Hello, it is I, tehponycorn, who is, in fact, a guy. I hope that you don't consider me a complete ******* because I try not to be. If I am, then I'm legitimately sorry.
I hate to say something like "not all guys" because people often say that to white knight or defend blatant misogyny, but I really have to say that not all guys are complete ********.
Sure, a good majority of them are, but not all of them. Generalizing your personal experiences to an entire population is dangerous; it's how we get things like sexism, racism, and xenophobia, and I'm sure you don't want to be associated with things like that.
You're a good person at your core, and I know you're better than stuff like that.