Gay people

[GwJ]

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Some people I talk to tell me that they'd never hang out with a gay guy that he suspected had feelings for him.

I dunno about other people, but I've been in that situation. I don't roll that way, but it sure is flattering in my opinion.

Short blog is short.

 

[Vinylic.]

All he has to do is say that he's not interested. But then comes the hard part where you can't because you might verbally hurt his feelings.

Pretty frustrating if that happens to me.

 

[Sunnysunny]

If a gay guy gives you the business, i'd take it as a compliment. I've been hit on a total of 3 times by gay guys. Not my thing, but I take it as a huge compliment~ <3

Thanks gay guys. <3

 

[ndayday]

I'm not gay either but it would be pretty flattering I guess. Suppose it would depend on how well you knew the person.

 

[Spelt]

If someone had feelings for me that I couldn't reciprocate for whatever reason I'd probably avoid them too.

 

[ciaza]

it's happened to me, i just act like the guy has no feelings for me, then when i am with him casually mention how i like vaginas

casually, of course

if that is somehow too explicit bring up a mutual female friend and mention how slammin' her booty is

then he'll think to himself, 'oh man that guy's straight, better give up on him now'

 

[Vinylic.]

Looooooooooooooooooooooooooooool.

I'm not gonna say it's a brilliant plan, but if that works for you, then I have nothing to oppose about it.

 

[Gatlin]

The "that he suspected had feelings for him" part is funny, because some people suspect much too much. It reminds me of all the straight guys who assume that because I'm gay, automatically makes me irresistibly attracted to them. Like I'm a mindless sex-robot. In which case, I would not want to hang out with them, either.

 

[Spelt]

To be fair, most guys are pretty much just mindless sex-robots...

 

[ViperGold42]

I have 2 brothers that are gay........you got a problem....come at me bro.

 

[Teran]

Ha I never have this problem because all my friends are REAL MAN grrr

Not attracted to masculine men in the slightest, at first when I came out my friends had suspicions I was just saying that, but now that they've seen the kind of guys I prey on, they get it.

Now I pretty much get a barrage of kisses from them (on the cheek etc) on every night out. Feels good man.

 

[Exceladon City]

I have an attraction to straight men solely because they generally have all the traits I look for in a guy. Unfortunately, I leave it to wishful thinking and hope that they'll admit their bi-curiosity to me and it'll be a happy little love story or something.

 

[Oasis_S]

I think Shorts told me that getting a straight man to allow you to _____ them gives you some kind of special gay badge on your gay sash. Maybe they're like those gold stars that some lesbians get.


Don't meet many gay men, but I think I would fall into the uncomfortable camp though. Probably just because I would be embarrassed with how easy of a mistake it is to make.

 

[GwJ]

Teran gettin' dem smooches

 

[Holder of the Heel]

Excel's avatar absolutely rules this thread. @_@

I've had a couple gay guys crush on me, one being someone who I went to school with. While yes, it is flattering in a sense (though it also serves as a reminder as how effeminate I am), but I found it less enjoyable to be around than a girl that has a crush on me that I don't have feelings for. In both situations they have different expectations of the interaction which is always uncomfortable, but as a typical guy, I only put effort into talking to people when I think I can make whoopee with.

That, and the one that comes to mind was way *****ier than any woman I've ever known.

 

[Evil Eye]

I used to be a slightly homophobic meathead **** for brains jock type in high school. Literally the stereotypical ignoramus you see in movies and stuff. I wasn't stupid, of course, but I had a very narrow view of the world and how things really work. Then one of my best friends came out to me halfway through.

It was sobering, but really it's been one of the best things to happen to me because it forced a much greater depth of thought upon me when it came to sexuality, and this of course naturally applied to other arenas of thinking or belief. I became a much more well-rounded person.

There's never been a scrape of awkwardness about it and once I got used to the idea it was business as usual. Also every time he's doing some kinda somethin' that a lot of cute girls will be attending he hits me up, so he's pretty much pure homey


EDIT:

Also, funny enough, Teran might be the internet homebread I talk to the most about dem wimmens and such. For a big ol' homo he has an uncanny appreciation of the female form

 

[Holder of the Heel]

It doesn't matter if you're gay or straight, people understand that women are just more beautiful than men.

 

[Teran]

It doesn't matter if you're gay or straight, people understand that women are just more beautiful than men.

Not true, the male physique is a ****ing marvel. It is actually far more shapely and defined than a woman's, by far.

They're both pretty amazing in their own ways, remember, eye of the beholder man.

I mean ironically I don't even find adonis physique sexually appealing so go figure.

 

[Evil Eye]

I'll give you defined but I just can't give you shapely. We'll have to involve the U.N. in this negotiation.

 

[Teran]

I'm not going to get into this, it's going to get pretty gay.

Here's a peace offering.

 

[Exceladon City]

I'm not going to get into this, it's going to get pretty gay.

Here's a peace offering.

Well played.

I'll see you that and raise you this.

Even though I'm a queer, my taste in men reflect my would be taste in women. I like them artsy and hipster-esque; like Feist.

 

[KRDsonic]

I'd assume that for a straight guy, having a gay guy interested in them wouldn't be much different than a woman being interested in me. I knew one online that was interested in both me and my boyfriend. Honestly, it was awkward. There's a difference between being interested in someone and hitting on someone though. I'd feel awkward if a guy hit on me seeing as I'm not available. Though I tend to avoid that by small things I say.

Of course, if a straight guy were to feel uncomfortable around me, thinking that I was interested in them, then I'd probably hang out with them less because it would show that they're way too self-centered if they think that they're that irresistible, and it would be awkward for me to be around them.

 

[Evil Eye]

I'm not going to get into this, it's going to get pretty gay.

Here's a peace offering.

hgggggghghghghghhghghghg

d.

I'll see you that and raise you this.

No raising was done! The bet wasn't even seen! Teran wins the hand just fold mang

 

[Exceladon City]

hgggggghghghghghhghghghg



No raising was done! The bet wasn't even seen! Teran wins the hand just fold mang

There, is that better?

Or

This?

I'm not up to date on the "Hot Women" metagame.

 

[Jam Stunna]

All right guys, watch what you're posting.

 

[Shorts]

Girls are currently the embodiment of beauty, but it didn't always used to be that way. Greeks for a long time thought men were the most attractive gender.

As for what holder said, I would agree that women are generally more beautiful. But when I see an exceptionally good looking guy, he trumps any woman that could ever be standing next to him. My brain anyways.

As for the problem at hand. Take it as a compliment and move on. At lot of freshmen girls had crushes on me during my senior year of highschool, and its flattering to say the least.

 

[Holder of the Heel]

Yeah, I don't mean even gay guys are attracted to women more. You're right though that the Greeks were obsessed with the male physique, though honestly that was perhaps the epitome of a male dominated society. And even they, in their mythologies, spoke of women as the most beautiful, if I remember correctly. Men were generally associated with being better spiritually/mentally. XD

 

[Teran]

Dude there's a reason a lot of greek statues are just hunky naked men.

 

[Pachinkosam]

Am gay in this thread lmfao.

 

[Holder of the Heel]

Hey I'm not denying that.

 

[rPSIvysaur]

How did a thread about gay people turn into posting pictures of hot girls?

Only Teran would derail a gay thread into chick pics.

 

[Wretched]

I think gay people lie when they say that they can have straight/platonic friends that they are not attracted to.

If you are attractive, you are attractive, and it doesn't make sense to me that a gay man wouldn't find a straight man physically attractive purely because he is straight.

I have lesbian friends who I would love to bone. In fact, every lesbian friend that I have ever had that is attractive I have wanted to bone. Nahm sayin'?

If you're gay and you dig the manbutt, its cool, but don't deny your natural want to bone everything, whether it be men or women or ponies.

 

[Spelt]

A guy isn't going to be attractive to every gay guy.

There are these things, called opinions and preferences and whatnot, you might have heard about them.

 

[ZTD | TECHnology]

I'm a pretty masculine acting gay guy and I just end up hanging out with more straight guys in general (I do have a lot of gay friends though). And some of my straight friends are pretty attractive both in looks and personality. And some of them know, I find them attractive but I'm not trying to hook up with them or convert anyone. My friends are all incredibly cool with my being gay because they know I'll never try anything on them. I think a lot of straight guys these days don't care too much until you try to make a move on them. The same way we as gay men want our respect and acknowledgement of "I'm gay and this is who I am", straight people want that as well and to have their boundaries respected. As long as you aren't like "Oh **** girl, I'ma turn this str8 boi here. I know he wants some ****!", most people don't really care.

 

[Teran]

I work out like a straight guy.

I never do abs.

 

[Wretched]

A guy isn't going to be attractive to every gay guy.

There are these things, called opinions and preferences and whatnot, you might have heard about them.

I dunno if this was in response to me, but it was right after my post so I'm going to acknowledge that it is...

I never said every gay guys want to bone every man in existence. I'm saying that sexuality doesn't change your preferences, as in gay guys won't NOT find straight guys attractive solely because of the fact that they're straight.

I've had gay friends who have tried to bone me when they knew my sexuality, and I've had gay friends say that they could never want me because I'm straight. I'm just saying that's not how it works.

 

[Grim Tuesday]

I flirt with all my attractive straight friends; its hilarious.

 

[Seartu]

Man, I consider myself fairly attractive and I never get hit on by my gay friends.

Some of you guys must be studs.

 

[Firus]

I never said every gay guys want to bone every man in existence. I'm saying that sexuality doesn't change your preferences, as in gay guys won't NOT find straight guys attractive solely because of the fact that they're straight.

I've had gay friends who have tried to bone me when they knew my sexuality, and I've had gay friends say that they could never want me because I'm straight. I'm just saying that's not how it works.

Doesn't the opinion/preference thing kind of apply to that mentality too, though? Couldn't "straight" be a turnoff for some people?

 

[Wretched]

I don't think sexuality should be any sort of an indication of your personality. I know it is wrong, but sexual preference is an unreasonable indicator of someone's preferences.

I say that it is wrong because sexuality is sexuality and personality is personality. Teran acts very straight yet he is gay. If he acted really gay and he was straight, should that change any gay man's attraction to him? I don't think it should.