Professor Pumpkaboo
Lady Layton| Trap Queen♥
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well Ive been with my gf who lives in Cali for 6 years so it sometimes works but honestly, no one needs a 2nd person to make them whole. there are tons of single, happy and whole people out thereI'm aware of the issues with long distance things. This isn't actually my first time rekindling something with an old flame back in Ohio. The last time it happened, when she came out to visit for a week it just... didn't work. Like at all. She's happily married now, though. I have a lot of regrets involving her, but good for her.
My worries in this scenario entirely involve self-doubt and my penchant for only seeing negative outcomes. Every relationship I've had has failed due to my own inadequacies. This woman for whatever reason has persisted in trying to know me despite those inadequacies, on and off for twelve years. I just can't tell if that's a sign of something good or a sign of something desperate. And I already know what my in-person friends and family would say (a rehearsed chorus of "GO! TAKE A RISK!" because they all want to see me married for some ****ing reason) so I guess I'm looking for other perspectives. Thank you for yours.
I don't know why I need a second person to 'make me whole'. I don't like it.