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As someone who grew up in a Texas Christian household as an Atheist and have convinced my relatives to at least not see Atheists as rebellious manchildren or evil, take my word for it. It's hard and takes a while, but it makes them less of an ass-hole.fam i feel like this is coming from the pov of someone who isn't a victim
people who feel hurt or harassed by awful, prejudiced comments don't want to help change bigots and awful people or teach them the difference between right and wrong because they should know that already
usually we just want to not talk with them or open up a forum for them to speak their garbage opinions at all because we'll get hurt, or others may get hurt, or something bad will happen (triggers, breakdowns, etc)
also bigots don't change that easily
you keep giving them a pass to explain their pov, and they'll keep explaining it and hurting people. or worse, radicalizing people too
I get no one wants to spend time to change perspectives and I do think the government plays a key role in the grand scheme of things.
But on a small scale perspective with a friend or on a forum with regulars, it really doesn't hurt to exercise what's being said. Obviously, what I'm saying wont stop the problem entirely. Christ, if it did, we wouldn't be having this conversation. Change is slow, though, mate. Since most of us don't have roles in the big game, we have to play the smaller picture with the community, and, while hard, patience and understanding goes a long way. How I see it is support the victims and change the aggressors without trying to be either.
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