No problem. And I'm a guy XD I don't think there are too many girls on this website. There are a few, but not a ton. But don't worry about it. It's a privilege to be able to help someone. I'm honestly just inspired to see that you're seeking God.
As for Stephanie Staples, I'm not sure if she's of a denomination. And we don't flame anyway (I always thought flame was just an internet term anyway) if someone's of a denomination. It's all about following God's Word, not creating sects and divisions. And the Word describes the believers as Christ's body (Colossians 1:24), which is something that should not be divided in any way.
But a bit more of an update: Neither of our two ministers were there tonight at a devotional time we had (campus students led the event tonight, I think the ministers might be out of town?) so I'll give one of them a call tomorrow. Anyway, just keep your heart set on God and may God bless you.
P.S. Just so you're not confused when you head to our church, we tend to use the New International Version (NIV) of the Bible. I'm not sure what you currently use. It's just sort of the standard for our church so no one gets lost using different translations. If you are using a different translation, you'll be able to follow along for the most part, but it can get kind of hectic (I used to have the New Living Translation and it threw me off a little when trying to follow people reading the NIV).
The NIV is a good translation, though. It's sort of the middle ground between literal and figurative. The New American Standard Bible is translated very word for word and the New Living Translation takes a lot of expressions into account and sift through the language to make it flow a little nicer. The NIV is a good balance between both of these, which is why I like it. But I do like some passages as they're translated in other versions.
Anyway, just wanted to give you the heads up. Don't feel like you need to run out there and buy it, but don't hold yourself back if you want to. BibleGateway.com is a good resource for that type of thing, they have nearly every translation on there. If you want you can use that to see how the translation is in that version.
Anyway, I'll talk to you later.