Playing with Lord is even better! He offers more actionable advice!
The competition is really, really tough in norcal. I've only taken a handful of tournament matches against PR'ed players and still not a single set. Luckily, lots of tournaments (literally every week there's at least 1, frequently 2 or 3, tournament within 40 minute drive), very friendly scene, and very high density of different skill levels so you can always find someone near your skill to play. I highly encourage you to come by sometime :D