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What are you most excited about for E3?


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NonSpecificGuy

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I really had a screw loose there, huh?
No, you just aren't comfortable in your skin. You want to be accepted by everyone for everything and that's ok. It's not necessary to be accepted by EVERYONE. Just be more comfortable with yourself and the way you are.
 

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You know, as a straight white male, I also struggle with wanting people to think I am good. There's so many stereotypes thrown around about people in my category, about how we're all insensitive racists hellbent on being super conservative and anti-LGBT
Now imagine being a straight christian white male

Yeah thats me
 

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Listen, the point I'm trying to make here is everyone is valid no matter what they identify as. Whether you're cis, straight, gay, trans, or anything in between, you deserve to be treated the same as everyone else.

Finding something to call your "identity" is hard in this day and age, when there are so many of them floating around, but I just want y'all to know that no matter who you are, or what you identify as, you're all valid, and I love you.
 
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You don't know about the mandatory testing you need to do in order to be gay?
The Gay Master comes to you when you say "I'm gay" three times in a row and gives you the gay test and if you fail you become straight.
I don’t experience a huge amount of dysphoria, I identify the way I do because it feels freeing and I genuinely don’t think I can sit in one place as far as any kind of label goes. I feel girly and boyish and neither.


I feel fake due to not experience uncomfortable amounts of dysphoria, though there was a little (for months I’ve been like ‘I don’t even feel like I wanna be a dude’” for a while). I’m constantly trying to convince myself I’m not doing it for attention.
Hey, I know exactly how that feels since I don't experience any dysphoria as well and as I said sometimes before, the more time passes, I'm starting to think I don't fit in either gender too so I'm almost always in a constant "I'm probably faking it because I'm not sure of it" mood but... that's okay, no one is going to know for certain how comfortable they are with an identity if they don't try to experiment it. You shouldn't feel the need to validate anyone other than yourself and you have no need to rush it either. Just take your time and eventually you'll be able to say who you are with confidence.
 
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Okay. I think I was overreacting.

One thing. Can you all view me as a part of the LGBT group please? I am part of it, but I want you all to feel it more.

I will calm down.
I know I asked a similar question to this yesterday, but I feel like it is important.
Have I made a good impact in the LGBT community?
Am I qualified as a member?
There’s no LGBT community. You’re referring to a very wide variety of people that you can’t consistently please. My advice would be to find respect for yourself first, you don’t need validation from a group. That’s how you get the ****ty “with us or against ua” mentality that people have.
 
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I’ve never not considered you a part of it- in fact, I’ve always considered you as a part of it more than I am since I still very much feel fake and invalid... Er, but that’s a story for another day.

You’ve always been loud and clear with your identity as a bisexual “intellectual”
Hey, you are not invalid.
 

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The Gay Master comes to you when you say "I'm gay" three times in a row and gives you the gay test and if you fail you become straight.
Can confirm. Failing the test makes you straight.
 
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I do not want you all to think that I have thought that LGBT was a club and you had to get an invitation to go in.
My brain just exploded, okay?
 
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By the way, I’m not in the camp that wants to vilify giant groups of people

I’m not that kind of person.
 

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I don’t experience a huge amount of dysphoria, I identify the way I do because it feels freeing and I genuinely don’t think I can sit in one place as far as any kind of label goes. I feel girly and boyish and neither.


I feel fake due to not experience uncomfortable amounts of dysphoria, though there was a little (for months I’ve been like ‘I don’t even feel like I wanna be a dude’” for a while). I’m constantly trying to convince myself I’m not doing it for attention.
There's no rule saying you have to go through a lot of dysphoria or anything like that. Everyone experiences their gender identity in different ways, it doesn't make your interpretation of your own identity any less valid. What matters is what feels most comfortable for you, not what other people think you should be. I don't have any strong sense of dysphoria either; sure there are some things about my body that I'd change if I could, but that's true of almost everyone. It doesn't make my sense of identity any less valid, and it shouldn't affect you either.

Ultimately it's just about what you feel is right for you. Whatever that is, it's perfectly valid, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
 
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erdrick launch day on japanese nintendo servers like

Honest to God, I don't think Erdrick's reveal would cause as big of a splash as Joker was over at Japan. Looking through various social media, while Cloud's reveal is still the most viewed on niconico, look how much traction it got over on Twitter. It's ****ing astronomical and might be the biggest reveal in Smash history over there. Not even Snake, who has BIG legacy with MGS there, has these numbers.



If all the rumors are true -- and this is where I'm coming from -- it's going to be interesting to see the response from over there, simply because they've only requested Slime out of that series and that's it, as far as I saw from poll results. And yeah, Dragon Quest does have legacy there, it's a semi-daily series, but with Persona, we only get a few Persona games every console generation, and that name carries some serious weight. I'd be shocked if Joker gets beaten out.
 

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if someone doesn't join this arena in five minutes i will literally
play as plushiedea
 
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Don't really have much to say here cause I'm a cis straight guy, but do whatever you feel happy with. Sexuality doesn't define us as people. Who are we to judge? Do what you find happiness in, that's a rule of life. Unless it's murder.
 
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