Uhh... Sorry for interrupting conversation...
Just needed to seek some advice.
Okay, so my friend (one of my closest friends) got a girlfriend recently, right? She's shy, but she's pretty nice. I ended up becoming friends with her, and now she considers me a pretty good and wise friend. Okay, that's cool and all.
She harmed herself on the way to school a few days back. Now she's kicked out of school until she gets an assessment from a professional.
She's young, so she can't go to a professional without her parents signing off on it or paying for it or whatever (I've never went to a professional myself so I'm not sure how this works). However... Her mom won't take her. Her dad doesn't have the time to take her. She's stuck at home not having a way back to school. I'm having to bring her make up work to her so she doesn't fail out of school.
Her boyfriend is in an almost as bad state now because of this (which I expected... but still :/ ). He'll go with me to see her and to give the make up work to her... Afterwards and while we're walking there, he'll be throwing something, cursing a lot, crying... It's terrible to watch.
We tried talking to the school counselor, but it didn't do any good. Her mom is the source of her hurting herself, but she won't tell an adult that. Her mom got really mad when she got sent home from school not because she was cutting or anything, but because she got caught by an adult. Anyways, since she won't tell an adult that it's her mom causing it, the counselor won't help in any way. The counselor probably wouldn't even help unless it is physical torture or something (It's mental/emotional).
I tried talking to my parents, but they said that we (the kids supporting her) can't do anything to help her besides talking to her. We're all 17 and under (including the girl herself), so there's nothing we can really do.
Basically, what I'm trying to get out there is... Am I missing something? Is there something I can actually do besides talk to her? What should I be saying to the girl? What about the boyfriend? I'm so confused as to how to help. I've tried a few things, but I'm just not getting through to them, and I don't know if I can at this point. Any advice before it gets worse? :/.