fam i feel like this is coming from the pov of someone who isn't a victim
people who feel hurt or harassed by awful, prejudiced comments don't want to help change bigots and awful people or teach them the difference between right and wrong because they should know that already
usually we just want to not talk with them or open up a forum for them to speak their garbage opinions at all because we'll get hurt, or others may get hurt, or something bad will happen (triggers, breakdowns, etc)
also bigots don't change that easily
you keep giving them a pass to explain their pov, and they'll keep explaining it and hurting people. or worse, radicalizing younger people
Ok, so i’m going to respond to this as a straight white male, and I agree entirely with what you just said about the emotional aspect of not wanting to have to change people. However, I do want to respond.
It does get tiring that people behave certain ways. However, the fact of the matter is that people
do think that way. There are people fighting and standing up to that **** all the time through protest, appealing to emotion through social media, and other forums.
I hope this doesn’t offend anyone, as I am an individual who has faced hardly any (if any at all) oppression. I’m a middle class raised, straight white guy who has a masters degree and now has a job teaching in NYS. Very few people have that.
What I teach my students everyday are ways in which society can be better. It can’t be better if people don’t speak up about it.
Even if it’s not speaking to the bigots directly, you should still speak your truth, and speak it loud, in unison, with other people.
If you want to see the change, you have to be it!