The Unhappy Thread

[Vexor1011]

You can't ask anybody to just sit down and chill?

 

[Zatchiel]

You can't ask anybody to just sit down and chill?

That's happening later, possibly, but I'll be on my own after midnight. I haven't slept in over 24 hours so I'm hoping exhaustion overtakes me before any of the sadness.

I'll get a grip. I don't really have a choice.

 

[Vexor1011]

If you're having trouble sleeping you may want to see a doctor. You really shouldn't be thinking that way. Getting a grip rarely helps, I'm afraid. It can only make the issue get stronger within yourself.

 

[Dr.SMASHING]

It's June and the weather is still iffy in Brooklyn! JUST BE PURE SUN MAN!!!!

 

[Vexor1011]

We're getting rain almost every day. Honestly, the weather has been going crazy the past few years.

 

[Dr.SMASHING]

We're getting rain almost every day. Honestly, the weather has been going crazy the past few years.

Ikr! I believe it's going to rain on Tuesday or Wednesday. Seriously, come on weather.

 

[Vexor1011]

We're expected to get more storms I'm fairly certain. But, I love the rain.

 

[Dr.SMASHING]

We're expected to get more storms I'm fairly certain. But, I love the rain.

I like a nice drizzle when I'm sleeping. It's very soothing.

 

[Octavium]

I like a nice drizzle when I'm sleeping. It's very soothing.

My roof is as thick as a bunker, I wish I could hear those drizzles xD

 

[Froggy]

I absolutely hate my living situation. I live right next to an asshole who is always blasting music, I have no space in my room and I have to go downstairs to use the bathroom or kitchen. 6 people to a bathroom is very gross too. Ther eis also a pest problem, I think I killed the last remaining mice that was coming into my room over the weekend but I suspect there are bed bugs over here as well. I'll be 26 in a little over two months and for my own sense of self worth I am getting out of there by then.

It occured to me last night that the reason why I'm still stuck in rooming housing despite being 25 and my 4th job now after college is because of my student loan fell into collections, right now I'm paying back 700 a month. And if I could just take 200 away from that a month and put towards rent I'd be able to afford an aparment comfrtably enough. I'd only be finishing my payments 2 months later so hipefully the loan company will go for it if I tell them I got evicted. That's plan B though, Plan A is to get a better paying job.

 

[BlueX]

I absolutely hate my living situation. I live right next to an ******* who is always blasting music, I have no space in my room and I have to go downstairs to use the bathroom or kitchen. 6 people to a bathroom is very gross too. Ther eis also a pest problem, I think I killed the last remaining mice that was coming into my room over the weekend but I suspect there are bed bugs over here as well. I'll be 26 in a little over two months and for my own sense of self worth I am getting out of there by then.

It occured to me last night that the reason why I'm still stuck in rooming housing despite being 25 and my 4th job now after college is because of my student loan fell into collections, right now I'm paying back 700 a month. And if I could just take 200 away from that a month and put towards rent I'd be able to afford an aparment comfrtably enough. I'd only be finishing my payments 2 months later so hipefully the loan company will go for it if I tell them I got evicted. That's plan B though, Plan A is to get a better paying job.

I think all i can say is just go to Plan A.

 

[Murlough]

I hate to spill this here but no one in my life seems to give a damn. I think I'm gonna break up with my girlfriend.

She and I can't hold any kind of conversation unless its something sexual. It drives me insane! I know I'm a guy and we are meant to dig that or whatever but that is just not me. I'm ok with talking about it but **** if I don't want to discuss other things sometimes!

She is a sweet girl but I just don't feel the connection I want with a woman. I feel like this relationship is doomed to fail but she is kinda my first girlfriend and honestly I'm worried no one else will ever say they love me. It's terrifying to me because I can't stand the thought of living my whole life alone.

And if I do break up with her she has had a history of self destruction. She has hurt herself over alot even when i begged her not to. On top of the fact that I'm the only guy shes dated that actually gives a **** about her. If i dump her how will she react? What will she do? I don't know what I should do.

 

[Octavium]

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Do you two have anything in common that you both love? Share passions for somethings?

Please give her another chance though, try to find something to talk about or do that you both enjoy. It can range from sports to games to art to even a TV show, heck even some facebook games.

If you both still have nothing to talk about to each-other other than sex after that, that's usually a pretty big sign you aren't really mean't for each other(unless sex involves most of your life). Being in a relationship still retains elements from friendship, if you aren't friends while being lovers, its hard to keep it up.

Coming up with a painless breakup speech is even harder than asking a girl out from my experience. But if you're really sure, that being together is going to hurt more than not, then try your best to make her understand completely. Just don't ditch her, try to keep talking to her if you do break up.

 

[Murlough]

We like some of the same TV and movies. She plays video games too occasionally but she isn't nearly as into them as I am. She likes to paint and I am a fan of art. She and I enjoy similar music and we are both affectionate people. We just can't hold conversations about anything xD.

There are things that we have that adds to my tension though. She is a vegetarian while I definately enjoy eating meat. That wouldn't be a problem at all (in fact it is intriguing to me) except for the fact that we can't eat out anywhere unless she just eats sides while I get a full meal. She says that its fine but it does bother me.

Also she is a devoted Christian and wishes for me to be one too and says that I'm just "finding my way". Except I was Christian once and I have sworn it away. I am agnostic and that will not be changing anytime soon. I'm fine with having differing beliefs but she really expects me to change my beliefs, eventually. It isn't happening.

 

[Octavium]

Well if despite all that, things still don't work out, there's not much more I can say to help you buddy.

All I can tell you is that love can't be healthy if it isn't mutual. I wish you luck!

 

[Froggy]

We like some of the same TV and movies. She plays video games too occasionally but she isn't nearly as into them as I am. She likes to paint and I am a fan of art. She and I enjoy similar music and we are both affectionate people. We just can't hold conversations about anything xD.

There are things that we have that adds to my tension though. She is a vegetarian while I definately enjoy eating meat. That wouldn't be a problem at all (in fact it is intriguing to me) except for the fact that we can't eat out anywhere unless she just eats sides while I get a full meal. She says that its fine but it does bother me.

Also she is a devoted Christian and wishes for me to be one too and says that I'm just "finding my way". Except I was Christian once and I have sworn it away. I am agnostic and that will not be changing anytime soon. I'm fine with having differing beliefs but she really expects me to change my beliefs, eventually. It isn't happening.

Before you break up with her you should tell her that you feel disconnected and that the onlly thing you guys are able to talk about is sex, and if the relationship is going to work that needs to change.

I once had a girlfriend who had the same problem and could only talk about sex. I brought it to her attention and it turns out the only thing she knew how to talk about was sex and we broke, but once my thoughts were validated I didn't feel regret in the least. If she is worth your time then she'll be able to pass this hurdle with you just fine.

 

[Murlough]

Before you break up with her you should tell her that you feel disconnected and that the onlly thing you guys are able to talk about is sex, and if the relationship is going to work that needs to change.

I once had a girlfriend who had the same problem and could only talk about sex. I brought it to her attention and it turns out the only thing she knew how to talk about was sex and we broke, but once my thoughts were validated I didn't feel regret in the least. If she is worth your time then she'll be able to pass this hurdle with you just fine.

I did bring it up a few weeks ago, actually. She got pretty upset but she said pretty much the same thing. Her old boyfriends only really talked about sex and didn't care for her as a person. So it is understandable. I just wish I knew how to let her know that I'm not the same way.

 

[Vexor1011]

Ask her how her day is going. I ow she feeling. What she thinks. Do t expect it to happen and don't wonder about how to make it happen. Hellx you could sit down and explain to her how you feel.

 

[Dr.SMASHING]

My roof is as thick as a bunker, I wish I could hear those drizzles xD

You're really missing out. I'll sleep like a baby whenever it drizzles.

 

[Zink Imp]

I'm hanging with this girl. She's lots of fun and she loves to hang out with me. We like to party hard and sh*t. One thing is that I DON'T like her like that. I think she's a great friend. I'm just under the impression that she might have a crush on me. Some things seem like she doesn't and she repeatedly calls me her "best friend" but other times she is grilling me about other girls and she likes to complain about boys to me, I think dropping hints that I should make a move. And I don't really want to. She's probably the closest friend I have now and I actually don't want to ruin that. I hung out with her last night and I'm afraid she might get upset with me that I won't ask her out or something.

Never thought I'd have this problem lol. Hoping that I'm just making this stuff up.

 

[Cyn]

I'm hanging with this girl. She's lots of fun and she loves to hang out with me. We like to party hard and sh*t. One thing is that I DON'T like her like that. I think she's a great friend. I'm just under the impression that she might have a crush on me. Some things seem like she doesn't and she repeatedly calls me her "best friend" but other times she is grilling me about other girls and she likes to complain about boys to me, I think dropping hints that I should make a move. And I don't really want to. She's probably the closest friend I have now and I actually don't want to ruin that. I hung out with her last night and I'm afraid she might get upset with me that I won't ask her out or something.

Never thought I'd have this problem lol. Hoping that I'm just making this stuff up.

If she is that good of a friend, then she will appreciate honesty. I'd just confront her about it.

 

[Zink Imp]

If she is that good of a friend, then she will appreciate honesty. I'd just confront her about it.

I'll only say something if things progress. There's a possibility it's all in my head.

 

[MewtwoMaster2002]

While I'm staying at my grandma's house on weekdays for a temp job that lasts until mid-July, my mom calls and tells me she's disappointed because apparently $15/hr is not enough for a college graduate. The only college graduates I know who make a lot more than that are people who studied engineering or computer sciences, and even then not all of them get high paying jobs. :/

 

[Octavium]

While I'm staying at my grandma's house on weekdays for a temp job that lasts until mid-July, my mom calls and tells me she's disappointed because apparently $15/hr is not enough for a college graduate. The only college graduates I know who make a lot more than that are people who studied engineering or computer sciences, and even then not all of them get high paying jobs. :/

Over here 15$/hr is where you start, if you do great you can get a raise, but a graduate with no experience doesn't deserve more then that where I live. I'm not sure about Cali's economy though, all I know is canadian money ain't worth crap atm.

If I were you I'd try my best to not let it bother me, in my book 15$/hr is just fine and this is only a temporary job, I wish you the best of luck buddy!

 

[MewtwoMaster2002]

Over here 15$/hr is where you start, if you do great you can get a raise, but a graduate with no experience doesn't deserve more then that where I live. I'm not sure about Cali's economy though, all I know is canadian money ain't worth crap atm.

If I were you I'd try my best to not let it bother me, in my book 15$/hr is just fine and this is only a temporary job, I wish you the best of luck buddy!

Thanks. Minimum wage is about $10 in California.

 

[Froggy]

Whenever something bad happens that I would usually tell my girlfriend, I get sad and remember that that we broke up and now I don't have anyone to share these experiences with. That primary companionship is so valuable to me.

 

[Murlough]

Well, apparently I don't have to worry about breaking up with my girlfriend. Because she, out of nowhere, says that we need to talk about something later. I tell her that she can let me know now if something is bothering her (this was all on instagram) and she replies saying it would be better in person.

So I ask if something is wrong and she says that she has been thinking alot about her life and what she wants from it. Then I respond saying that she could tell me now and that it was all right. Now she has ignored me for 4 hours which has never once happened since we started dating (4 months).

I guess it's fine since I said I was thinking about breaking up yesterday but it would be nice if she would at least tell me how she felt and why she doesn't want to be with me anymore. I've done alot for this girl but I guess she doesn't respect me enough to simply come out and say it.

I apologize to anyone who reads this but I have to vent or I'm never gonna fall asleep tonight.

 

[Vexor1011]

Don't feel bad about it. That's what the thread is for. I was int he exact same situation a little while ago. The easiest way I found to deal with it was to do something I usually didn't. It probably won't work for someone else, but I figured I could give it to you. Give yourself a freedom if you know that you can find it.

 

[Dylan_Tnga]

Well, apparently I don't have to worry about breaking up with my girlfriend. Because she, out of nowhere, says that we need to talk about something later. I tell her that she can let me know now if something is bothering her (this was all on instagram) and she replies saying it would be better in person.

So I ask if something is wrong and she says that she has been thinking alot about her life and what she wants from it. Then I respond saying that she could tell me now and that it was all right. Now she has ignored me for 4 hours which has never once happened since we started dating (4 months).

I guess it's fine since I said I was thinking about breaking up yesterday but it would be nice if she would at least tell me how she felt and why she doesn't want to be with me anymore. I've done alot for this girl but I guess she doesn't respect me enough to simply come out and say it.

I apologize to anyone who reads this but I have to vent or I'm never gonna fall asleep tonight.

On the bright side, you've only been with her 4 months, you'll get over it quickly.

If I was you I would just send her a message saying it's done but I hope we can stay friends or something like that.

You deserve better than her dude, find someone who you can actually share your thoughts with. Being single is awesome, I prefer being single because you have more freedom.

 

[Yonder]

Well I saw a school therapist for the first time ever. Just getting to touch base on my depression, got a package to fill out too. I hope this therapy works...nothing feels different yet in my mood, but these changes just don't happen on the spot right?

 

[Dylan_Tnga]

Well I saw a school therapist for the first time ever. Just getting to touch base on my depression, got a package to fill out too. I hope this therapy works...nothing feels different yet in my mood, but these changes just don't happen on the spot right?

Nope. And do yourself a huge favor. DON'T take antidepressants no matter what anyone tells you. I did and it almost lead to my demise, and quitting them caused physical pain.

Therapy works wonders, it's good to talk and get perspective from someone that isn't a friend who will automatically agree with you.

 

[Deleted member]

My grandparents were in town since Monday and they just left a few minutes ago. I didn't even get to say goodbye to them and it's making me upset and I even cried because of it. :/

 

[Cyn]

My grandparents were in town since Monday and they just left a few minutes ago. I didn't even get to say goodbye to them and it's making me upset and I even cried because of it. :/

I'm sure they will miss you too .

 

[Vexor1011]

Nope. And do yourself a huge favor. DON'T take antidepressants no matter what anyone tells you. I did and it almost lead to my demise, and quitting them caused physical pain.

Therapy works wonders, it's good to talk and get perspective from someone that isn't a friend who will automatically agree with you.

Not all friends will tell you what you want to hear...

 

[Froggy]

Well I saw a school therapist for the first time ever. Just getting to touch base on my depression, got a package to fill out too. I hope this therapy works...nothing feels different yet in my mood, but these changes just don't happen on the spot right?

It takes a little while for therapy to have any effect, the thereapist won't get to know who you are from a questionaire or a single sesion, but once they do then it becomes bery helpful.

 

[rock12et]

help plez bine having tonerys and want to stream it can u guys help and post it a round the web

 

[Space Stranger]

help plez bine having tonerys and want to stream it can u guys help and post it a round the web

This isn't the thread for you to advertise towards your stream. You might have to find an alternative route for that.

My grandparents were in town since Monday and they just left a few minutes ago. I didn't even get to say goodbye to them and it's making me upset and I even cried because of it. :/

You could always call or email them. I'm sure they were late for something.

Don't feel bad over it.

 

[Teran]

Yeah please don't use the site just as an avenue to advertise your stream.

 

[BSXDrayden]

I'm mad that there's literally nowhere on the internet I can go to avoid the leaks. I'm mad that leaks exist. I'm mad that people are reporting them. I'm mad that I can't just wait until tomorrow for the news unless I actively ignore every website I go on for a day.

 

[Scarlet Knight]

I'm mad that there's literally nowhere on the internet I can go to avoid the leaks. I'm mad that leaks exist. I'm mad that people are reporting them. I'm mad that I can't just wait until tomorrow for the news unless I actively ignore every website I go on for a day.

I know that feeling, leaks ruin the surprise....
Still excited for Roy (Sorry Ryu...)
but my hype won't be as huge as it would have been if the leak wasn't shown...