plugging in controlers is abd for the game because it requires no skill or thought and anyone can do it.
You're wrong about that. Do you have any idea how difficult it is for some people?
First, you have to find the little plug on the controller. I mean, how are you supposed to do that? They didn't put a neon sign on it or anything.
Then, once you finally manage to find the plug, you have to find the console. I don't know about you, but I think it's pretty easy to misplace those things. Plus, they look really similar to DVD players, TVs, computers, and smartphones. It's hard to tell which one is the console.
Them, once you finally find the console, you have to plug in the controller. Hopefully you haven't forgotten where the plug on the controller is, otherwise you'll have to find it all over again. Anyway, now you have to find where to plug it in on the console. And they're covered in holes, so you really have to go through and try each one until you get the right one. But what if there are multiple spots for the controller to go in? That's pretty confusing, but you just have to make a guess and hope you get the right one.
See? Plugging in a controller is pretty difficult. I hope you can appreciate that now. Some people really struggle with it, so you should learn to understand their feelings.