Kantrip
Kantplay
It's unfortunate, Arcansi.
Asking one to change oneself is foolish and inconsiderate, and so the only logical scenario is to seek out those who accept them for who they are. In cases where that is difficult to impossible, self reflection is a good place to go next. As unfair as this person may find it, their actions are causing them to be neglected or disliked by their peers. As illogical as they may find it, others all seem to share a common opinion. If an understanding as to why others feel the way they do can be reached, progress can be made to remedy the problem.
I can already tell, Arcansi, that you are attempting to see eye-to-eye with other people. If you weren't at one point, you have by now realized that with no one to listen to you, your ideas can never come to fruition or accomplish anything. The problem herein lies in your approach. The same reason people have ceased to listen to you is likely the reason they cease to listen when you try to reason with them. Even though you are trying a different approach, you are using the same method. Does this make sense?
There has to be a reason that the majority of people are disagreeing with you or otherwise just flat-out refusing to listen to you, right? As we know from history and other statistics, a group is not always right just for being the majority. However, neither is a minority who tells them they are not right without proving it to them. Just as an object will have a tendency to continue as it is unless a force is applied, an opinion is likely to go unchanged unless met with a compelling argument that it wants to hear.
That last part is a big point. Sometimes, there are those who would rather run the risk of remaining ignorant or inefficient and would like not to be forced to change their ways. Often, that's what I see with this group, Arcansi. Some people just aren't in the mood to withstand an applied force telling them to change their tendencies. You have to be met by willing ears. That alone will yield you a greater reception.
Asking one to change oneself is foolish and inconsiderate, and so the only logical scenario is to seek out those who accept them for who they are. In cases where that is difficult to impossible, self reflection is a good place to go next. As unfair as this person may find it, their actions are causing them to be neglected or disliked by their peers. As illogical as they may find it, others all seem to share a common opinion. If an understanding as to why others feel the way they do can be reached, progress can be made to remedy the problem.
I can already tell, Arcansi, that you are attempting to see eye-to-eye with other people. If you weren't at one point, you have by now realized that with no one to listen to you, your ideas can never come to fruition or accomplish anything. The problem herein lies in your approach. The same reason people have ceased to listen to you is likely the reason they cease to listen when you try to reason with them. Even though you are trying a different approach, you are using the same method. Does this make sense?
There has to be a reason that the majority of people are disagreeing with you or otherwise just flat-out refusing to listen to you, right? As we know from history and other statistics, a group is not always right just for being the majority. However, neither is a minority who tells them they are not right without proving it to them. Just as an object will have a tendency to continue as it is unless a force is applied, an opinion is likely to go unchanged unless met with a compelling argument that it wants to hear.
That last part is a big point. Sometimes, there are those who would rather run the risk of remaining ignorant or inefficient and would like not to be forced to change their ways. Often, that's what I see with this group, Arcansi. Some people just aren't in the mood to withstand an applied force telling them to change their tendencies. You have to be met by willing ears. That alone will yield you a greater reception.
