I'm disappointed with how I played today. Lost in winners to a samus. Really bad at that MU.
Then lost to a ganon in losers.
The ganon was good, but I am very frustrated.
I don't lose to ganon.
I kept getting impatient and not punishing him as well as I should have. Let myself get shield pressured.
very infuriating experience.
I refuse to drop a set to ganon again.
Also could not hold a wobble all day.
beat a few people before getting knocked out though lol.
got to meet chu and trail though, which was pretty cool. Helpful.
Also played a bunch of friendlies with Abu, which really helped me understand the puff MU a little better.
No recorded matches though, poorly run tournament with no recording setups except the stream, which was not available ever.
Damn, so many negative words.
Alright. Firstly, don't be so hard to yourself. You shouldn't think "I can't lose to this player" or " I shouldn't have lost that match" etc. Goals like "I refuse to lose to this character" makes you no good and might even make things worse. It's straight up a bad mind set. Take you loss with you and let it help you figure out why you lost and what you can do better next time. You were impatient? Great, try to be more patient next time. Not punishing hard enough? Practice your punish game against some CPUs/ weaker Ganon players. Getting shield pressured? Work on your movement, spacing and OoS game.
And even if things don't work out as you want them to next time you fight a Ganon, don't let it get into your head. This is probably the most important message. Mistakes indicate which aspects of your game you should put some some work into. However, no matter how much you practice some specific tech skill then miss inputs, miss timings and other sorts of mistakes might still happen in the heat of the battle. Your goal shouldn't be to do everything perfectly without making any mistakes at all. A mind set like this will just make you frustrated and sad every time you make the smallest mistake which will just make you play worse. Always keep in mind that failure is possible, both when it comes to doing something right / wrong and when it comes to winning / losing. Sure you should try to make as few mistakes all possible. That's why practicing is important. However, perfection isn't about doing everything perfectly every time. It's about making mistakes without letting them affect you. You should't try to avoid mistakes. You should try to resist them. The same goes for match ups you think you're bad at, like Samus in this case. Winning or losing doesn't matter if you're not learning anything from the match.
You can apply this to your wobbling game too. Let's say you drop a wobble and end up losing a tournament game because of it. It sucks, sure, but you can't do anything about it so you shouldn't let it affect you. Because it will make you no good. Going into the following game with thoughts like "I can't drop the next wobble no matter what" will just make it much more likely that you'll drop it. And more importantly, it will take your focus away from the only thing that really matters: the next game. Then after the set or the tournament has ended you can look back and think about what you did that worked out well and what you need to work on. If you dropped pretty much every wobble the whole tournament then you can work on improving that part of your game. Was it due to nerves, sets up errors, or perhaps because your timing was a little off? Once you have a idea about what caused your mistakes you can start think of ways to practice that will make it more unlikely that you'll do the same kind of mistakes again. Of course you'll make some of the same mistakes again from time to time, but if you practice is efficient then you'll make them less frequently which is you goal.
Mistakes and bad plays are really important in order for any player to become better. However, with the wrong mind set they will make you no good and will just result in frustration and make the game less fun to play in a competitive setting. Getting a good mind set can be hard though. However, it's something you can work on all the time and you can use it in your everyday life too. And once you get there, you'll see that it will affect your results too and you'll improve at a much faster rate I've worked a lot on my mind set throughout the years, and when it comes to smash I've made some quite amazing come backs and won "important" tournament sets because I don't really get frustrated when I make mistakes (which I do all the time). My set against Scar at Evo is a good example of this. As I've also mentioned in my guide then you can't really be successful with Ice Climbers if you can't handle bull ****. ICs is the most chaotic character in Melee and lots of stupid stuff happen all the time (both to you and your opponent). Use the chaos to your advantage.
And also, don't get frustrated if you get frustrated even though you tried to avoid getting
frustrated (you get the idea). Stuff like this takes time. It's like when you meditate the first time with the goal "Don't think about anything; don't let anything distract
you" in mind. This is pretty much impossible the first time you try it, but it get better with time.
TL;DR
Process > Results