Trust.
We don't know the entire process, and the timing does matter, but I don't think it's much of something to focus on.
I noticed that a lot of people have trouble putting their hopes in characters, apparently because they don't want to be let down. I think that there could be something to help people invest their hopes in better ways. Because face it there's always disappointments in life when you expect one thing and don't get it. You can hope for a character without expecting it and feeling in a way that you need it to happen. Anything can happen, and even if things don't go your way, you can still learn to have a positive outlook without that, even if there might be hurt from the past expectations, you can still enjoy what there is and hope for and contribute to great stuff that you like. If you put all your hopes in one thing, you're setting yourself up to get stuck in the disappointment because you're not looking to enjoy everything else, including other things that are possible. It's ok. You can hope, and you can heal, and there's more to look forward to, all kinds of things, as well as in general. It's great when things go our way, and they can, but sometimes the way it goes is great in itself too if you can see it.
I just felt like I had to get that out there. It's been on my mind for a while, blooming.
cheers <3