26 PM] DeLux: any help you get
[2/13/2012 11:34:27 PM] DeLux: is a bonus
[2/13/2012 11:34:36 PM | Edited 11:34:49 PM] DeLux: nobody is in anyway shape or form obligated to help you
[2/13/2012 11:34:42 PM] Pit Pit: the 1-sentence thing is pathetic, in which I hear "Get good" or something ridiculous
[2/13/2012 11:35:10 PM] DeLux: Then thank them for pointing out the obvious and move on
[2/13/2012 11:36:56 PM] DeLux: Otherwise any outside help you get is honestly a bonus. Taking it for granted and considering things as "trash" is a spit in the face to the community.
[2/13/2012 11:37:13 PM] Pit Pit: I wouldnt thank em for such
[2/13/2012 11:37:20 PM] DeLux: And it might just be that you aren't able to discern the value from their help because of the disconnect I mentioned in my post
[2/13/2012 11:37:43 PM] Pit Pit: I rely on detailed information, or extensive study, aka, variety of players who play the same character to study styles
[2/13/2012 11:38:12 PM] Pit Pit: by doing this, I may have a chance of finding ways to exploit certain strategies, and counter, which I've slowly been doing
[2/13/2012 11:38:51 PM] DeLux: If you rely on study of that nature to win, you will never be good.
[2/13/2012 11:38:54 PM] Pit Pit: though i complain bout higher tiers often, my hatred
[2/13/2012 11:38:57 PM] DeLux: Because you are always going to be one step behind.
[2/13/2012 11:39:04 PM] Pit Pit: I always study
[2/13/2012 11:39:30 PM] DeLux: You should be exercising your will onto your opponent.
[2/13/2012 11:39:30 PM] Pit Pit: I'm just annoyed that I'm the only Pit these days that care bout MUs, but studying alone can be painful
[2/13/2012 11:39:40 PM] DeLux: You shouldn't be annoyed.
[2/13/2012 11:39:50 PM] DeLux: MU study is like the most useless thing ever inherently.
[2/13/2012 11:41:09 PM] Pit Pit: As in...
[2/13/2012 11:41:46 PM] DeLux: You seem to want people to discuss what they should do in a MU, correct?
[2/13/2012 11:42:16 PM] Pit Pit: that and the general of the MU, including what stages to CP/ban against a certain character and why
[2/13/2012 11:43:16 PM] DeLux: MU study should be about expanding on what you COULD do in the MU. Not what you should do.
[2/13/2012 11:43:27 PM] DeLux: What stages to CP/Ban is very player dependent
[2/13/2012 11:43:37 PM] DeLux: both user and opponent
[2/13/2012 11:44:17 PM] DeLux: There is no "general MU" for the most part unless you want to only get past mid level.
[2/13/2012 11:44:36 PM] DeLux: not even past mid level, get to mid level
[2/13/2012 11:44:49 PM] Pit Pit: Anything really
[2/13/2012 11:45:12 PM] DeLux: ?
[2/13/2012 11:45:24 PM] Pit Pit: I'd be doubted if I was anything but below mid level
[2/13/2012 11:45:48 PM] DeLux: What does that even mean? >_>
[2/13/2012 11:48:03 PM] Pit Pit: I'm anything but below mid level...
[2/13/2012 11:48:21 PM] Pit Pit: as far as potential goes that is
[2/13/2012 11:50:18 PM] DeLux: Potential isn't real
[2/13/2012 11:50:30 PM] DeLux: That doesn't even make sense
[2/13/2012 11:50:49 PM] DeLux: You could potentially sleep on your hand tomorrow night, have nerve damage, and never play brawl again
[2/13/2012 11:50:59 PM] Pit Pit: So this is an insult...
[2/13/2012 11:51:12 PM] DeLux: No
[2/13/2012 11:51:44 PM] DeLux: I'm questioning your claim that you have all of this expert knowledge, but your only defense when put under scrutiny is that you have potential.
[2/13/2012 11:52:01 PM] DeLux: Normally I wouldn't do that to people.
[2/13/2012 11:52:42 PM] DeLux: But you specifically called out people for "not listening to you" when you honestly haven't given them any reason to listen from what I've seen.
[2/13/2012 11:53:47 PM] Pit Pit: Oh, I dont have all the knowledge
[2/13/2012 11:54:17 PM] Pit Pit: Let's just say that I like to discuss matchups a lot... but everyone would slack off but me
[2/13/2012 11:54:30 PM | Edited 11:54:52 PM] DeLux: But we just established discussing matchups is useless objectively speaking
[2/13/2012 11:54:31 PM] Pit Pit: Back then, I liked to help fellow Pit players improve somehow
[2/13/2012 11:54:38 PM] Pit Pit: Regardless...
[2/13/2012 11:55:18 PM] DeLux: So at which point it is just a matter of you trying to force your subjective value on to a community that by in large doesn't want it.
[2/13/2012 11:55:32 PM] DeLux: Which leads me to ask, who is really in the wrong there?
[2/13/2012 11:57:15 PM] Pit Pit: That is something i wont answer...
[2/13/2012 11:57:45 PM] DeLux: You don't have to. I already know the answer.
[2/13/2012 11:59:05 PM] DeLux: But you claim you wanted help discussing things like matchups with Pit
[2/13/2012 11:59:31 PM] DeLux: The first thing that happened when I came into the social board was you gave me whatever ego-trip speel you had that was very alienating.
[12:00:22 AM] Pit Pit: That's my blind mindset of hating top tiers
[12:00:23 AM] DeLux: What you didn't realize is that come matchup discussion, I could probably theory craft out based on internal mechanic values of characters down to IGU's who would win what trade and who could punish what option and how long and how far away they had to do it.
[12:00:42 AM] DeLux: Which I'm 99% postiive that's something you don't have the knowledge to do.
[12:00:55 AM] Pit Pit: I have my own way of doing things, and that's it
[12:01:53 AM] DeLux: That's absolutely no excuse to act how you are.
[12:02:13 AM] DeLux: Assuming you want postive goals, of course.
[12:02:27 AM] DeLux: If that isn't what you want, then by all means continue with what you were doing.
[12:03:47 AM] Pit Pit: My decision is my decision, and if I am to be betrayed and bashed for my efforts, then so be it
[12:03:53 AM] Pit Pit: No one is my ally then
[12:04:50 AM] DeLux: Well I mean, if you aren't willing to follow, then you're doomed to lead
[12:04:59 AM] DeLux: But that's on you and not the community
[12:06:01 AM] DeLux: I question your motivation because it seems like you want to leverage your self conceived knowledge of the character as a means of gaining social capital and are unhappy that people won't buy into the scheme.
[12:06:42 AM] Pit Pit: Who needs sociality?
[12:06:48 AM] DeLux: You do
[12:06:55 AM] DeLux: You just said you want to discuss things.
[12:06:57 AM] Pit Pit: I only cared bout finding ways of improving Pit, and Matchups were my ticket'
[12:07:12 AM] DeLux: Then go and make a thread
[12:07:18 AM] Pit Pit: aint motivated
[12:07:18 AM] DeLux: and just write everything you know about the matchup
[12:07:46 AM] DeLux: Then why are you complaining?
[12:10:06 AM] Pit Pit: The last time I did this project, I had to bust my time going around gaining experience, and even asking a few ppl from the other side their point of view of said matchup
[12:10:40 AM] Pit Pit: I hate doing this alone, it caused me stress, but I benefited
[12:10:42 AM] DeLux: Which we established is useless objectively speaking
[12:13:23 AM] Pit Pit: We'll see... You may think my way is useless, but to me, it isnt
[12:13:37 AM] DeLux: I don't think it's useless.
[12:13:43 AM] DeLux: I established objectively why it's useless.
[12:13:59 AM] DeLux: You have just said in refutation "my way is my way"
[12:14:55 AM] DeLux: so now you're either leveraging these discussions to improve only yourself and not the community
[12:15:05 AM] DeLux: since it really only helps you
[12:15:16 AM] DeLux: or you're not being straight with me
[12:16:33 AM] Pit Pit: Like I said, I tried to help em, didnt work, and I did the matchup thread thing years ago
[12:16:45 AM] Pit Pit: and it died very fast, just like any MU thing we try on that board
[12:16:47 AM] Pit Pit: it aint just me
[12:16:52 AM] DeLux: It didn't work because it operated on a faulty premise
[12:16:56 AM] DeLux: if it was mutually beneficial
[12:17:02 AM] DeLux: it would have lived out
[12:17:03 AM] Pit Pit: it worked for me...
[12:17:10 AM] DeLux: we already established that
[12:17:20 AM] DeLux: So you are only operating out of self interest
[12:17:33 AM] DeLux: and you can drop this whole "I want to only improve Pit" attitude you gave me
[12:18:28 AM] DeLux: Because what you want is to improve yourself and to gain social capital at the same time.
[12:19:51 AM] Pit Pit: Another mockery towards me when I tried what I could...
[12:20:02 AM] DeLux: How is that a mockery?
[12:20:03 AM] Pit Pit: if you wont understand my true way of thinking, then fine, I'm on my own
[12:20:09 AM] DeLux: I broke it down objectively
[12:20:32 AM] DeLux: You can play the pity card, but the logic is there :\
[12:22:16 AM] DeLux: But I agree, if that's how you feel, you can either withdraw (which vindicates me and proves that I'm right and you are operating out of self interest) or you can reevaluate your motives and contribute in anyway you can to improve Pit (which can be done unilaterally and does not need discussion).
[12:23:28 AM] Pit Pit: I dont need anyone's pity... I have enough potential to outbest many Pits...
[12:23:39 AM] Pit Pit: and i dont wanna hear nothing bout it being nonexistent
[12:23:50 AM] Pit Pit: I have my own beliefs, and I stand by that and a code
[12:24:15 AM] Pit Pit: And you can bash me for being wifi only all you want, though you havent yet
[12:24:23 AM] DeLux: Because it doesn't matter to me
[12:24:31 AM] Pit Pit: Then I am useless
[12:24:38 AM] DeLux: I am evaluating your arguments objectively
[12:24:45 AM] Pit Pit: and you hate me for what i think
[12:24:53 AM] DeLux: No
[12:25:05 AM] DeLux: I didn't say hate or anything
[12:25:05 AM] Pit Pit: I cant even be happy for what I can do
[12:25:27 AM] DeLux: Although it's frustrating to see that you know you have potential, but won't take the steps to realize it.
[12:25:36 AM] DeLux: You have the potential to help the community.
[12:25:47 AM] DeLux: You hold it over people's heads as leverage for some sort of social capital
[12:25:52 AM] DeLux: so yeah
[12:25:55 AM] DeLux: you have potential
[12:25:57 AM] Pit Pit: I cant go offline!
[12:26:01 AM] DeLux: and you are using it for reasons that are not good
[12:26:09 AM] DeLux: I didn't say anything about going online/offline or whatever.
[12:26:13 AM] Pit Pit: The only thing I can do is find a way to be an influence to help ppl
[12:26:27 AM] DeLux: I'm saying you go to the Pit Boards and are like, "If he had my influence and help he'd be better."
[12:26:41 AM] DeLux: Then YOU DON'T HELP
[12:26:41 AM] Pit Pit: Oh, then you came at a late time, that's all
[12:26:52 AM] Pit Pit: I should explain it
[12:27:18 AM] DeLux: You don't need to.
[12:27:26 AM] DeLux: There are no circumstances that mitigates it.
[12:27:31 AM] Pit Pit: w/e that be
[12:27:37 AM] DeLux: You are using your potential for self gain.
[12:27:47 AM] DeLux: And are stagnating your character's metagame.
[12:28:18 AM] Pit Pit: It aint just potential; it's seeing, observing, and comparioson
[12:28:28 AM] Pit Pit: or however you spell it
[12:28:43 AM] DeLux: You are trying to overcomplicate it.
[12:28:47 AM] DeLux: It's simple.
[12:28:48 AM] DeLux: You have the potential to help.
[12:28:53 AM] DeLux: You choose not to.
[12:28:57 AM] DeLux: You are part of the problem.
[12:29:10 AM] Pit Pit: If you think you know everythinig, then you show me, after all the time I spent
[12:29:17 AM] DeLux: You have the potential to help
[12:29:22 AM] DeLux: You are choosing not to.
[12:29:24 AM] Pit Pit: They're not willing to, you trust me
[12:29:26 AM] DeLux: You are part of the problem
[12:29:35 AM] Pit Pit: I aint going for that small discussion crap
[12:29:41 AM] DeLux: It's the truth.
[12:29:41 AM] Pit Pit: I want in-depth, of the true way of helping
[12:29:59 AM | Edited 12:30:42 AM] DeLux: If you won't accept it, you're just making excuses
[12:30:07 AM] DeLux: hiding behind some facade you've built up
[12:30:21 AM] DeLux: and either way you're not helping despite you saying you have the potential to.
[12:30:25 AM] DeLux: It's a waste
[12:30:41 AM] Pit Pit: It's obvious you do not want me to be of any help
[12:30:48 AM] DeLux: ...
[12:31:07 AM] DeLux: [12:22 AM] DeLux:
<<< But I agree, if that's how you feel, you can either withdraw (which vindicates me and proves that I'm right and you are operating out of self interest) or you can reevaluate your motives and contribute in anyway you can to improve Pit (which can be done unilaterally and does not need discussion).
[12:31:10 AM] Pit Pit: You make things too simple for me to understand
[12:31:11 AM] DeLux: You are choosing that for yourself.
[12:31:43 AM] DeLux: And if that's the case, you aren't worth the trouble of trying to work with.
[12:32:27 AM] Pit Pit: Insults... That's all I see now
[12:32:50 AM] DeLux: Your choice, not mine.
[12:32:52 AM] Pit Pit: You won't explain how you done it, you don't even look at my work from the past that I've kept
[12:33:27 AM] DeLux: I don't need to. I've already helped and keep helping. Everything else doesn't really matter to me.
[12:34:02 AM] Pit Pit: in other words, keeping your secrets to how to help to yourself...
[12:34:11 AM] DeLux: Go make a thread
[12:34:18 AM] DeLux: and tell them what you know
[12:34:18 AM] DeLux: ok
[12:34:19 AM] DeLux: done
[12:34:46 AM] Pit Pit: I could do that, if my info wasn't outdated, and if they were actually motivated to discuss the MUs
[12:34:54 AM] DeLux: Why do they need to discuss
[12:34:56 AM] DeLux: MUs
[12:35:06 AM] DeLux: How do they know what you know?
[12:35:10 AM] DeLux: lol
[12:35:16 AM] DeLux: that's a horrible excuse
[12:35:22 AM] DeLux: Just tell them what you know
[12:35:25 AM] DeLux: and leave it at that
[12:35:36 AM] Pit Pit: I dont think they deserve it
[12:35:57 AM] Pit Pit: I gave em some of my info from the document I have today, from back in 2009-2010,
[12:35:59 AM] DeLux: Then you are operating out of self interest
[12:36:08 AM] DeLux: and you are wasting any potential you have
[12:36:10 AM] Pit Pit: I even made about 7 threads back then for em, and it died
[12:36:36 AM] DeLux: Threads die
[12:36:37 AM] DeLux: who cares
[12:36:45 AM] DeLux: you did what you could
[12:36:47 AM] DeLux: doesn't mean you stop
[12:37:02 AM] Pit Pit: That's my issue
[12:37:05 AM] DeLux: Yup
[12:37:09 AM] DeLux: And if it's your issue
[12:37:13 AM] DeLux: STOP FORCING IT ON EVERYONE ELSE
[12:37:14 AM] DeLux: deal with it
[12:37:24 AM] Pit Pit: They just aint interested in MUs, period
[12:37:28 AM] DeLux: who cares
[12:37:29 AM] DeLux: then the thread dies
[12:37:31 AM] DeLux: at least you tried
[12:38:11 AM] DeLux: That should be enough
[12:38:20 AM] Pit Pit: Then I already did try to help
[12:38:25 AM] DeLux: Keep trying
[12:38:36 AM] DeLux: IDGAF if you tried before
[12:38:51 AM] Pit Pit: I lost my motive recently to do such a thing
[12:39:04 AM] DeLux: then you have no right to excuse people of not being helpful
[12:39:17 AM] Pit Pit: The difference is that I actually tried, they didnt
[12:39:48 AM] DeLux: nope
[12:39:56 AM] DeLux: The difference is
[12:40:02 AM] Pit Pit: I can see my threads now and think about it
[12:40:03 AM] DeLux: you have the capacity to help but choose not to
[12:40:13 AM] Pit Pit: again, "used to"
[12:40:20 AM] DeLux: nope
[12:40:28 AM] Pit Pit: Why would i want to help those who dont even care
[12:40:38 AM] DeLux: Because you are trying to help pit
[12:40:45 AM] DeLux: You are not even being logical
[12:40:52 AM] DeLux: this conversation is getting nowhere
[12:41:06 AM] Pit Pit: I hate myself for my frequent anger and blindness
[12:41:41 AM] DeLux: Well pro tip: drop the attitude and try to help and maybe people will listen
[12:41:44 AM] DeLux: maybe they won't
[12:41:46 AM] DeLux: that doesn't matter
[12:41:55 AM] DeLux: but try because you owe it to your potential
[12:41:59 AM] DeLux: that's all I'm going to say
[12:42:04 AM] DeLux: C&Ping this to the Pit social
[12:42:05 AM] DeLux: going to bed
[12:42:06 AM] DeLux: seeya
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