There is no debate that Pit was trash and poorly made in Brawl, except by fools, fanboys, and freaking ignorant people. Still, Pit's moveset, skillset, and playstyle has tons of potential, which I think will be mostly discovered and realized in Smash WiiU and/or Smash 3DS.
What happens when belligerent elitists ARE skilled regular tournament goers?
There are very few of them, and they usually aren't that good.
And t0mmy isn't elitist, he and his twin brother are nice as hell, and yes, I have played with them and talked with them before.
The difference with you and him in terms of his opinion is that he hates the camping gameplay, and he is dedicated to stopping it. Really, a lot of things right with the community are thinks to t!mmy and t0mmy. He is right in his eyes because he has tons of experience, and has dealt with campy as heck players and tournaments on a large scale, where you probably haven't.
Your views of stages really don't match Brawl's gameplay on a national level, even with Meta Knight banned, especially in which the way the game is played. At a small scale level, eh, what's popular survives above all else.